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"in a sexless marriage".......anyone else hear this?
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"in a sexless marriage".......anyone else hear this? Email after email arrive in my INBOX...."In a sexless marriage" "looking for excitement" "Married but sexually unhappy".... The list goes on and on... I need a flashing neon sign on my profile....DONT WASTE MY TIME.. It irritates me to no end.... Why does everyone have to be a coward? Face the music would ya? There is MORE TO LIFE than living in a sexless, unsatisfying marriage. One of these days, you will all figure out that YOU are the one missing out. Your sexless spouse is probably on another website, pleading her case about being in a sexless marriage. It seems that no one wants to grow up, buck up, face the facts. Its just easier to "cheat". Easier to grab a quickie with a stranger, than to actually have to REVIEW their own life, Look at their own faults and perhaps make a costly change.... If you think that people dont know you are here....you are wrong...If you think your wife doesnt know...you are wrong....AND...if you think its a great choice...you are wrong again... SO....PLEASE....Don't email me....I don't care WHY you choose to live unhappy sexless lives.. Trust me, I've already heard all of your excuses.. And that is just what they are...excuses... And the worst part of it is..you are only excusing yourself.... |
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3/8/2006 4h45 |
I agree with Khufu2, it's not always cut and dried. The problem is (in my opinion) that in some cases it's a totally valid explanation, and in others it's just a line, an excuse, part of the used to bed somebody. I'm pretty up front in my profile that I'm in a Poly relationship (which pretty much gives me a free pass to see other people) but it seems that just the fact that I'm NOT sneaking around is a buzz kill. Like part of the thrill is the attendant drama of "cheating".
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3/8/2006 6h25 |
Arent you glad that we live in America and "freedom of speech" is a privledge we all enjoy? Thank you for your comments...
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3/8/2006 8h34 |
I'm in a sexless marrage......That is nothing more than a ploy for pity, a rationalization for one's behavior in order to get into some womens pants. We are what we are, if we cheat then we need to understand that's what we are doing and can the BS excuses. It's really that simple. (I lied, it's not really that simple. Some people need those BS excuses, they are a crutch. They may not work on you but they do work on some people. That's why you hear them)
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3/8/2006 11h26 |
Chuckk48....I hope you find happiness... xoxox
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4/8/2006 8h48 |
Thanks Christine, don't get the wrong impression, I'm happy. I understand sex is not the most important thing in the world or even the most important aspect in a relationship. Convincing yourself or someone else that it is or even portraying it that way can create some serious problems.
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14/11/2006 21h16 |
Hi, i dont think Christine is a lost cause-if so there are alot of us that are. All of us have the same symptyms, We run our lives as to succeed,missing the goal of true happiness in a relationship. We fail time after time, the hurtful comments,mental abuse, non existing sex life, these are all classic signs of a marriage. As soon as the partner who is in control, usually the woman (hey what would you expect me to say) starts the sex war, it will never be the same. The excuses, you know them all, everybody does, becomes a long trail of misfortune for what a couple is putting itself thru. Its all so senseless, we forget how good it was or used to be, not realizing it can still be. When you go out, meet someone, do a little kissing ,feeling up, Why does seem so exciting? We had this, then what happend, we lost it, So i guess we try to find it again. I really dont know why it happens, but i dont think Christine is unhappy. just betrayed by someone, that at one time was her hero.. Love and out Rickey
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17/11/2006 9h05 |
Rickey...Thanks for the comment... Keep playing your music...
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15/12/2006 11h00 |
you were here when you were cheating on your husband
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27/12/2006 18h52 |
and YOU would know that because ????
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29/3/2007 21h52 |
I think this thread got a little side tracked, decieving one's spouse is wrong. Now before I get a bunch of arguements citing specific cases, we're not talking about specific cases, we're talking about a generality. Includeing someone else in "your" deciet of "your" spouse is even more wrong. This isn't the 14th, or even the 19th century, if you're in an unhappy marriage, then get out of it. That simple. It may not be a simple thing to achieve, or even simple to make the first step towards that goal, but we each have the lives we are living now to live. Why waste that limited amount of time chained to a situation that is displeaseing? I don't think anything Christinegirl said is wrong. Personally, my wife and I are poly, but both of us reserves the right to veto a potential partner for the other. I would be devastated, enraged and whole range of other emotions if my wife betrayed by trust by breaking our personal rules for our relationship. And I would expect the same is true for her. Marriages needn't be unhappy. Even mono marriages needn't be unhappy. My wife and I were monogamous (I think I spelled that right) for the first 4-5 years we were together and we were as happy as we could be. We chose to change our lifestyle because we wanted something different and because we trust one another not out of unhappiness. Oh well maybe I went on over long but that's my two cents worth.
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4/4/2007 7h10 |
Hey Travis....Thanks for the post... I appreciate your insight.
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1 message 11/4/2007 8h11 |
Again, as Khufu2 said, this is an adult sex site. It is not supposed to be a dating or relationship building site. There are plenty of those out there but it is not here. If guys are emailing you telling you why they are not happy at home but would enjoy fucking you then you shouldn't get bent out of shape. If you are here you should be looking for sex. Why they want to hook up isn't a factor.
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