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Not so good as gold
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Not so good as gold Yesterday I got contacted by someone who wanted contact me. I debated on it and decided take a chance, so...I got Gold status for the next couple of months see if I could talk her and see if maybe something would change here. I broke down, purchased a 3 month subscription here, and messaged her back. After a while, she messaged me back and we talked for a bit. I then took the risk, gave her my number, and we talked last night over the phone. Afterwards, we discussed a possible meet up today and I went to bed last night. Today I called her because she hadn't called me back. "Hello?" I said? "Who is this?" she replied. She had no idea who I was...I tried to explain myself, but she told me she had to call me back. So she hung up. Two minutes later, she called me back again. "Do I know you?" she said. "Ummm, we talked last night. I'm J, from passion?" "Oh yeah! Why do you always sound so happy over the phone?" she said in a bit of a demeaning tone. Which got me to thinking, if she didn't even remember me, or care to remember that she agreed to meet up the next day, I don't think this was going to work out. So I made the decision to cancel the meet and go on our separate ways. "Well, about that...I just wanted to call you in person, as I think a text would not have been appropriate. I just wanted to say I just don't think that..." she wouldn't even let me finish, and said she didn't think we were going to be a good match. I agreed, and before I could finish what I was going to say again, she cut me off and said "Yeah well goodbye!" and hung up the phone. Not to be rude, and if she's reading this, well, but I think she did me a favor. Regardless, I don't wish her any ill will. I think she said this because she was afraid for one thing. And for another thing, I think she really wasn't serious about even meeting in the first place. Now, normally I would be upset over it. But the more I think about it, she did me a favor. I reached out to her. Talked to her. And while I think she tried to reject me, I didn't take it personal. I don't think it was a good match to begin with upon retrospection and reflection. But...I do think it was a good thing, because it helped me get out of my funk a bit. It allowed me to think, maybe I should get back into trying to find someone out there for me. So for now, I'm going to use this newly found gold status to reach out to others here and see if I truly can find someone to reach out to and see if I can find someone who is compatible for me. Always try to find the sunny side of the street I guess. ***************** On a side note, my mom is doing ok for now. I know some of you had inquired about her, so I thought I'd give a status update on her. She's going in for her 2nd dose of chemo tomorrow. She's now going to be doing chemo every two weeks and then Nulasta to help her deal with the effects of the chemo. So far, she's been doing well, and the only side effect is that she's constantly cold at times. So while she's taking naps on the couch, we wrap her up in blankets and try to keep her warm. Plus today, I spent some time with her watching some of her favorite black and white movies today. It was nice to spend some time with her today. Well, now that I'm a Gold member again...I guess the search is on!  Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent  |
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It's been at a stalemate status for quite some time. It would be nice if these honest people said they have no intentions of meeting others but not losing free gold is more important! Using more than all the road!
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24/3/2019 18h39 |
i don't believe i read the whole thing there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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24/3/2019 14h57 |
wow kind of sounds like maybe she was with someone and was playing stupid because she didn't want the other person to know she was gonna do whatever...That is a low down person ..but I had a few of those as well ..maybe it wasn't for you but I tend not to be trusting especially on here..sorry that happened ..but hey look at the bright side ..I been stood up 22 times since coming on here last year lol see it always could be worse..Glad yr Mom is doing ok..hang in there !! you take a nice pic...awesome smile hon...
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Keep at it man! Everyone gets these unappealing exchanges from time to time. Sounds like you might be a candidate for some more regular vanilla-ish dating sites as well! Good luck
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Oh I forgot, this is me on the couch with my Bears wrap! Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent
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