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A First Time for Everything?  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10179 messages
3/7/2020 12h50
A First Time for Everything?


I can honestly say that 99% of the males who have emailed here, have been at minimum, cordial. Even those I politely 'turned down', handled it respectfully. That all changed just a short time ago this afternoon.

First thing I do when anyone contacts me, is look at their profile and pictures. This will temper how I respond.

I won't name the individual but I will say he is '57' yrs old and local .

Here's the exchange.

Him: Hi there, my name is Michael. Would you be interested in chattiing?

Me: I respectfully decline and wish you the best in your adventures.

Him: Go fuck yourself bitch ....you think you are better?? think again


He thinks about it for '30' minutes and then sends:
You dont even show your fucking face

I shook my head thinking FFS! I craft an appropriate response, press Enter and discover he has blocked 'me' . Without hesitation, I reported him 'to' passion Abuse and provided a screenshot.

Ladies: Has this happened you?

Gentleman: How do you handle 'rejection'?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 13h02

Initially, this bothered me as it does NOT represent the types of experiences I normally have on here. Now, I can laugh it off but felt it was worth sharing.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 messages
3/7/2020 13h03

Interestingly enough I never thought to report them- I just block and move on.
Unfortunately, I find that the longer they seem to have gone "without" the ruder they become and age is no barrier.

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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 messages
3/7/2020 13h27

What a real jerk he is, I am so sorry he did that to you. You were being so nice too him, I don't get why some people are so nasty, and yes I have had that happen to me too. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


lonlyforlove2 81H  
32704 messages
3/7/2020 13h59

Some men never understood the word gentleman, They are spoiled, and so into their self that they can't see the real world and what it offers, apologies for the poor crude guy.. have a good day, be safe..

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LMx1234 29H
13 messages
3/7/2020 14h06

Haha what the hell


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/7/2020 14h07

Rejection?
I don't know what you mean?


dafocker44 64H
986 messages
3/7/2020 14h39

Rejection is a large part of life! Cant get the right girl, get the right car, right job! Those of us that do get rejected, reject others! Don't want that one, wrong color eyes, hair, nails etc! Some folks find sucess in numbers!! Broad shotgun blast!! Bound to hit something!! kiss enough frongs and you will find the prince! Ask enough girls and one will eventually say yes!!!

I could be mistaken!

[I]Da Focker!!


Brownie202 67F  
2680 messages
3/7/2020 14h56

Yes it has. A few times before I even ignored the message. I mark all as spam which automatically gets it added to my blocked list. The not meeting at this time means nothing to the ones who sent a message. So does all or most of my preferences. Younger ones don't like I want my age. A few dont like I am not meeting. That is why I report all as spam. I believe I have I will do so on my profile. They refuse to believe I am not meeting. Maybe they think they are special. Ummm no they are not.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


classicalrebel4 68H
1755 messages
3/7/2020 15h00

I don't contact anyone, therefore I can honestly say that I've never been rejected, lol. Of those that contact me that I rejected usually take it well and even apologize for bothering me.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


redrockrascal 65H
23580 messages
3/7/2020 15h22

How do you handle 'rejection'?As a non-paying member my view may be different than others. I would prefer rejection to no response at all. No response leaves me wondering if the message got through (no matter the way it was sent) or not, then should I try again or even a third time.

Earlier this year I messaged a woman - for the third time. When we met it turned out she had not seen the first 2.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 15h27

    Citer pocogato12:
    Interestingly enough I never thought to report them- I just block and move on.
    Unfortunately, I find that the longer they seem to have gone "without" the ruder they become and age is no barrier.
I normally would just block also. But this guy had contacted me before. He obviously had a short memory or someone put him up to it. I have NEVER been treated like that before by anyone.


1seeking1 58F
3767 messages
3/7/2020 15h28

Sadly has happened more then once to me. Delete, ignore and block. Glad you can laugh about it.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 15h32

I am not new on here. And yes, it is the first time anyone has reacted that way. To act like a spoiled brat and block me just shows why he isn’t successful on here. Thanks for sharing your opinion.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 15h35

Not crazy as much as socially inadequate. It’s the first time I reported someone for their correspondence to me. Thanks for stopping by.


ULIXBIG 69H
9288 messages
3/7/2020 18h11

I take rejection in my stride. I would usually thank them for having responded at all.
If someone is very rude, I block them. I don't bother reacting in such a case.


p1947q 77H  
140 messages
3/7/2020 18h16

I don't consider it a rejection - it is just some one's preference for whatever their reasons are. Like you I read profiles from pictures I like to those who reach out to me. I usually pass on the very short profiles and any that I don't seem to check many of their likes. Seems to me it would be rather egotistical and immature to expect everyone I contact to want to pursue even a distant chat.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 18h16

    Citer Tmptrzz:
    What a real jerk he is, I am so sorry he did that to you. You were being so nice too him, I don't get why some people are so nasty, and yes I have had that happen to me too. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..
I guess some people act tough when they are hiding behind a computer screen. They haven't learned that no one is obligated to 'talk' to them if there is no reason to want to. Hope you enjoy a great July 4th


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 18h21

    Citer lonlyforlove2:
    Some men never understood the word gentleman, They are spoiled, and so into their self that they can't see the real world and what it offers, apologies for the poor crude guy.. have a good day, be safe..
Funny thing is, this guy has contacted me before. I didn't recognize the name but soon as I clicked on the pics, I did. Since when is anyone obligated to 'chat' if there's no reason to want to? Thankfully, I brushed if off. Thank you for dropping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 18h22

Yes - my words exactly.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 18h24

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Rejection?
    I don't know what you mean?

Really? I am sure, like everyone, you are not immune to having encountered it. If not here, elsewhere.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 18h27

    Citer dafocker44:
    Rejection is a large part of life! Cant get the right girl, get the right car, right job! Those of us that do get rejected, reject others! Don't want that one, wrong color eyes, hair, nails etc! Some folks find sucess in numbers!! Broad shotgun blast!! Bound to hit something!! kiss enough frongs and you will find the prince! Ask enough girls and one will eventually say yes!!!

    I could be mistaken!
You may be right, but this guy had emailed me before. I was just as polite in my 'No Thank You'. Did he think I would given in to his 'charms' this time? His response was uncalled for. Thanks for stopping by and offering your perspective.


powercaps716 67H  
83116 messages
3/7/2020 18h28

since this is a sex site they look at you and some easy target, they didn't take the time to know you and understand you....... now he has just lost out on meeting someone nice and friendly ........his lost ,


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 18h30

    Citer Brownie202:
    Yes it has. A few times before I even ignored the message. I mark all as spam which automatically gets it added to my blocked list. The not meeting at this time means nothing to the ones who sent a message. So does all or most of my preferences. Younger ones don't like I want my age. A few dont like I am not meeting. That is why I report all as spam. I believe I have I will do so on my profile. They refuse to believe I am not meeting. Maybe they think they are special. Ummm no they are not.
What a great way to deal with it! Saves all the hassle and nastiness. Seems too many feel 'entitled' because they believe the hype the site pumps out. Thank you for dropping by and sharing your experience.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 18h33

I agree with your analysis except it seems they join here, expecting everyone is going to jump to their requests / demands / expectations. The reaction was completely uncalled for and the topper was blocking me! No worries, I am a strong, resilient woman and this was only a blip.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
3/7/2020 18h35

    Citer classicalrebel4:
    I don't contact anyone, therefore I can honestly say that I've never been rejected, lol. Of those that contact me that I rejected usually take it well and even apologize for bothering me.
Sounds like your overall experience has been positive. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your observations.


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