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Practice The Pause
 

sexyldy1000 68F  
10184 messages
20/1/2021 13h33
Practice The Pause


Simple advice that can have a meaningful impact on thoughts, words and actions if you follow it.

Do you stop and pause or react and deal with the consequences?

sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
20/1/2021 13h36

 I am able to do this more readily now than when I was younger. Perhaps it's maturity and having a different perspective now through life experiences.


RavenGB 63H
1430 messages
20/1/2021 14h12

 Rather along the lines of "fools rush in, where angels fear to tread".


easyrider4008 67H
2562 messages
20/1/2021 14h18

 I do try to get my brain in gear before opening my mouth.


justaguyinalaska 57H
879 messages
20/1/2021 14h47

 Concur.

Things are rarely what they seem, in the moment, to be. A pause to process and reflect often improves both their appearance and your attitude.


scoupe42 61H
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20/1/2021 15h19

 Words of wisdom.


mc_justmc 64H

20/1/2021 15h32

 I always pause and almost always realize it wasn't important.


bbuckwwheat 65H
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6265 messages
20/1/2021 15h44

 I try to pause and cool off before I say something. I have had to practice that this week and it seems to have helped in the situation that had me angry with someone I do not even know who was working for a neighbor. By cooling off and calling the neighbor, I think the issue will be resolved to the neighbor's and my mutual satisfaction.
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redrockrascal 65H
23580 messages
20/1/2021 15h58

 Do you stop and pause or react and deal with the consequences?

As with many circumstances it depends on the situation.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


doubledeezer 44H
17 messages
20/1/2021 16h50

 This is some very good advice . I tend to react and have indeed faced many a consequence in past years.
I have had to teach myself to take the pause , I do agree it gets easier with age as we gain life experience . I slip once in a while but life is much calmer than past years


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
20/1/2021 17h05

 Pause... moi?
I should and sometimes I do. Other moments have me slinging from the hip and dealing with the consequences. Life is too short for regrets and keeping things in.
Besides... it causes gas if ya force stuff in.

Nothing wrong with expressing a POV when there's one to make.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 messages
21/1/2021 7h32

 Pausing now for me is a lot easier than it used to be in my younger years. We must always think before reacting as it's so important. Thanks for sharing this great reminder about Practicing Pausing my friend. I hope you enjoy a wonderful Thursday..
Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


84kev89 39H
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13 messages
21/1/2021 9h21

 I try to now but when I was younger not so much


MrRareity 64H
4589 messages
21/1/2021 10h02

 It's a lot harder than it seems now it's like the saying patients is a virtue.
We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 11h48
    Citer RavenGB:
    Rather along the lines of "fools rush in, where angels fear to tread".
OK....I can understand how you made that analogy. Thanks for stopping by...hadn't seen you on my blog in a long time


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 11h49
    Citer easyrider4008:
    I do try to get my brain in gear before opening my mouth.
Sounds like a reasonable approach, especially if it works out for you.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 11h50
    Citer justaguyinalaska:
    Concur.

    Things are rarely what they seem, in the moment, to be. A pause to process and reflect often improves both their appearance and your attitude.
I agree with your recap. Thanks for stopping by and sharing it.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 11h51

 I thought so and that's why I decided to share them. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 11h52
    Citer mc_justmc:
    I always pause and almost always realize it wasn't important.
Isn't it amazing how taking a few moments to do so can change one's perspective?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 11h53
    Citer bbuckwwheat:
    I try to pause and cool off before I say something. I have had to practice that this week and it seems to have helped in the situation that had me angry with someone I do not even know who was working for a neighbor. By cooling off and calling the neighbor, I think the issue will be resolved to the neighbor's and my mutual satisfaction.
Thanks for stopping by and sharing your experience, When others read that it can be effective, they may think twice before reacting with taking time to pause first.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 11h55
    Citer redrockrascal:
    Do you stop and pause or react and deal with the consequences?

    As with many circumstances it depends on the situation.
Well sure, if it's yelling out to someone to prevent them from getting run over. I have done that a few times at the traffic lights when someone has stepped out, head down looking at their phone with no regard to oncoming/turning traffic.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 11h56
    Citer doubledeezer:
    This is some very good advice . I tend to react and have indeed faced many a consequence in past years.
    I have had to teach myself to take the pause , I do agree it gets easier with age as we gain life experience . I slip once in a while but life is much calmer than past years
Thank you for stopping by and sharing your perspective. Maturity and life experience can temper our reactions,


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 11h59
    Citer Paulxx001:
    Pause... moi?
    I should and sometimes I do. Other moments have me slinging from the hip and dealing with the consequences. Life is too short for regrets and keeping things in.
    Besides... it causes gas if ya force stuff in.

    Nothing wrong with expressing a POV when there's one to make.
This was not about NOT expressing a point of view. I would never suggest that. However, it is about not 'overreacting' with no regard to the impact it can have on others.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 12h00
    Citer Tmptrzz:
    Pausing now for me is a lot easier than it used to be in my younger years. We must always think before reacting as it's so important. Thanks for sharing this great reminder about Practicing Pausing my friend. I hope you enjoy a wonderful Thursday..
Maturity and life experience does impact how many people react in different situations. It changes our perspective and helps us weigh the importance of what we say and do.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 12h01
    Citer 84kev89:
    I try to now but when I was younger not so much
Thanks for stopping by and sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
21/1/2021 12h02
    Citer MrRareity:
    It's a lot harder than it seems now it's like the saying patients is a virtue.
I agree it's not easy, especially in challenging times. We have to be comfortable in whatever approach we use.


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