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Aging, who me?
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Aging, who me? Ya know its funny, how we see age. I can remember back when I was about 8 years old, wanting to be 10 years old. Then when I reached 12, I wanted to be thirteen. ( start of teenagehood), Next came 16 years, which meant possible getting license to drive and getting a job.Along comes 18, can leave home legally. Ahh, and the big 'ol 21 , where you could buy alcohol! Well, I am sure most of us remember this, hee hee. But after 21 things really get complicated. The Beginning of the adult life, marriage, babies being born,working full time, no money, house refinanced,utilities barely paid, children growing up and needing things. Somewhere in there, one looses self and forgets the real person you are.Then by age forty, much has smoothed out, and you look around to see what you have, feeling confident of all that is. Aaah, here comes 50, children are grown little something in the bank, an occasional cruises or vacation where ya just enjoy the quietness. The husband is looking at younger women, cause the wife is bitchy, hard to get along with and just plain nuts. ( little secret guys, about this time) Your woman that you married long ago, is going through the change. We look good on the outside, but the truth is, we are spinning on the inside. we cry for no reason, we bitch at little things, we are just plain hard to get along with. The sex is little to nothing, and its no wonder the men are looking. This time is hard for women, and it does last 10 long,hard years. Ladies listen up, you know what I am talking about, but here is something most of you may not know. You are extremely fertile during this time, so make sure you keep on your birth control. Guys, Your woman is loving you for just being there. Even though she is unfriendly, doesn't mean she not love you. This change, is the pits for both living it. She has lost her desire, but its not that she wants to, its cos she has harder time to be aroused, harder time to cum. And gents, if you have patience and go slow, you will get your woman back, just takes time. Once this dark cloud passes, the woman becomes like a butterfly from a cacoon, she is beautiful through this transformation and all yours to consume. For me I have transformed alone. I do envy those that go through this together, and share the tears, bitchiness and loving arms of love.I don't know if you would call it lucky for me to travel that journey alone, but I know men were safer that I did, hee hee. The me, that I found inside was lost for many years through the tides of marriage, babies, houses and homes. I made it this far and though the body is older and slightly mis-shapened, the young me is still alive and kicking! I have become a matured adult woman that is younger than these that are in years. I have been ridiculed for being my age and wanting the same attention these young ones crave. So to the young ones who not understand, I am a woman just like you, and one day, you will be, the same as me. I just hope no one is cruel and heartless towards you, for being a little older than new. |
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23/2/2014 9h03 |
Everyone gets older because the only other option is being dead. I remember the same age wishes as I got older from my teens through now. The 40 and 50 range I didn't think that much about age but in the 60s I started thinking again about it and decided I was not going to participate in acting my age. My body will tell me when what I use to do isn't going to work that way anymore but that doesn't happen to often. My mind is still that of a person in his 40s so that is the way I act and intend on doing that for as long as I can.
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23/2/2014 9h03 |
I understand this completely, from both your aspect amd mine as a male, Age is what you make of it and if the desires are still there why not?
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23/2/2014 9h05 |
u sure have spelled out life real nicely there! going through that with my wife and life right now.
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Your description from early years on is pretty much the same for a man...my version shows change because of the situations that I went thru...at 18 thru 20 I was truly me...one year of college and then 3 years in the military and Viet Nam I was not the original me...then the hippie years finishing college and I had a nice glimpse of who I was internally....but married a hippie girl and started the children and work years...stayed married for 24 years and one daughter out of college and the other soon to be when I became single again...at that point I looked at who I had become and was pleased to a degree but still wanted the open minded spirit of my youth...it came back easier than I thought it would and life was finally at a point where I could do for "ME" and not have the responsibility and obligations that family life brings...after 34 years of working for the same company I retired and continue my journey with the same vigor that I had at 18...started using my creative skills that I never even knew I had and loving it...like one other comment physically I might not be able to do some of the extremes as before but I can hold my own in sports and other activities....and the sex continues to get better...I savor every moment and know how much you give is what you get in return...Lovin' every day and giving it my best....
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