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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

Do any of you...continued  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 messages
1/7/2016 8h19
Do any of you...continued

Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Wouldn't it be wonderful at this time of the day.

Tresennui responded to my blog post, "do any of you". I happen to wander to her site and read one of her post "trials and tribulations of an affair".

The post was very good, and she had some excellent responses as well.

This made me think about this particular relationship because it is probably the most important one to me at the moment.

I am currently involved in more than a couple of FWB relationships. For the most part, until I end up in a monogamous relationship I will continue my FWB relationships. They work for me.

I have been involved for the past 4 years with an attached man. When I first met him and for almost a year, I did not know he was attached. Unfortunately, I allowed my heart to get involved.

I know now, and I have chosen to continue the relationship. I got in contact with him the night of my knee surgery a year ago. He responded back and we haven't quit since that day.

From my standpoint I totally enjoyed spending time with his man. We talk and laugh for hours, we do other things as well, and the play time is so fantastic.

Would I like it to be something different, yes I would. Will it ever be, one never knows. I do know that things happen in a blink of an eye.

I do know that life moves quickly, and we should be happy. I like to see him laugh and smile and he likes to see me laugh and smile.

I am willing to take what time I can get with him. Will I wake up one day and think something different, who knows.

I do know I'm the single one. It makes me feel sad to think of it ending.

I am doing this with my eyes open, I am seeing others and have been the whole time. Hopefully someone will walk into my life looking for the same thing I am and we can be cohabitors.

I do know, one of the hardest things about being involved with an attached person, is knowing they are going home to somebody else, and you are going home by yourself. You want to be that person they go home to.

It does not bother me to know that some of my other FWB maybe going home to somebody. I kept my heart in a box concerning them.

Sometimes I question what I'm doing. Like I did the last day or two.

But one of my best girlfriends in life, who is going through dialysis right now said Linda as long as you are happy with him, enjoy it as much as you can.

I plan on doing that.

After all, tomorrow is not promised to anybody.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
1deeptouch 82F  
114 messages
1/7/2016 8h25

 It's all about being in your truth and the honesty between you.


Han54boat 71H
11637 messages
1/7/2016 8h46

 That is the only problem for me knowing they are going home to their partner.
I do believe enjoying the one who you are with, especially having fun and happy. You never knows when it goes in the other direction. Great memories is great to have.

Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


HDSoftail20067 57H  
251 messages
1/7/2016 9h10

 Excellent words. Enjoy life and the adventures that go with it!


justskin1 72H
13175 messages
1/7/2016 9h37

 I had an affair with a married woman once. The chemistry was explosive both mentally and physically. The hardest part was not knowing that that she was going home to another but the sneaking. Actually the worst was being unable to call her. Texting was precarious too. For various reasons mainly family and grandchildren she stayed with her husband. We broke it off several times and when we ran into each other by accident it was back to bed and long talks. I have decided that if I ever have an affair with an attached woman again her husband has to know and be ok with it.
PS I do not regret having it for the memories are priceless. Still the chemistry was so good she has spoiled me for an ordinary lover.
If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
1/7/2016 12h34
    Citer 1deeptouch:
    It's all about being in your truth and the honesty between you.
Yes, it is.?..........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
1/7/2016 12h36

 Thank you, I appreciate the comment. .....thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
1/7/2016 12h37

 Thanks, I appreciate you reading and commenting. ....thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
1/7/2016 12h39

 That's great you are not a jealous person.....thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
1/7/2016 12h41
    Citer Han54boat:
    That is the only problem for me knowing they are going home to their partner.
    I do believe enjoying the one who you are with, especially having fun and happy. You never knows when it goes in the other direction. Great memories is great to have.
I love making memories with anybody. If you are single and care for them it is. If you're attached you can't be. He knows I see other men.......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
1/7/2016 12h45
    Citer Richard_WS:
    "as long as you are happy with him, enjoy it as much as you can" ... very good advice. I do hope he is open and honest with his wife as well but I would be more concerned that there were aspects of his life that were kept from you for over a year. I am not judging any else's relationship but I tend to have a very low threshold for trust and an omission of that seriousness would make me question a great many things. Someone who can hide she/he is attached to another for over a year is not to be trusted. Sure, you can not summarize your entire relationship in a few paragraphs ... I trust you will make decisions that keep you safe and happy. Go with your heart ... can't go wrong trusting your own feelings ... Best of luck !!!
He is involved in two relationships he's not going to be completely honest with either one of us. There are a lot of circumstances as well that I do know about from the crew that work with him. And no, the gf probably knows but she's being taken care of, why should she leave.....thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
1/7/2016 12h46
    Citer HDSoftail20067:
    Excellent words. Enjoy life and the adventures that go with it!
I find pleasure in every day, even when things don't go well. I am an optimist. There is always something good to smile about, after all you woke up today......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


elf123 73H
Demandez-moi une photo
99 messages
1/7/2016 12h58

 Well said and thought out, you should be a "shrink" and help the rest of this
world on single and geographical singles. All the best and a happy and safe 4th to you. /d


sphxdiver 74H
21063 messages
1/7/2016 17h12

 Excellent post !

One never knows what tomorrow will bring, enjoy what you have, while you have it.


sylvainturcot 61H
Demandez-moi une photo
81 messages
1/7/2016 22h05

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thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
2/7/2016 6h43
    Citer elf123:
    Well said and thought out, you should be a "shrink" and help the rest of this
    world on single and geographical singles. All the best and a happy and safe 4th to you. /d
Thanks, but if I had all the answers I wouldn't be sitting here by myself on this lovely Saturday morning of a holiday weekend by myself.......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
2/7/2016 6h47
    Citer Richard_WS:
    I have been on both side of these kinds of relationships with varying degrees of success so I certainly understand the difficult choices everyone has to make. Hugs.
Probably the best choice for me would be to move on. I just haven't met anyone, that is looking for more then fwb, so here I am . I will enjoy and treasure every moment......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
2/7/2016 6h49
    Citer sphxdiver:
    Excellent post !

    One never knows what tomorrow will bring, enjoy what you have, while you have it.
I treasure every moment. I know one day, hopefully someone will come along that wants more then friends with benefits......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 messages
4/7/2016 5h16
    Citer sylvainturcot:
    merci.pour.regardée.mes.blog.mature.feme.fantasme.histoir.fhoto.vidéo.rencontre.réalisée.xoxo.Do.any.of.you..continued.post.3848834
Whatever you said....thanks...thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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