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FWB There seems to be a lot of single people seeking FWB's. I can understand if you're in a committed open relationship, but if you're single I think it's more fear of committment, and an inability to properly communicate your thoughts, wishes and beliefs to your potential partner. At least in most cases, though I'm sure there are a small percentage of bona fide emotional traumas that might cause one to prefer a committment free love life. As for me, I would really like to find my one, for a forever, open honest relationship!! <3 |
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So then that sounds to Me like a commitment to monogamy an integral part marriage without the rest of the benefits and or responsibilities again!! Kinda like buying a car with only two tires. No worries about committing to the shared property, sickness and health etc, just .... fuck only me, and that goes for both genders, I'm not being chauvinist ..... in this case. Sex without commitment is like apple pie without cheese, still good, but...
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1 message 13/7/2018 19h14 |
We all have an idea what type of a relationship we are looking for. These may come from past relationships, we may want to try something different, or we may find someone who is that perfect person we have been looking for and sometimes the perfect one turns up when you least expect and you may decide on a committed relationship. A FWB situation also means different things to different people and they may change their mind during the relationship. For a lot of us I don't believe it is a fear of commitment, but more a fear of being hurt...over and over and kicked to the curb. The best prediction of future behaviour is from past behaviour. Unfortunately, that applies to a lot of the men who have been here for many years and they say they are looking for a relationship and as soon as they have their way with you...puff...there gone. It may also be the same with ladies, that I just don't know about.
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Well I can't speak for all men but in my case the same holds true. I know what I want from a relationship, even the perfect one(s) can go bad sometimes. I fear rejection/being hurt, I get heartache if I'm "kicked to the curb". I don't expect to meet and commit within hours but if the other is in the same headspace,(looking to commit), we both have a better understanding of future possibilities, whereas fwb kind of leaves things up in the air. The odd part is I don't agree with monogamy just honest emotional commitment.
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18/11/2018 6h43 |
So then that sounds to Me like a commitment to monogamy an integral part marriage without the rest of the benefits and or responsibilities again!! Kinda like buying a car with only two tires. No worries about committing to the shared property, sickness and health etc, just .... fuck only me, and that goes for both genders, I'm not being chauvinist ..... in this case. Sex without commitment is like apple pie without cheese, still good, but...
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I'm not saying it's for everybody, though it does seem to be more prevalent these days. It's just my humble opinion in a world where manhood as I learned as a youngster is rapidly dsappearing.
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