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Is Attitude Everything?  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10184 messages
3/6/2020 14h08
Is Attitude Everything?

Many years ago, these words were on a hand-out at a dear friend's funeral. They accurately define how she embraced life and still resonate. Given all that is happening, I feel they are worth sharing here:

Attitude
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on my life.
Attitude to me. is more important than facts.
It is more important than the past, than education, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do.
It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill.
It will make or break a company...a church...a home.
The remarkable thing is, we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for the day.
We cannot change our past....we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play. on the string we have and that is our attitude.
I am convinced that life is ten percent what happens to me. and ninety percent how I react to. it.
And so it is with you.
We are in charge of our attitudes.
~Charles Swindoll




sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 14h09

How does your attitude impact your daily life?


bbuckwwheat 65H
6265 messages
3/6/2020 15h10

Contentment is a choice. The attitude to make a positive choice affects stress levels and makes me an easier person to be around than when I make the choice to be negative.

I am glad to see you posting!

Private mailbox at my blog bbuckwwheat
Fayette, Iowa


powercaps716 67H  
83116 messages
3/6/2020 16h01

well said, words can't express the true meaning, but actions and
what's in your heart can make a big differences...


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 messages
3/6/2020 16h09

Thank you so much for sharing this as attitude is everything. I hope you have a sexy evening my friend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Jeremixx28 40H
20 messages
3/6/2020 16h38

Very good


thumphur2 61H
50 messages
3/6/2020 16h46

Having an open mind is just as important maybe more so


p1947q 77H  
140 messages
3/6/2020 17h00

Every day good things and bad things happen in my life. Sometimes more good than bad, sometimes more bad than good. I cannot control what happens in my life, but I can choose the aspects in my life that I focus on and my reaction to whatever comes my way. I have had to work at recognizing and focusing on the positives but when I am able to do that whatever wasn't so good seems trivial and my life is so much more serene and pleasant.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/6/2020 17h06

What an interesting point of view.
I guess I could quibble with - "Attitude being more important than facts.", but I think - overall there is a lot of merit to the words he wrote.
I'm been trying to keep a real positive attitude recently.
It's a challenge, I'll say that. Have you ever tried it?


MrRareity 64H
4589 messages
3/6/2020 17h11

Wee said and thank you for sharing it with us. I think right now is a perfect time to see these words. Thank you, John

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


mc_justmc 64H

3/6/2020 17h44

I walk out the door every morning with a positive outlook. No matter what I'm handed I try to find something positive about it, otherwise you might as well stay in bed.


chr01test0604 41H

3/6/2020 17h50


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h39

Sounds like you have a good handle on what keeps you balanced. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your views.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h40

    Citer bbuckwwheat:
    Contentment is a choice. The attitude to make a positive choice affects stress levels and makes me an easier person to be around than when I make the choice to be negative.

    I am glad to see you posting!
There is logic in the statement, "Attitude is everything".
Thanks for the positive props


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h41

    Citer powercaps716:
    well said, words can't express the true meaning, but actions and
    what's in your heart can make a big differences...
Your definition makes a lot of sense. Thanks for stopping by and sharing it.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h42

    Citer Tmptrzz:
    Thank you so much for sharing this as attitude is everything. I hope you have a sexy evening my friend..
Glad you enjoyed it. No 'sexy' evening for me. We are still in lockdown! Hope you are keeping safe.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h43

Agreed. That's why I decided to post it


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h44

    Citer thumphur2:
    Having an open mind is just as important maybe more so
I think having an open mind is a type of attitude. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h46

    Citer p1947q:
    Every day good things and bad things happen in my life. Sometimes more good than bad, sometimes more bad than good. I cannot control what happens in my life, but I can choose the aspects in my life that I focus on and my reaction to whatever comes my way. I have had to work at recognizing and focusing on the positives but when I am able to do that whatever wasn't so good seems trivial and my life is so much more serene and pleasant.
That's why I also like the expression, "Don't sweat the small stuff". Thank you for stopping by and sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h48

Sounds like you have the right attitude that works for you Jack. Thank you for the props


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h50

I agree. I have seen first hand, how a positive attitude can have specific and measurable differences. Nice to see you dropping by and sharing your perspective


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h52

    Citer MrRareity:
    Wee said and thank you for sharing it with us. I think right now is a perfect time to see these words. Thank you, John
It's a difficult time in many aspects which is why I decided to post this. Thanks John for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 20h53

    Citer mc_justmc:
    I walk out the door every morning with a positive outlook. No matter what I'm handed I try to find something positive about it, otherwise you might as well stay in bed.
Sounds like you have found the 'right' balance for you to get through your days. Thank you for sharing it.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/6/2020 21h00

    Citer Paulxx001:
    What an interesting point of view.
    I guess I could quibble with - "Attitude being more important than facts.", but I think - overall there is a lot of merit to the words he wrote.
    I'm been trying to keep a real positive attitude recently.
    It's a challenge, I'll say that. Have you ever tried it?

I agree there are some words that may be a challenge to accept but the overall message is worthy to adopt. Having a positive attitude is contagious in a good way! I try my best to not 'sweat the small stuff'. Each day is a blessing and I want to experience happy, not miserable.


justaguyinalaska 57H
879 messages
4/6/2020 12h46

Concur. We are certainly seeing *attitude* in its rawest form on our national stage. As one who believes that we cannot control our emotions, but we can control our actions, I would prefer to see less *attitude* and more *civility*, even if it is insincere.

Much of the stress, confrontation and violence that engulfs us is about *attitude*, especially the *I-win-you-lose, zero sum games* ongoing between extremists. This state of mind can easily be manipulated to vicious ends. We are seeing a Master Class in this strategy conducted by the President's handlers and enablers.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
4/6/2020 4h14

    Citer justaguyinalaska:
    Concur. We are certainly seeing *attitude* in its rawest form on our national stage. As one who believes that we cannot control our emotions, but we can control our actions, I would prefer to see less *attitude* and more *civility*, even if it is insincere.

    Much of the stress, confrontation and violence that engulfs us is about *attitude*, especially the *I-win-you-lose, zero sum games* ongoing between extremists. This state of mind can easily be manipulated to vicious ends. We are seeing a Master Class in this strategy conducted by the President's handlers and enablers.
I was thinking of that situation and others currently being played out when I posted this item. I can also understand the appropriateness of these words on a much more personal level too. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your perspective.


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