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Monday 7/25 The beginning of a week.
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Monday 7/25 The beginning of a week. Gym - went on Sat and will go today Weight - 175lbs - I can feel the fat changing to muscle Book - Maybe today +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ If only this was my past Sunday morning(WooHoo!)  I seem to be setting into a new life just fine thank you very much  . Maybe a little more lonely than I imagined but I'm doing just fine. Two dates past week and maybe one on this coming Wed. (Oh the joys of being on multiple dating sites). The house is being straighten out with loads to Good Will - the dogs had better watch out....LOL! How's your life these days?One of the dates(If you would like to call it that - first meet and probably the last) was at a local upscale bistro having an afternoon tea. We sat and talked about lots of stuff for about 2 hrs. She told me about a new watering hole and she found out that that I didn't make her freak flag fly...LOL - meaning no more meets! I also discovered that you should not talk about some stuff on a first meet. Oh, I know there are subjects I should stay away from but I couldn't help myself..Mea Copa. When one starts talking about free sex and love shouldn't there be a discussion about STD's??? For God's sake - St Louis is the Chlamydia capital of the world. What fool would not want to discuss safe sex? And then there is the ever present Herpes - the dreaded gift that keeps on giving. I expected a discussion of what type of condoms she likes or maybe how she approaches a guy to make sure he has one. We delved into our past experiences concerning rubbers and their use. She was honest about the fact that Cock Socks were not used all the time. It seems most guys don't like them...well duh! But I don't like getting shots at the doc's office either. She seemed to be having a ah-ha moment as we talked. Then stupid me piled on.....I told her I had herpes 2 - just like 1/3 of the population. It was like opening a can of bad breath or breaking wind after eating a spicy pizza. I almost laughed - the experience was so surreal. The conversation died quickly and we said our good byes. And I know this will happen again. I always have this conversation with a potential. Just not this soon....LOL! (soap box - beware!) I find it very disappointing that the ladies(and men) from a free sex and love community has so little concern for their bodies. I'm not a prude but I would expect them to be careful as well open to talk about this subject. Most STD's are not deadly(God save us from HIV) but in respecting our bodies we need to take the care most mothers do with washing their kids hands. Do you like it when someone passes a bug on to you??? (end of rant) So as one TV star used to say on Hill Street Blues - "Let's be careful out there" Any ladies out there want to help me practice putting on a glove? PS: It might not be on my profile but its never been a secret and I always discuss it. It freaks some out and others go read up on it. Look it up. I bet there are soooooooooo many on here with herpes that don't tell. As always polite comment, rants and musings are appreciated....all others take a hike RD |
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25/7/2011 7h53 |
Wow RD, you're out meeting more people than me!  Sure they say there are certain topics one should steer clear of on first dates, but I tend to go with the flow and how me and the other person are interacting and such. Too many do NOT discuss the STD subject, which is really too bad as it's all over the place! My dr gave me a lecture almost 2 years ago. Thought I was up on most of it, but had to come home and read up online more. Especially that HPV......THAT is the one I think most are unaware and ignorant about. I'd thought that was mostly the young people, but it may not even show up in initial tests. I laugh at those who claim they've been tested and have papers to prove it. That doesn't hold much water with me. Recall a few years ago, one guy on passion telling me about some woman who had an STD playing around unprotected with many. Glad that wasn't in MY area! WTF are people thinking nowadays?!? And how did YOU get that herpes RD?
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