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Weird confessions on sex addiction and masturbation...?
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Weird confessions on sex addiction and masturbation...? This is gonna be weird. And embarrassing. Mostly cos it's....somewhat true. But also cos I've always thought I was more discreet and in control. Anyhow. This covers several things. Let's start with this. The husband and I have been out and about a fair bit this week checking out potential places to move into. We're currently housing at a friend's place and, while nice, it's....not the same. And quite frustrating and tiring living out of boxes. So we've been actively searching and we've seen some nice places. But I digress. We've been out and about, and this morning he finally told me to dial it down. To relax and keep it under control. I had no idea what the fuck he was on so, I asked. Apparently, not as discreet as I thought I was when checking people out.  So every place we went, he was naming the people that I was actively checking out. And the worst thing was, he was right. I WAS checking them out. But I had thought I was more discreet than that. I didn't know or realise that I was doing it blatantly. The husband wasn't pissed though, just...very matter of fact. Which makes it a lot more embarrassing. Fuck ... I gotta learn some skills for self control Moving on to the next item on the list. And this one, he was pissed. Rightly so...? Yeah. Anyhow. Backstory - my first trip to China for work this , the boyfriend had flew in and met me there. It wasn't planned, and the bf didn't inform me til late so I didn't inform the husband. I ended up hooking up with the bf during the trip and even met some of his friends and we had a good, fun time. Like group-action fun time. The husband wasn't pleased with it in the beginning but we talked it out and we made it work. We even facetimed for awhile while I was with the bf and his friends. Apparently its "a thing". But anyhow, that was that. My second trip into China I had made plans to meet up with the bf again, and hopefully his friends too. But that didn't turned out as planned (in one of my previous post). More importantly, I had neglected to inform the husband that I was going to meet the bf again. After. Got back, he didn't ask so I kinda didn't mention it. It somehow came up the week after and then it kinda blew up in my face. I gotta hold my hands up on this one. It was my fault for not informing. I get it  The conversation that followed though, cut a little deeper. He's convinced I've got a sex addiction problem. Like seriously. I've always thought it was something people use as an excuse when they get caught cheating. I don't think I have a problem. I DO try and have a LOT of sex, but its with people that in a committed relationship with. Like if all my relationships fail, not gonna just run out and fuck the first stranger.....actually, hang on. Let's not go there. But in any case, THAT conversation we had is actually making re-think a lotta things. So I dunno...we'll have to review this. I mean, that's why I blog, right? Therapy of sorts. That's that though.Onto something a little more....personal preference-ish. This , I have found, I have had a lot more anal sex than I usually have. Definitely more than last . Like....we are 7 months into the . I've had more anal sex in the first 6 months of this than I've had the whole of last . Waaaay more. Like prep work and all. Seriously getting into it. One main reason is cos, well....I like it Like I've always been a fan, but this ...I dunno, I really like it. So much so that recently, I've found that I even need something in my ass when I masturbate. I used to think that if I need to, I can just rub one out in the bathroom. No big deal. Gawd damn it. AM I now one of those people who HAVE to have something else going on to masturbate? Like does masturbation now need to be an event? Fuck I hope not. That can be tiring. LOL Ah well....it's the weekend so....(whatever that means )sure Ill at least figure that last bit out. The rest? Might take a bit longer. Once again, thanks for reading y'all! Hope you have a good weekend, and, as always, hope you get laid! 
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FYI - I'm still not identifying with the sex addiction thing. Also, do you make your masturbation a big deal? Is it a "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am' and be done with it? Or do you have some....odd ritual that you must do to get off? Inquisitive minds like to probe  Do tell.
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when ever no girl with me then i musturbation
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Weird post.......but I guess you are trying to cover all things in one go  Things should settle down and be less edgy once you find your own place again. Yes, you should really kept your hubby informed more. It's not like he doesn't know or object, so you're just asking for trouble. Offer of Spanking still open  Sex addiction? I don't think so, but you should try and be a bit more discrete in your perving. Masturbation. I find myself holding out for a good subject matter to Wank to, and even pop down the supermarket at ground level of my apratment to see if there are any girl worth fantasising about. Sometimes I leave it so long that I just HAVE to pull one off using profile pics from WhatsApp or Line of girls i've Fucked
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6/7/2018 6h23 |
Your lovers are very lucky that You love anal sex...it is awesome.. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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The reason why you married your husband, its because both of you are sex addicts lol, honest truth. Normal family life with kids and the same sex over and over again with the same person wont do for either one of you. He tried and failed. Im sure the two of you will be happily together forever. Lastly i love that you are an anal lover, so rare and hard to come by these days, im saying it from a anal loving guys perspective. Not many woman knows how to enjoy anal sex. Im getting more fond of you day by day
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I wish I was closer and could help you out, fulfill your needs etc. Nothing wrong with being addicted to sex, its harmless and has a lot of health benefits. Unlike drugs and alcohol...
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It's a fine line between just enjoying sex and an addiction! You will have to decide that. Anal is like icing on the cake! And I luv cake!! 
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Checking people out: If your husband notices when you're checking people out, it could be because he's particularly perceptive, or that you're really blatant. Without asking someone else for a second opinion, it's hard to say. My wife has a pretty good sense of my type, and if she sees a woman she thinks might be my type, she'll often point her out. Often I will have already noticed. Sometimes she'll see me noticing first, and just smile a certain way that means, "I saw her too." I have very little sense of her type though, in men or women. I know she likes butch women, but beyond that I'm not sure. And I know that she's not fond of out-of-shape men, but a lot of fit guys aren't her type either, so I'm not sure there either. But I guess what matters is that I fall within her preferences. Play rules: Since your rules are pretty much "anything goes, as long as you communicate" (and presumably stay safe), it's really a good idea to let him know. That's probably something to work on. Addiction: I'm a bit of a skeptic about behavioral addictions: sex addiction, Facebook addiction, video game addiction, etc. About the only one that has strong evidence behind it is gambling addiction, which is something scientists have studied enough to show that it's for real. But it's certainly possible for behaviors to get a person in trouble by interfering with necessary activities, trouble with the law, dangerous risks, etc. And in that case it's a good idea to monitor one's self, and be cautious about things that lead to trouble. Masturbation: Unusual as it may sound, I haven't beat off in about eight years. Since I met my wife, I haven't had a dry spell so long that I've felt the need to take matters into my own hands. It's so much more satisfying to come by way of sex with another person, and because I can only come so many times per day, I don't want to waste it by beating off. But before I was with her, of course I did. For the physical side, I mostly just used my hand, but I occasionally used a cheap knock-off of a Fleshlight. For the mental stimulation, I most often used print magazines back in the old days, and on-line stills later. Sometimes I just visualized things with women, sometimes celebrities, but more often in-person acquaintances I found attractive. Video wasn't so much my thing, but sometimes I watched videos too.
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Nothing special going on my lady - just getting in touch with your inner goddess And discussions on the subject with the significant other tend to articulate, and place in perspective the changes age brings to a prodigious , even libertine mind Cheers - P
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Hi partygald, thanks for sharing. Simply i wouldn appreciate and encourage her to enjoy life fully but safely. If she just feel shy and hide in that case too wouldn't mind for her. After all a lady has got right to enjoy by hiding something from loved ones. Keep enjoying & good luck from - Indian yogi
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Having to rely on masturbation stinks.......why is it we end up with partners who initially share our sexual desires and then theirs fade away?
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Having to rely on masturbation stinks.......why is it we end up with partners who initially share our sexual desires and then theirs fade away?
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