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The disparity is disturbing. Lack of effort? I think so...  

partygald 41F
3082 messages
17/7/2018 23h42

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The disparity is disturbing. Lack of effort? I think so...


Headed into town today and was reminded why I make it a point to not want to head into town😝. It’s hot AF, crowded and just....too friggin frantic for my liking. (Then again, I haven’t had the best of weeks so.... acting like an cranky fart. And yes, very much aware of that)

Anyhow, running through what I need to do in town and one thing I’ve noticed is how in some couples, particularly the ones that are have been dating for awhile but not long, and ones where the guys are older than the girls. I hate to stereotype and I KNOW generalising here, but the females look like they bothered putting something nice on, and the males just simply, don’t. not saying one is more attractive than the other although sometimes that’s the case, but it really appears like the males, or those males, just can’t simply care about being presentable. Like really? I know it’s got nothing to do with me but I found myself getting irritated and agitated by it😊

A couple just walked past and the lady was in a nice dress, and the guy was in a tshirt that didn’t fit and shorts that look like they belong in a bedroom. Like come on! A lil effort pls...?

I know I know...none of my business. For all I know she might like em sloppy....?😳. being a real cranky puss. Rant over. Gonna continue skulking on my own. Hope your weekend went well. If you must know (I know you don’t, but gonna tell you anyway🤪), mine sucked. Not in any good way. Sucked in a not-satisfying way. Boo!

partygald 41F
1963 messages
17/7/2018 23h44

See!! This is what happens when you don’t get laid! Wait a minute...scratch that. This is what happens when it’s not satisfying!

Anyhow. Thanks for reading! 😊


MyBaffies 54H
4983 messages
18/7/2018 1h22

Yeah I've seen that before - looks like the guy hasn't made an effort at all.

I wonder if in some cases it's down to the "This will do" mentality where the guy doesn't like clothes shopping so puts anything on to make himself look presentable in public.

Or maybe it's where the guy feels he's got his "catch" and doesn't need to make the effort any more in how he presents himself.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


ClitLickB4DickU 65H  
1392 messages
18/7/2018 3h14

Hmmm........Cranky indeed !!!

Maybe you should write about that unsatisfactory sexual encounter you had, and why it was so?

Not knowing what you mean by "in town" in Bali, i'm assuming that the couples you are referring to are on holiday? Myself I quite often see couples in Bali where I think that the lady is Way Overdressed for the occasion/location........perhaps this really is a Male/Female perception thing and I would be that "sloppy male"


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 messages
18/7/2018 3h21

I've been complaining about that very same thing for years now, as it applies to the swingers here. The ladies will make the effort to look sexy and attractive at the club or meet & greet but most of their men look like they climbed off their lawn mower, washed their hands (maybe) and showed up still in their sweat-stained tee shirt & cargo shorts!


storkjwr18 48H

18/7/2018 4h36

It's actually interesting to read this from your point of view. My oldest and dearest friend has always said the same thing about married woman. "Why once they are married does it seem like they quit making an effort in their looks"

I would venture to guess, the answers come down to style, wardrobe, and/or venue.

For instance I'm more comfortable in my shorts and a tee. I'll wear that out anywhere. Jean's if it's cold (but nice non holy). I do have a couple nice shirts to wear for a venue that requires more dressy, and I like my Hawaiian shirts of course my wife likes to twirl in a dress, so she will wear one any chance she gets.

Just the thoughts of an old codger


myelin36 53F
3612 messages
18/7/2018 5h31

Older guy and younger girl..hmmm let me think.. could it be because maybe she's not with him for his looks but more for his MONEY?

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partygald 41F
1963 messages
18/7/2018 16h22

    Citer MyBaffies:
    Yeah I've seen that before - looks like the guy hasn't made an effort at all.

    I wonder if in some cases it's down to the "This will do" mentality where the guy doesn't like clothes shopping so puts anything on to make himself look presentable in public.

    Or maybe it's where the guy feels he's got his "catch" and doesn't need to make the effort any more in how he presents himself.
Don't know. But whatever it is, it's disturbingly irritating
Thanks for stopping by


partygald 41F
1963 messages
18/7/2018 16h24

That is actually a pretty darn good point. Thanks for that


partygald 41F
1963 messages
18/7/2018 16h28

    Citer ClitLickB4DickU:
    Hmmm........Cranky indeed !!!

    Maybe you should write about that unsatisfactory sexual encounter you had, and why it was so?

    Not knowing what you mean by "in town" in Bali, i'm assuming that the couples you are referring to are on holiday? Myself I quite often see couples in Bali where I think that the lady is Way Overdressed for the occasion/location........perhaps this really is a Male/Female perception thing and I would be that "sloppy male"
Had to ride an hour into smack middle of Seminyak from outskirts of Ubud so...hang on a sec, that's riding into another town, pretty much. But anyway.
I know what you mean, and that's an entirely different issue. I've seen those inappropriately overdressed ones. Like heels to the beach. But this is a separate thing. I think they're similar in appropriateness. But that in itself is also a matter of perception. Hmm...


partygald 41F
1963 messages
18/7/2018 16h33

    Citer TicklePlease:
    I've been complaining about that very same thing for years now, as it applies to the swingers here. The ladies will make the effort to look sexy and attractive at the club or meet & greet but most of their men look like they climbed off their lawn mower, washed their hands (maybe) and showed up still in their sweat-stained tee shirt & cargo shorts!
oh my god...just....no. No. No. There's a time and place for everything. I can appreciate the sweaty t-shirt look but....if you wanna look like you're doing yard work, then get back out in the yard! LOL
Show up for meet & greet like that and expect some action? No...no no.
Thanks for chipping in


partygald 41F
1963 messages
18/7/2018 16h35

    Citer storkjwr18:
    It's actually interesting to read this from your point of view. My oldest and dearest friend has always said the same thing about married woman. "Why once they are married does it seem like they quit making an effort in their looks"

    I would venture to guess, the answers come down to style, wardrobe, and/or venue.

    For instance I'm more comfortable in my shorts and a tee. I'll wear that out anywhere. Jean's if it's cold (but nice non holy). I do have a couple nice shirts to wear for a venue that requires more dressy, and I like my Hawaiian shirts of course my wife likes to twirl in a dress, so she will wear one any chance she gets.

    Just the thoughts of an old codger
Yeah, I do agree, time and place for everything. We all do have our favourite and most comfortable get ups. But...I just think some people just don't bother with the effort a lotta times. Like it's taken for granted. And I do also agree, both genders are guilty of doing that.
Thanks for stopping by


partygald 41F
1963 messages
18/7/2018 16h36

    Citer myelin36:
    Older guy and younger girl..hmmm let me think.. could it be because maybe she's not with him for his looks but more for his MONEY?
Could be. Like I said, I don't know them. But that is the unfortunate stereotype too, ins't it?
Anyhoo..thanks for stopping by


discreteSteve62 50H
2169 messages
13/8/2018 1h59

When we're just out on errands, both of us are likely to just dress for comfort. (Some of my clothes are pretty worn, but they still look good.) But when we're going somewhere like a date night, we typically dress up, and we both look pretty good.

I'm somewhat older than she is. She says she married me for my oral talents. We're both OK in terms of money.


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