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Thought these things only happened to others ....
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Thought these things only happened to others .... I had been chatting to some guy for the past few weeks, all online of course, and it had been going well enough. He said he was looking for a relationship and I am not but I thought "I'll keep chatting, you never know what may happen". His profile lists him as being from Boston, three hours away from me but at least in the same state. He tells me that currently he's overseas on a photo shoot in Nigeria as he is a wildlife photographer, quite plausible because he was only online during odd hours because of his location and what he was doing. Okay, I accepted that. We continued to chat a little bit about him, how he's traveled the world with his job. He tells me he isn't from Boston but moved there from Texas. He then tells me that he moved from South Africa with his family when he was 21. (Gosh this guy is quite worldly eh?) He tells me that he lived in London for a spell and has a teenage daughter, that he misses very much but she flies over for visits often especially when he's not off on a photo shoot (Did I mention he's a freelance wildlife photographer?) He tells me he never married because he feels that marriage should be for life (c'mon ladies awwwwwwwwww, even the ice queen's heart would have melted a little at that, right?) We continue to chat about this and that, as you do if someone is looking for more than just sex. (All the while, I'm still chatting with various passion members because something just did not FEEL right about him.) It was Saturday when we chatted last and he told me that he usually only works a 1/2 day on the shoot because he volunteers at the local youth center to work with ... well the local youth. (Yet another awww is he for real???! Keep reading). As we're signing off, as he is off to work and I am off to bed he messages almost nonchalantly (if you can send a message with nonchalance) "Hey, I need your address so you can receive packages from people to forward to the Orphanage."  I mean WTF? (There the other shoe dropped)"Oh and what am I supposed to do with these packages?" "Hold them and I will have them forwarded to the Orphanage" "Why can't these people send them directly to the "Orphanage" (notice changed from Youth Center to Orphanage) themselves?" "I don't know they just can't, so send me your address please?" ARE YOU SERIOUS? Obviously I said I didn't feel comfortable doing so. (Shit I saw the special on 20/20 or was it 60 Minutes or that one on NBC?) Needless to say, he signed off and I haven't spoken with him since. At first I was thinking "Did he think I was a lovelorn fat chick starving for romantic attention? Is that why he zeroed in on me?" Which is odd because even my profile states that I'm not looking for a relationship and why you ask ... BECAUSE THIS IS A SEX SITE ... Big ol' no duh right there. There was something about him that just didn't gel. He claimed to have been in the U.S. for decades (bar his travel overseas) yet his attempt at casual chat was never quite right, his chat read like it was by someone who was not all too familiar with the informal speech pattern of ... dare I say it .. an American. Long story even longer because I'm adding this last paragraph; Please be careful of what information you share, always be wary and look out for #1 - that's you. Keep having fun, and may you find what you're looking for on passion. |
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27/9/2011 21h32 |
too much chatting...never equals a good thing....
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Always follow your instincts. They will usually be right.
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1 message 9/2/2012 12h05 |
Wow, always gotta watch for those 'wacko-s' online, and in real life too. friend of mine got caught up in a ponzi scheme, and who knows how many lives that one will ruin... just goes to show you that you never can be TOO careful.
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