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Flirting on here  

GeekWluvTool 61H
19 messages
27/5/2018 17h50
Flirting on here


Why is it we get notifications that someone has flirted, so you go to their profile, say Hi and maybe something witty, bam No Response. You send friend request only just friends? No response, Did they really flirt or is the system making it up? or do people actually flirt just to see a guy crawl? I am a man and this is bullshit. And dont get me started on Views. Comments welcome

sphxdiver 74H
21063 messages
27/5/2018 18h23

Because usually, it is nothing but a scammer, who has already screwed a member here of their off site information.
So they have their Gold membership by way of ill gotten gains.

Standards used to be able to flirt years ago, but the site wised up and did away with that feature for standards, they should do the same exact thing to hot listing as well.

Over 95+% of the time, it's only fakes and scammer that use those features on this site.

Just my opinion !!!


GeekWluvTool replies on 27/5/2018 20h53:
Thank you for your comments and insights

Heathen_G 65H
7974 messages
27/5/2018 18h26

Why is it we get notifications that someone has flirted, .... Because someone has flirted with you... or the site flirt-bot generated it.

so you go to their profile, say Hi and maybe something witty, ... In case it is real, don't muck it up with the additional wit.... see if they respond to your "Hi". If they do, then go from there.

You send friend request only just friends? .... Wouldn't do that....Why would want to be only just friends with a woman? Especially if she lived in your area.

or do people actually flirt just to see a guy crawl? ... Consider your age. The women , most anyway, are likely around your age, and some may be just testing to see if they can still hook a mans interest .


GeekWluvTool replies on 27/5/2018 20h55:
Thank you again for your insight

Yours_4A_knight 59H

27/5/2018 18h38

I would basically assume that if it is a standard member it is site generated and if she is a gold member she can write a message so why the flirt?

Yeah, it is all basically junk with the site trying to get something to happen for those of us who no one is really interested in.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


GeekWluvTool replies on 27/5/2018 20h55:
I like your response quick and dirty. Thank you.

1deeptouch 82F  
114 messages
27/5/2018 18h44

Ah, well, this is all about looking to see what's out there and being an emotionally intelligent being. (HuH???)

People cannot checkout profiles without VIEWING them. Some here only do that from the comfort of their own laptop or phone for the Entertainment value.

Under no circumstances need anyone take it personally one way or another if they are viewed, even repeatedly, by others who do little more than that, or just try to engage in a chat. That said, its also perfectly OK not to chat, even if you looked at a profile or flirted (my version of giving a thumbs up to what I see there). For me, distance generally prevents taking things further, but I like to let others know when I think they are interesting or really have it together in my book.

So I flirt my support or approval, or friend, or I hotlist in case I manage to have more than a little in common with the profiler. An exchange of emails may quickly bring to light other things in common, or differences that will illuminate an ill-fitting match. Nothing personal.....its sampling, even before meeting. Don't want to waste your time and would prefer that if there is some dealbreaker, we discover it sooner rather than later.

Those just wanting hook ups may have different standards of communicating. These are mine.


GeekWluvTool replies on 27/5/2018 20h59:
Thank you so much for your comments from someone whom actually uses these responses. Interesting Insight. Find anything interesting in my profile? Really like the way you write.

mufdiver69er2 63H  
1953 messages
27/5/2018 19h15

what lala and curious said...mostly site generated..i had someone that showed as viewed me everytime i was on..contacted and was told they had looked...once..2 weeks before...site kept pushing it to make me think it was ongoing...

woop woop


GeekWluvTool replies on 27/5/2018 21h03:
That is definitely what I was wondering. If you view someone a week ago does it regenerate the view a week later, especially if you have had limited access or views. Interesting I write programs and that sounds like one I can prove or disprove. Thanks.

LAxoxguy 44H
23 messages
27/5/2018 19h58

I have been contacted quite a few times with flirts, and it never leads to anything. I don't see why someone would not just write a message on here.


GeekWluvTool replies on 27/5/2018 21h04:
Thank you for responding always welcome.

MelissaKrapf 46F

27/5/2018 21h12

hoving over any profile will say you viewed it even when you didnt view it. the site fucked up like that. I flirt if I am interested but I dont message free members becuase they cant read it anyways being a free member and all. I never have paid for my gold and the site gave me gold status on its own without ill gotten gains I might add and hate the vip status shit.. thus why i dont have videos up or alot of pictures... I'm afraid to get that vip status... becuase then if i got it.. it blocks any local guys for seeing my profile and all i get are people not even in my state contacting me... local isnt a word most people know it appears to me... But I dont get the reply back from those I do contact becuase they fit what I want... so unless a guy contact me.. I no longer try on this site.. thus why i have another way other then the site to contact me that's free to do so.. But I have found sooooooooooo many fakers,flakers, bullshiters, and game players on here with most of the males... that yeah I am a bitch if you dont meet what I want.. usually I am nice in my rejection reply... most because of distance or having a beard..but that's just how I roll.. As a guy you must earn my respect for you. just saying... not enough real males on the site....

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
Found this quote on a website... befitting I think.... Meli


GeekWluvTool replies on 27/5/2018 21h43:
Thank you for your response I got a lot of information from your write up. Thanks for taking the time to go in depth. I appreciate it. Also I viewed and flirted with you I do believe just a while ago did you get it. Just informational, though wow you are a nice piece of work.

pillow_fighter2 41H
376 messages
27/5/2018 22h34

They almost should just do away with the flirt feature. If somebody can flirt, they can get to the point and send a message. Oddly, I mostly get flirts from men, often right after I do a cam show. Go figure lol

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GeekWluvTool replies on 29/5/2018 9h39:
That funny, me too. I have had more kind things and flirts from guys on here than I would have ever expected. It is what it is. Thanks for your comments.

lyavu 50F
1538 messages
29/5/2018 7h14

passion system sucks . I get notifications pple viewed my profile only to say hi and get the most rude response


GeekWluvTool replies on 29/5/2018 9h37:
You are not deserving of rude comments. Most aren't but in the world of the internet people feel like they can say and do anything with no repercussions. Thank you for your response.

Heathen_G 65H
7974 messages
29/5/2018 14h12

GeekWluvTool replies on 5/29/2018 9:37 am:
You are not deserving of rude comments. Most aren't but in the world of the internet people feel like they can say and do anything with no repercussions. Thank you for your response.
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You are not deserving of rude comments. .... Hold on..... "Rude comments" can be very subjective. She might think a guy I.M. 'ing her and telling her he wants to fuck her ass, is a rude comment, when really , for this kind of site versus eharmony, that is appropriate and not rude. .... So tell her to give an example before you say , "You don't deserve rude comments".


GeekWluvTool replies on 29/5/2018 15h22:
One area where I totally disagree. But this is for my next blog. So I won't delve into it here.

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