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Celebrations and Tribulations  

myelin36 53F
4614 messages
26/3/2016 4h47
Celebrations and Tribulations


It's been an interesting week. Interesting in a sense that one day you can be celebrating a birthday and the next day you can be sitting in a room at an urgent care facility.

For those not "in the know" I turned 45 on Tuesday. I have some very good friends whom I used to work with that threw me a surprise birthday dinner at an Italian restaurant Sunday night. After dinner I attended a Cult concert with Julie and her boyfriend.

So far so good, right?

Monday afternoon a family that I work with unexpectedly busted out singing "Happy Birthday" to me during a family session. Totally had me in tears. Happy tears, that is. On my actual birthday, my work colleagues surprised me with cards, flowers and an amazing strawberry cake.

That evening I accepted a dinner invitation with a guy that I have been slowly getting to know. I say slowly because he has made it crystal clear that sex is not on the agenda for awhile. It's not his thing to jump into bed without establishing a connection. Dinner was good and we wanted to continue the conversation over a glass of wine and cake so we opted to go to my place.

He selected a black cherry pinot noir I had purchased but had never personally sampled to go with our dessert. We enjoyed the wine and conversation until it started getting late and forced myself to say goodbye which he gave me a HUG. Yes, you heard that right. Not even a birthday kiss. Le sigh.

The following morning I was showering and noticed an itchy raised bump on my neck. It resembled a mosquito bite but as the day wore on I began to see more of them popping up in various locations on my body.

My colleague asked me what I had gotten into and it was then I recalled drinking the black cherry wine the night prior. I guessed that I was having an allergic reaction and began self treatment with OTC oral and topical benedryl. Nothing seemed to help. The hives continued their assault on my body. I finally relented and went to urgent care yesterday.

The nurse practitioner chastised me for not coming in sooner. But I am stubborn like that. She gave me a liquid steroid medication while there in the office that nearly made me puke and said it would help with the itching- yay! I can finally get some sleep! She sent me home with an oral and topical steroid regimen.

I wonder if getting hives was an omen about seeing that guy again.

In any event, I am slowly getting back to normal. Tonight I am accompanying 5 girlfriends for a night out at a Dueling Piano Bar in Wichita. If you are in the Wichita area you should drop by the bar and say hi.

Have a wonderful weekend.

Xoxo, myelin

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GimmeAThrill 55H  
24635 messages
26/3/2016 5h30

I was not in the know, but Happy Belated Birthday!

Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.


myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h16:
Thank you for the belated birthday wishes.

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 messages
26/3/2016 6h03

there's slow... and then there's a birthday hug. Uh..... no. I think you've been friendzoned.

Happy Belated Birthday and you are gonna LOVE LOVE LOVE the dueling piano bar if it's anything like the one that Kitkat and I went to in San Diego... I've never laughed/sang so hard! Prepare to be hoarse the next day.


myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h16:
You were right about being hoarse! We had a lot of fun. I ended up getting seriously hit on by our waitress and my friends took some very compromising photos of the waitress giving me a lap dance and kissing me. Unfortunately I can't post the Instagram link to my blog and can't save the photos to my hard drive or I would be posting them! It was a memorable night indeed!

pagancountrygirl 66F  
6466 messages
26/3/2016 6h15

Happy belated B-day! The celebrations sound like fun was had by all.
Sort of scary about the allergic reaction to the wine. Thank goodness it didn't escalate beyond hives.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h14:
Getting hives and then receiving a stern lecture by the nurse practitioner gave me pause about the seriousness that could have come from the reaction. Hopefully there will be no next time, but if it does happen I will swallow my pride and get into the doctor ASAP.

tickles4us 62H
7262 messages
26/3/2016 9h46

Happy Birthday. I wouldn't be to worried about the hug and taking it slow unless it is for some other reason than just not rushing in.

Vive La Difference


myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h09:
I'm not going to let it stress me out. I figure that he is just a sexually traditional guy that might be a bit sexually inexperienced and perhaps a bit intimidated because I am in touch with my sexuality.

manninp 67H
2660 messages
26/3/2016 12h42

A belated but very Happy Birthday to you, sorry you suffered so with the hives. I suffer them from to time, but only when I am really hot and only on my hands....do not know why he would be so cautious though...puzzling!!!


myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h08:
I am still trying to figure that out.

ironman2769 58H  
12877 messages
26/3/2016 14h25

happy Birthday.....I am impressed that you went to a cult Concert....

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myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h08:
Why are you impressed? I enjoy different genres of music!

leftbehind62 62H  
2121 messages
26/3/2016 14h29

Happy belated Birthday sweet, sexy Myelin! So sorry you had that allergy issue with good wine! DAMN!!! Lmao! Also sorry it was just a hug. Guess he was REALLY trying to be nice and live up to his word. Heaven knows kissing you after a fun evening together would definitely make me wish for more! Lol! Maybe he didn't want to take a similar chance! Have fun at the piano bar! Tip them to play my favorite love song from a different perspective; Why don't we get drunk and screw!!!! Always a crowd pleaser! At least late in the night! Lmao! Hugs


myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h07:
We had a really great night! The young waitress kept hitting on me. My friends captured a couple of seductive photos on their Instagram accounts but I can't link them to this blog. Sigh.

ProfPlayful 53H
3861 messages
26/3/2016 15h08

Everyone has their own style. There's noting inherently wrong with a hug from his end, as long as you were pleased with it on your end. If you were not pleased then perhaps the two of you are incompatible.

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myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h05:
I had met him once before and it wasn't like we were "strangers." I guess I expected maybe more. As I think about it, we seem on two very different sexual planes. He seems more sexually submissive whereas I prefer more dominant men.

Golly06 71H
1932 messages
26/3/2016 16h47

Sounds like a nice birthday celebration all in all! Talk about a delayed allergic reaction. Have a great girls' night out.


myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h04:
Had a pretty fun night out. Got serenaded by one of the piano players who made me sit on the piano in front of everyone and ended the night with a kiss and a lap dance from a waitress.

citizen4722 66H  
74582 messages
26/3/2016 17h35

Happy belated Birthday
You could have done without that nasty surprise.


myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h03:
I agree! Thanks for the birthday wishes. XOXO

39lawless 58F
6864 messages
27/3/2016 8h07

hives and no kiss??? Would locusts make the answer more obvious??? hahahaha. Happy birthday baby! xoxo

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


myelin36 replies on 27/3/2016 13h02:
I did get a lap dance and a kiss from our waitress Kayla at the Piano Bar. So I guess all was not lost

humorlife 56H  
5710 messages
28/3/2016 6h37

Belated happy birthday!

I'm a big proponent of the birthday month, especially when one is living a full life with many difference phases (and groups of friends). Hope your birthday month is continuing to go well.

Cherry wine sounds risky to me... and yes, bump-raising, too. Hope that particular itch has subsided, or at least been replaced by another, more pleasurable one...

Now let's see... you're a Cult fan AND an Aries... does that make you a Fire Woman?

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topshelf69x2 45H  
111 messages
2/4/2016 16h15

So sorry to hear you had a reaction to the wine, happy belated birthday! I was at the Cult concert as well.. What did you think of the show?


myelin36 replies on 2/4/2016 18h34:
We had a great time at the concert.

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