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Perfect Case Study for Psychiatrists
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Perfect Case Study for Psychiatrists Hi Friends, I would like to share one horrible experience that I had gone and I am still confused about what happened. Though its a long story but would try to type in brief. Once I had a brief arugument with a lady here at passion during chat on India Room. She was arguing with some people, other people were abusing her & she was reciprocating in same fashion. I politely advised her to ignore people who use bad words, why to spoil her mood. She thought I am taking side of other people and she started abusing me also. She sent one hate mail to me. I replied to her mail in polite manner and tried to pacify the matter. More I tried to pacify, more she got aggressive, so I left it. Some months later, I came across her profile with another name. I just thouhgt of extending friendship and sent her a mail. Though I was not expecting a reply, still she immediately replied ans asked my contact number. I replied her with my number. Time was approx 11 pm in night. couple of minutes later I got a call on my mobile and caller introduced her as same person. We talked for some time in the night, where in she disclosed that she is not well these days and has appointment with doctor. She was not well exactly, I could understand from her voice too. We agreed to become friends and remain in touch through phone and email. I called her next evening also to enquire about her health. Like this we talked for couple of days, we excahnged our chat ids. One day in noon time I had talked to her quite long time. During that discussion we decided to have dinner together. I went to her area in the night, picked her and had dinner in a restaurant. All our conversation was very friendly & humble. She used to complain about, how guys harass her. They used to sent her filthy sms, talk with her in abusing language on chat. I was condemning all this as I believe, why should we harass someone, if another person is interested in me, fine other wise proceed ahead. There is no point in following one and harassing. She disclosed that people she has stopped giving free sex and believes in gaive & take now. I went to drop her at her residence. As a nice gesture she invited me inside her apartment, though she lives alone. I hesitantly went after her. I asked her way to wash room and went to relieve myself and wash face. By the time I came back she had changed her upper kameez (top) with a gown and was removing her salwar (lower). I sat in her drawing room, she offered water and I took. We chatted for 10 minutes approx on topics related to her life. I wanted to go now as it was midnight. I asked her for permission to leave. She forwarded her hand to shake. I wanted to hug her so opened my arms. She hesitantly and very briefly came to me & hugged me. I held her face and wanted to peck on her cheek, which she refused, so I stepped back. We said good night and I returned. When I was driving back, she called me and played some music of her choice on computer and let me hear it. She thanked me for dinner and at the same time expressed that she was not in a mood to hug me. I said sorry. She asked me to give her a call when I reach my home to tell her that I have reached safely. I called her a day after and had normal talk. Next day also I called her on mobile we had normal talk. Same day in the evening she called me again and complained that I should have not tried to hug her. I again said, if you are hurt I am sorry, though my intention was not to hurt you. She kept on discussing on this issue only and told me many times, why I did so, why such thing came in my mind etc? I tried to explain her many times that it happened spontaneously and I did not mean to hurt her. Moreover when she refused, I stepped back automatically like a gentleman. She started becoming aggressive and abusing indian guys who hurt women, later one directly started being aggressive on me. I obstructed her, that she has started using bad words which is not right and she must keep cool. She did not listen to me and gradually became more aggressive and abusive. She literally abused me and was not listening to me. She abused and cursed me, my wife, my daughter, my mother all. She called me a "". She even threatened me that she will find out my address and will come to my family and disclose to them that I have done bad with her. She asked me to give phone to my colleague and tell him about me. It had only crossed limits so I disconnected call, but she kept on dialing me. I did not reply and blocked her number. In frustration she sent me an array of hate sms with third class filthy language, abuses and curses. It was horrible and I was distracted. She did send such sms next day too. I tried to keep my temper cool as I did not want to enter in mud war where even if you are good, but mud is bound to stick with you. I am still wondering what wrong did I do? Whatever I did, I had already said sorry for that. On a positive note I am thaking God that it happened in the very beginning other wise consequences would have been worse...... Does any one has clue why about this psychological situation ? Oh God, you are great !!! |
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well obviously nut job and finds pleasure in accusing and abusing others my playing herself the victim!
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