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Men, what do you find more attractive on a woman?  

sensualpassion72 59H/51F
360 messages
11/6/2015 5h59
Men, what do you find more attractive on a woman?

I just read a post that made me curious enough to know ----

What do you find overall that attracts you the most? ( In the beginning. ) If you had to pick one over the other.

Her Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty

or

Her Personality & Interests
Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty
Personality & Interests


Ienjoythetaste 75H
2560 messages
11/6/2015 6h33

The last option should have been two options.

I would always go with personality.

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sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
11/6/2015 6h50

Both is the EASY answer my friend. I'm looking for the hard one. For I love asking myself these questions ---- looking back at those past lovers. what attracted you to them the most, or first... if that's easier for you.


sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
11/6/2015 7h01

I disagree with you. I've met extremely happy overweight people that were extremely positive, had great attitudes were very warm and enlightening. I clearly see for you it is physical attributes though, over the soul within -- since you went on and on about appearance. I am curious though, how would you rate what you said? as far as attitudes... negative? or positive?


sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
11/6/2015 7h03

    Citer HornyBBWnBBC614:
    I will be watching this one, very interested to find out how the fellows really feel!
Have you asked yourself the question? when you are first attracted to a man, is it his physical vessel ( body appearance ) or the soul of the man, within --- ( personality/interests )?


sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
11/6/2015 7h04

    Citer Ienjoythetaste:
    The last option should have been two options.

    I would always go with personality.
Nope.

interests to me are the personalities clothing


goldenrule102 63H
589 messages
11/6/2015 7h44

Personality and interest because for me physical attributes don't necessarily define a person. I want an attraction the carries depth and weight not a shallow one.


sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
11/6/2015 7h55

    Citer goldenrule102:
    Personality and interest because for me physical attributes don't necessarily define a person. I want an attraction the carries depth and weight not a shallow one.
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sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
11/6/2015 13h00

I like that answer.


sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
11/6/2015 16h51

That you sure do.


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kittyliquor519 58H
2730 messages
11/6/2015 20h12

Personality & interests of course, but ultimately both choices

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


kzoopair 73H/71F
25831 messages
11/6/2015 20h24

No, you're just an asshole.

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NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 messages
11/6/2015 21h03

And you, of course, look like a GQ model, which gives you the right to be... you.

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NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 messages
11/6/2015 21h04

    Citer kzoopair:
    No, you're just an asshole.
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fffinder2000 60H
128 messages
11/6/2015 22h10

The easy and hard answer-attraction is a balance shared between both a persons Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty [and] the individuals Personality & Interests. Neither is exclusive in my opinion. Excluding bell curve fringes. I see the question as having two experiential parts. What is the initial attraction and what are the variables involved in sustaining attraction?
I will admit that through online dating my initial attraction is mostly physical. I see a picture, make an assessment on next step...read profile or not and move forward. Again, initial physical attributes are not the exclusive attraction mechanism however. Reading an email or blog post may generate an interest without the viewing of any photo. Long term attraction for me, involves some manner of attraction that is shared toward an individuals body AND mind. I need both elements and to fully appreciate them time is needed. Peace.


cherrycokepdx77 46H
6 messages
12/6/2015 3h33

Personality and interests for sure. Yes look are important too, but when it comes down too, id rather date someone who has similar interests with a good personality before someone with great looks, but nothing in common.


StangCobra 63H
147 messages
12/6/2015 3h55

I watched my wife walk by my apt and I would check out her fine body. I didn't know her but I found her physically appealing. I got to know her and found her to be the kindest person I have ever known. It will be 10years of marriage next month and if I didn't find her attractive I wouldn't have continued. After I met her, her personality and our common interests have kept us together.


ProfPlayful 53H
3861 messages
12/6/2015 4h58

I appreciate the question, SP72, but you have left us with an impossible choice. I cannot distill a person down to either of these factors, nor can I say that either is absolutely more important.

Anything can be taken to too great an extreme.

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_JKH_ 70H
5448 messages
12/6/2015 5h40

Must have a good personality.

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sirtonguesmith69 59H
1 message
12/6/2015 5h53

I would love to be PC on this one but sorry, attraction starts with appearance


firedup_19 62H
1684 messages
12/6/2015 6h08

pretty hard to get a sense of the heart and soul of a person on here, from the limited information available on most profiles, so passion is more of a catalog of toys to try and possibly keep for future future play... New toys are what passion is all about.


WNCCuckoldcpl 50H/51F

12/6/2015 11h15

I think the initial attraction is always purely physical while the residual or long term affection is derived from her personality and common interests.

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sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
12/6/2015 11h20

    Citer ProfPlayful:
    I appreciate the question, SP72, but you have left us with an impossible choice. I cannot distill a person down to either of these factors, nor can I say that either is absolutely more important.

    Anything can be taken to too great an extreme.
You don't have to choose between.. Just what initially attracts you more on average... In the beginning?


sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
12/6/2015 11h27

There are no right or wrong answers -- I was just saying I disagree with your assessment, plain and simple. I did however ask you a question that must of touched a soft spot on you --- for, you didn't answer -- and, you took it emotionally.


sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
12/6/2015 11h29

    Citer NaughtyInSO:
    And you, of course, look like a GQ model, which gives you the right to be... you.
I think his comment, he himself proved false.


sensualpassion72 59H/51F
3559 messages
12/6/2015 11h31

    Citer fffinder2000:
    The easy and hard answer-attraction is a balance shared between both a persons Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty [and] the individuals Personality & Interests. Neither is exclusive in my opinion. Excluding bell curve fringes. I see the question as having two experiential parts. What is the initial attraction and what are the variables involved in sustaining attraction?
    I will admit that through online dating my initial attraction is mostly physical. I see a picture, make an assessment on next step...read profile or not and move forward. Again, initial physical attributes are not the exclusive attraction mechanism however. Reading an email or blog post may generate an interest without the viewing of any photo. Long term attraction for me, involves some manner of attraction that is shared toward an individuals body AND mind. I need both elements and to fully appreciate them time is needed. Peace.
It's always both for long term --- but initial, is where I was talking about. I can make it simpler for everyone.

When you pick up a book, do you skim for images first or go to the back to read what it's about? I tend to be a reader and then, go look for images.


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