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Chivalry is slowly being choked to death (And its not by who you think)  

Linc1912 47H
369 messages
13/11/2018 16h10

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Chivalry is slowly being choked to death (And its not by who you think)



I have gone to a door while doing something on my phone. I look and see a woman behind me. I'll open the door and step to the side so she can walk in behind me without doing anything.
Without breaking stride, she says
"Dont a man holding the door for me."



Years ago I worked at a lumber yard. A lady pulled into the back with her Prius and 3-4 GIRL POWER stickers on the rear window. It was 5minutes til closing (OF COURSE) and she said she needs 10-20 paver stones. I asked her to open her trunk for me n she goes "not necessary, I got it."
So I stood there, and watched her pick through, and load her paver stones into her car.She closed the trunk then look me right in the eye and said
"DID IT! WHO NEEDS A MAN!?"



I was running to an elevator and saw the doors close. I looked at the woman that was in the elevator alone n said HOLD THE DOOR PLEASE. She pulled out her phone and pretended to be engrossed in the screen as she doors closed on me.


Yep, those happened to me. Did I label all women as hateful beings? no. Some are, but not all. This is because able to discern the good from the bad. Where did things spiral so outta control?
is it Feminism?
is it #metoo?
is it ongoing "state of the world"ness?
is it Clueless men AND women?
is it Trump? (had to put his name there!)


Then I come here and see the words Chivalry is dead.
Men aren't as Chivalrous as they use to be..
Men LACK common courtesy these days..
Why are men these days such Assholes?!


We know ALL men aren't guilty of this. Even on a site like this, a mans TRUE character will eventually make him stand out from the rest. Kinda like a hard dick, from a limp dick!

I try not to ask for much.. (Reading my profile proves that)
Most men dont ask for much. Beyond sex, beyond food, beyond a nice car in the garage.. Just Do onto me as I do to you.
Aren't Manners and Common Courtesy Gender- Neutral?

Men are being so confused by the state of the world that we arent sure if we should open the door for you, or STOP. And let you open it for yourself.

If you are stranded on the side of the road- do we stop and offer help? Or
do we roll the window up and speed on.

If it starts to rain, do we hold our umbrella out for you, or GIVE you our umbrella and walk away..

Im not even dating, but I see the world becoming uber confused, and theres no end in sight to stop the confusion. Its getting more and more difficult for men to do "what they were taught by their mom". Last thing we want to do is make you feel less than a human. That's all ive ever wanted to be treated as.

Nowadays some men are even AVOIDING women all together because its less confusing.

.
So whos to blame?

~Linc was here.~


Heathen_G 65H
7974 messages
14/11/2018 1h27

Yep, those happened to me. ... Of course they happened to you, and other men, raised by their moms in 80's and 90's.... the two worse decades ever in the history of the world to be raised male. Complete gender behavior mutilation for the male. "Strengthen the little girl"..."Weaken the little boy". .... That was the social game plan. Even Hilary enforced the idea of empowering girls to be strong women.... In my opinion this is what ruined her chances...... because what of the male child? Even in commercials, in the last 20 years, the message has been strengthen the girl child and teach the male child to play with dolls and wear pink. .... No wonder we have so many men with gender dysphoria.

Did I label all women as hateful beings? ... The women you described above, are NOT hateful............they are the new woman, they are what society wants. The new breed of women.
Stronger. Self sufficient. Girls to women, have been socially empowered to not depend on men, to not need a man [as she rightly said]....... Now the problem with you guys, still trying to be Captain Niceguy and help the little woman, is seeing her behavior as hateful. Your mom just didn't give you the right memo. She sabotaged your growth.

Unfortunately , the revision to raising a male child, was to make him think he is equal to a girl, or equal to his sister AND teach him to be the little gentleman [doormat/sucker] to a gender that will not require men to be chivalrous [that's gone with typewriter ribbon] . Mom [and maybe pussy dad] further imprints upon him, that his sister wears pink , cries, plays with dolls....then he should wear pink , cry and play with dolls, but also be a gentleman. And households of divorced parents, son living with his mom, or in households where the dad has low self esteem, lets this happen to his son.

This is because able to discern the good from the bad. ... Actually the women whom you think are hateful, by telling you they don't need men to do that, are not hateful.
The "Hateful" women are those women who will still allow you to make a fool of yourself by playing chivalrous for her. She's taking full advantage of your confusion.

Where did things spiral so outta control? ... Back in the 1960's when women burned their bras. From there, women just changed for their own betterment. Meanwhile little boys were taught to be girly gentlemen. .....From that confusion, some of you may know guys you grew up with go and get a transgender operations or grow up thinking they're gay.

is it Feminism? .... Yes.

is it #metoo?..... Not helping. This group is just destroying men without due process.

is it ongoing "state of the world"ness?... No. The "State of the world" has always been rocky. We are just more aware of the rockiness due to the internet.

is it Clueless men AND women?.... Clueless [or pussified] men? Yes. "Women being clueless"?.... Not so much.

is it Trump?.... Not at all. This guy just pulled the rug back to show all the dust and shit swept under it in the guise of "Political Correctness", in the last 40 years.

Then I come here and see the words Chivalry is dead...... As it should be. We went from wooden wheels to rubber wheels to steal belted rubber wheels.... we went from pony express to telegraph to mail, to email....... things change. Chivalry is passe , stop whining.

Men aren't as Chivalrous as they use to be.. .. Women are not as needy as they use to be.

Men LACK common courtesy these days.... No . Only seems that way to the male raised pussified. Men have adapted to the change. in fact, men have their own movement called , "MGTOW".

Why are men these days such Assholes?!... We're not "Assholes". We are evolved men , for a new time.

We know ALL men aren't guilty of this.... There is no matter of guilt. There's only those males who are confused about how to be, and those who have adapted and moved on.


Aren't Manners and Common Courtesy Gender- Neutral? ... No. Men and women have had a different set of manners. But now those "Manners" have evolved with the times [or should have]. That means some manners have just gone away, and rightly so.

Men are being so confused by the state of the world that we arent sure if we should open the door for you, or STOP. .... It's not confusing. Sorry your mom messed you up. I'll make it simple for you.... just "Stop".

If you are stranded on the side of the road- do we stop and offer help? .... No, absolutely not, because you could be charged with a false r*pe accusation, thanks to #metoo followers who have learned they can do that and get away with ruining a man.

do we roll the window up and speed on.... Yes... call the police, and inform them of the stranded motorist.

If it starts to rain, do we hold our umbrella out for you, or GIVE you our umbrella and walk away...... No. Neither. First... do you know the woman? If you don't, then tell her to buy an umbrella at the next convenient time for her.

Im not even dating, but I see the world becoming uber confused, and theres no end in sight to stop the confusion..... Oh well. You can choose to stop being confused , and understand that your mom gave you faulty input.

Its getting more and more difficult for men to do "what they were taught by their mom"....... That's the problem... moms don't want their sons to be good at scoring pussy. So that should tell any man raised by his mom , he's been socially fucked over by his mom.

Last thing we [the men] want to do is make you [ the women] feel less than a human. .... "Less than human"?! ....what are you talking about?....... You behaving with a woman like she's socially above you , or behaving like you need to do everything for her, whom you have no intimate history, is making you seem less than human , and demonstrating low self esteem.


Frankie_Valley 57H
33 messages
13/11/2018 19h36

Sheesh! Where do you live? Themyscira???

I always hold the door open, etc., etc. for women and have never caught that attitude from any of them. They're always very appreciative.

If anything, they'll just walk right in and not acknowledge my gentlemanly gesture. In those instances, they're either just entitled people and/or clueless because they're originally from misogyinist parts of the world, and don't know how to react to such gestures.


IVFalternative 52H
630 messages
13/11/2018 19h29

With any problem, you have a choice whether to seek someone to blame or seek a solution. These options are mutually exclusive.

If a woman tells me she doesn't need a man to hold a door open, I give a cheeky grin and reply "I know that, I just wanted to oppress you!" and keep holding the door open.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


traveljunkie13 56F
11089 messages
13/11/2018 17h56

My man and I have had this conversation because he's really anti-feminism and I'm a total feminist! But I'm secure enough in myself to let a man be a man. So when he opens my door, helps me down the stairs when I'm wearing heels, or whatever else he does because he wants to make my life easier, safer for me I'm cool with it. In return, I respect him and treat him like the man he is. I don't try to baby him or control him. If I disagree with something he says in public, I wait till we're alone to talk about it. I don't disrespect him and he doesn't disrespect me. Maybe we're both old fashioned but I saw my parents treat each other like this and their marriage was rock solid till the day my dad died. I can't stand women who take joy out of belittling the man they're with or men in general.


positively4you 74F  
4605 messages
13/11/2018 17h41

Ball busting women is who to blame. They don’t speak for me. Please hold my door, pull out my chair, buy me a drink and just be nice to me. All I ask.
And it works both ways. It should know no gender. Feminists don’t have all the answers. I can and do take care of myself and thankful that I can.
But a nice thing by a nice man makes the days easier.


Linc1912 47H
978 messages
13/11/2018 16h11



~Linc was here.~


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