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Ohhhh The drama
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Ohhhh The drama I wasn't sure which post I should start off with .... my rant over the A FF drama and the idiots behind it OR .... on the brighter side of passion, "My Friends" (the reason I keep coming back) and those yet to become Friends. I thought I would start with my rant as I'd prefer to keep my friends on top. I haven't had a whole lot of time to spend on line these last cpl of months, let alone to blog...plus I just haven't felt much like writing, but when I do get some spare time and a semi-working PC ..... first & foremost I drop in to see my friends. At times I may get on line briefly, so I don't always get to drop in A FF, but do at times get a chance to squeeze in a quick semi-catch-up chat in hoo. I've been hearing of all sort of drama, much pettiness and just plain idiocy. Although I wasn't actually here I've "Seen" things... Yes I too can speak in riddles. When it all began I was around quite often, It started out ... A friend had a problem with someone so he took it up with the other party (in private) apparently that went badly and there were issues. It became something of a battle. When it came to others, he may have spoken his mind concerning the other person, and even attempted to enlighten some on certain facts, but never threatened to give out personal information (or as others did ..actually give out information) on the innocent ppl that didn't "take his side" he never issued any ultimatums. He never asked the rooms to fight his battles for him or handle it for him, he never called for reinforcement, he never made threats and issued warnings to anyone who happened to be a mutual friend of both sides. He may be a guy ..... she may be female, and outside the cyber world that may have given him the advantage (physically) had it been a physical fight. Here it is not a battle of physical strength it is basically a battle of wits and if your unarmed you should not even be in a chat room. Everything is not always peaches & cream (in any chatroom) just because your female. If a guy, a girl, or a group wanted to go around with me in a chat room, I'd say bring it, because I know I am capable of holding my own. I'm not going to ask or let anyone fight my battles for me ...especially while I sit back meekly and watch someone else handle MY business. I'm not going to get mad because my friends didn't jump in and lets face it, there are 3 sides to every story. Too many (mostly males) were jumping into the mix either because they felt it would get them some cyber ass or even more cyber ass than they were already getting from certain individuals. Others jumped in because they Sooo love the drama, and for some it just makes them feel "IMPORTANT" like kids in high school. And again others were blackmailed into getting involved. I think that would have to be the lowest thing I've heard so far, to blackmail someone into taking sides or doing something they didn't want to do. But a lil FYI in case people don't know it yet... posts, archives, emails all can be changed to say anything anyone wanted them to say...so before I would allow myself to be blackmailed as certain ppl have, just remember that. In the cyberworld not everything you read is always true...anything can be changed. Only a fool believes everything they read. Unlike some ppl I'm not going to even pretend to know what actually happened in private on either side, I was not there, and since conversations & such can be changed I dismiss them.... the alternative? I rely on one's character, history and reputation and I evaluate what I am told with these things in mind. My evaluation of the whole thing? ...... Well first of all my friend to my knowledge is not one to be petty, jealous or just an outright trouble maker. My friend may be a cut up... and I say this with love lol, may be a bit of a smart ass *chuckles* but that's ok cause I'm a bit of a bitch with just a hint *chuckling again* of sarcasm at times too... When you have a certain group of people that have a past history of ... Well .... I will list just a FEW examples... 1. Ganging up on someone they are jealous of or who doesn't fit the mode of their acceptance ... IE: kissing their ass. 2. Connive & plot to hurt others behind their backs.... IE: spreading rumors & lies and planning how to "take someone away from someone else" because they want that guy or girl which that person happens to be with (which is most likely the only reason they want them anyway)....tsk tsk 3. Use blackmail, intimidation & group bullying to try and make others do as they say 4. People who gain one's trust under false pretenses (of being your friend) ... whilst convincing said friend to reveal personal thoughts, feelings, life's events etc... only to archive their posts to hold and use against them later when they feel you are not in compliance with what the "clique" expects of you. 5. People that have (not suggested they wanted others to leave the room out of anger, being upset or whatever) but blatantly telling people to "Get Out" as though the room were OWNED by them... LMAO..AS IF!!!... pshhhh pleaseeeee I'd love to enter a room and have someone tell me to get out...lol Anyway the list goes on, and quite frankly these types of people just aren't worth my time. I'm just listing my own personal reasons why I would believe one party over another...after all this is MY blog and yes for ANYONE who wants to read it...I welcome it actually. I'm sure some will make it a point to read (some I'm sure will read it undercover) *chuckles* .................. Now I've heard it said or at least INSINUATED by some ... that they "OWN" certain public rooms here. If one goes and requests to open their own group room, and A FF approves it, they may have control over who may join and who they can ban, they may make their own rules and thats just peachy ...and if I actually gave a rats ass I'd say thats fanfukintastic for them. Just as one in CyberFantasy boasts she has her own private room... Well thats just peachy for her, and for us ...I'm all for it, whatever keeps us from having to see her lame ass. But the thing is I DON'T GIVE A SHIT about any of it ...... if you open a room then go there and create all the drama you want, ban whom you dislike and let whomever (whether you like them or not) stay so long as he or she kisses your ass 24/7 .... But don't say I/We OWN any public room here, because unless you have shares in Penthouse/passion then you OWN NOTHING on this site. And to say you own the basic rooms here just makes you look like an idiot. I wouldn't be interested in such a room personally because I DON'T KISS ASS... I don't follow behind anyone, I have NO leader(s). I don't follow the drummer ...I have my own drum.... Now as far as the room I frequent most Polyamory ... if anyone can sit there and claim they own Poly...that would be tulip & me.. or Juicie & bd ...I've yet to meet anyone in Poly that has been steady regs in there as long as the two of us... and just to make sure I was clear, I will clarify for those who may be a bit slow to understand..... I did specifically say we two (Tulip & I *aka* Juicie14U & Babydoll2777) have been in Poly the longest of anyone that has hungout in Poly on a regular basis ... NOT saying A FF in general, there are others though not a whole lot, that frequent other/different rooms that have been around just as long and a handful or two that have been around even longer. As a matter of fact Tulip owns her own custom made couch there and I have my own recliner .....  @ Tulip.And She & I have our own custom made sign. But We don't sit in there looking stupid saying we've been here the longest so we own this room. Again as a matter of fact we have probably .. along with Cinnabar ... been in CyberFantasy longer than anyone else as well (as far as room regs go)...Okay done with my rant "FOR NOW" ...... *Reserves the right to amend this post at anytime* .I will be back later to finish my other post.....       ~Juicy~ |
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Sits back on my *wanton couch*... Smiles at JuicySis..... *Winks*
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awww Cinn ty Sis... I think that post was long overdue lol...*huggggggggs* ~Juicy~
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Grrrrrr's and kicks Steely in the shin...looks over at the trophy case..it WAS YOU!. Hmmmm what to do, what to do  ... for starters no more jumping on the bed whilst wearing the teal & black jersey with the black thong for you Mister!!!lmao (((((((((((((((((((( Steely )))))))))))))))))))))) *smoochies* *: ... Still luv ya even after you disinergrated the trophy case *laffs evily thinking*... Ha! he didn't know that case held the fake cup  ... (but hey don't wish for Hockey season too soon plz I am enjoying summer  lol. ~Juicy~
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Sits back on my *wanton couch*... Smiles at JuicySis..... *Winks* ~Juicy~
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*skips outta the room* going to find the nail polish ....ahhh found them yayyyyy ... (Ohhh such perty colors) running back in plopping down next to tulip ... it's sandal weather ...giggling...time to make our toes all cute & colorful Sis... remember the time we were painting our nails when "R" came in *trails off smiling*... waving Cinn over to come join us.... *Big Grin*....luv ya my Sistas ((((((((( group huggggg ))))))))) ~Juicy~
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Laffs...wiggle me purrrrrrrty toes...(Candy Apple Red)..... Omg..those cyber auditions..*rolls eyes*..were they fun or what?..All the other regs trying to claim *our couch... gigglng.*...The *dramaless days* were the best Sis... *Smiles Demurely*....
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juicy, a great blog, so true, so much drama in the rooms lately. some people are just born trouble makers, love to make every one miserable because they are. i have been in poly more than any other room, i have found that you, Tulip, and cinn, are great friends , you tell it like it is. it is good to find some one that will not be two faced, say one thing and then say something else because some one else doesn't like you. hugssss tc Angell
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17/7/2008 10h01 |
JuicyG,,,lmao,,you say it well!! I'll say this as I bounce on Tulip's wanton couch ,and jump inot my own big comfy chair,,have a great day! Sincerely Silky
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18/7/2008 6h33 |
Well said Juicy! I have to agree with you on most things, but I am not an angel. Wonders exactly what a smart ass is? I most definitely not a smart ass, no not me, I am sure I am not a smart ass. Hey that could be one of the many silly blog poles: Do you think I am a smart ass? Yes. Hell Yes. OMFG, you are quite possibly the biggest smart ass in the world! Cheers, The Alpha Wolf
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4/8/2008 1h04 |
Hugs sis ~~I'm so sick of seeing the drama that I don't even say anything anymore just so I can stay out of it~I don't understand why ppl can't just have fun and laugh like we use to...I stop writing in my blog about the drama because it's something that isn't gonna never stop ,if we bring attention to it...know what I mean?...I think using the iggy button shuts down most the BS that goes on..Plus nobody wants to see that shit...I know we all have our own opinions but it would be nice if they are worked out in another format and not done in Public...about the rooms your right no one can claim any room on here and it's ridiculous to try and block others out a room , bc I do believe they call this chat..and we all have the right to move about the site freely to anyroom we like...I know I'm not liked very much on the site by many ppl but to each their own...next you should write a blog about all the fake as handles of ppl we all know to let them know that they are not fooling anybody,...lmaooo
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Laffs...wiggle me purrrrrrrty toes...(Candy Apple Red)..... Omg..those cyber auditions..*rolls eyes*..were they fun or what?..All the other regs trying to claim *our couch... gigglng.*...The *dramaless days* were the best Sis... *Smiles Demurely*.... Haven't been back here since I wrote that post. I gotta say I still stand by my convictions, my thoughts and feelings on the subject "In general" remain the same, but since then a few things have come to light *winks at you knowingly*. But though we are fooled at times, 'Fortunately' true colors often come shinning thru, and we learn that at times our judgement is at fallible. *sigh* ... Ahhh well one thing I am sure of is after just about what 5 yrs now?... lol ... of knowing some of you I DO know there are still those that stay true to themselves and I am still so very glad to call you my *Friends*... Love you Sis huggggggggggggs & smoochies  ~Juicy~
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juicy, a great blog, so true, so much drama in the rooms lately. some people are just born trouble makers, love to make every one miserable because they are. i have been in poly more than any other room, i have found that you, Tulip, and cinn, are great friends , you tell it like it is. it is good to find some one that will not be two faced, say one thing and then say something else because some one else doesn't like you. hugssss tc Angell So true theres just way tooo much drama (particularly in Poly) it's rooms just not any fun there anymore. Often when I hop online, I think "hmm wonder who's on A FF" then I think again... "nawww not even gonna bother going in there" lol and so I do what I need to do and go to bed lol. Yes I agree as well on the 2-faced issue. There are MANY who will smile in your face and do the huggy thing while plunging that knife deep into your back. I try and be nice to everyone, and if I don't like someone I don't say anything to them I try and stay away from conversation with them. I leave them alone and expect the same courtesy UNLESS they mess with those I care about, and then it's ON!!! lol. But I'm not going to sugarcoat anything for anyone, I'm not going to pretend to agree with everything one says or does and if that offends anyone I'm sorry (ok I'm not sorry) lol. But why play those games ya know?. why pretend to like or agree with someone or the actions of someone in the name of friendship. I think only a true friend would say what they think and & mean what they say. That wasn't directed at you lol... just a bit of a rant as I'm thinking of recent disturbing events I've heard about. But you've always been sweet & kind to me and I'm glad to have met & made friends with you and (though I don't see him often) Buck as well .Huggggggggs ... you t/c ~Juicy~
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Hiya UP and I don't consider you butting in. All comments are welcome ty for stopping by. lmao @ tulip being scary...why she's sweet as a kitten and totally demure *smile*. Tulip is a sweetheart and one of the best friends I've ever made on or offline, she just tells it like she sees it, and for that I respect her greatly. And I think thats what attracted me to her as a friend & a soul sister of course lol. Thank you very much for the compliments, I tend to ramble on lol but I also like to make myself clear . I agree about avoiding loud and aggressive people they are just sooo not worth the effort it takes to read or reply to them. Ignore is a great option and I don't even have to push the button lol. I'm highly skilled in selective reading *laffs* .Again ty for stopping by & posting as well. You t/c ~Juicy~
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JuicyG,,,lmao,,you say it well!! I'll say this as I bounce on Tulip's wanton couch ,and jump inot my own big comfy chair,,have a great day! .Sometimes things are not what they seem at 1st as I posted to tulip... at times our judgement is cloudy and will fail us. But I still stand by my beliefs even though at times they are a lil off lol. Ahh well live & learn, we'd never have learned how to walk if we'd never taken a fall. It's a natural order of life, we'd never learn how to find the good if we didn't have to weed thru the bad *hears the bell ring*....Ok class ... Philosophy 101 is now over (for today)  Thanx again for dropping by and leaving a comment ...huggggs t/c ~Juicy~
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Well said Juicy! I have to agree with you on most things, but I am not an angel. Wonders exactly what a smart ass is? I most definitely not a smart ass, no not me, I am sure I am not a smart ass. Hey that could be one of the many silly blog poles: Do you think I am a smart ass? Yes. Hell Yes. OMFG, you are quite possibly the biggest smart ass in the world! Cheers, The Alpha Wolf *refrains from typing the various definitions of smart ass* ~Juicy~
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Hugs sis ~~I'm so sick of seeing the drama that I don't even say anything anymore just so I can stay out of it~I don't understand why ppl can't just have fun and laugh like we use to...I stop writing in my blog about the drama because it's something that isn't gonna never stop ,if we bring attention to it...know what I mean?...I think using the iggy button shuts down most the BS that goes on..Plus nobody wants to see that shit...I know we all have our own opinions but it would be nice if they are worked out in another format and not done in Public...about the rooms your right no one can claim any room on here and it's ridiculous to try and block others out a room , bc I do believe they call this chat..and we all have the right to move about the site freely to anyroom we like...I know I'm not liked very much on the site by many ppl but to each their own...next you should write a blog about all the fake as handles of ppl we all know to let them know that they are not fooling anybody,...lmaooo  lol....I hear that, I just kinda stay away period lol...it's prolly easier for me that way, I don't know how to sit back and shut up (not when friends are involved). If I'm not involved or anyone I care about isn't then I pretty much let them all go at it. Sometimes I'll add a remark just cause I can lol.But yeah some ppl are addicted to drama and it's not my thing...I'd much rather laff & chat wth you guys Yes! like we used to...lmao omg that's a good one... a fake handle blog ...hmmm could be my next project...but of course I'll have to get a fake handle to find ALL of them...lmao...great to see you...ty for dropping by & posting . Hugggggggs...love ya sis ... muahhhh ~Juicy~
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lmao seems like relatively simple advice...but don't mind me if I don't admit to trying it...lol. Thanks .. maybe thats some advice everyone can benefit from .J ~Juicy~
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8/9/2008 13h06 |
your new butt pic gave me a MASSIVE hard-on!!! Lol Hap
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I'm new here I almost went to another site because of the BS on here but then I started reading some of the BLOGS and figured out out everyone on here wasn't as petty as you would think by the chat rooms. As if anyone cares what I think. U give GREAT BLOG HUGGGGGGGGGGGs DREAM WEAVER 562
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