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That's a tough question. I think guys really have no idea what women want and need. Men think that if they can cum in a woman she will be happy and done deal. I don't know. I try but have never met a woman who will really communicate what she wants done with her. It is difficult all around/ I like a woman with a lot of kink. I have some too but have never met someone who shared them. So I did write a lot of fantasies some based from experience and some in my mind of what I like in my blog. It doesn't seem to take off either. I guess we just keep plugging away and don't give up. Somewhere there is someone. Easier for someone in a city but one never knows. As for writer's block? Just relax let time pass have some wine or in my case beer and eventually it comes back. Don't sweat it, you have a great blog.... Able202
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Oh, I feel you on the writer's block, hunnie.  I've written one (ahem) provocative thing, actually the first thing in my blog, that my Muse gave me ideas for. Originally was a love letter to someone years ago, but never made it to him as we've since parted ways many years prior. It needed a bit of spit and polish (oral lovers rejoice at the description), and a bit more fluffing (hee!) before I was happy enough with it to share. My Muse is a horny lil' devil, and any chance He gets to have me write porn, the better. Yes, my Muse is male- go figure... I'm also not your average froo-froo female, so bearing that in mind, I find a lot of inspiration in dirty jokes about cocks and pussies. Most of my friends are guys, so it's a given. We (male friends and myself) have a running tab amongst ourselves on who can garner the most "That's what she said" comebacks. So far, I'm in a tie with the guy friend who also helped me hone the fine art of snark.  But I digress. Inspiration, I've found, will come home to camp out when you least expect it. Patience is the key. Good luck!  "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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not at all what i expected
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need to look in texas
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While I don't know for sure but a friend of mind said yoga helped clear their mind and help them to restart and rethink.
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I have the same question you have... I've always known how rare it is to find men into 'good' sex (the kind that does not involve plagiarizing porn), but I always thought there were women looking for men like me who care, who thrive on pleasing them, and who love to find those nooks in their psyche's that make them purr, the uniqueness that makes any woman an individual. I also love it when I meet women who love to do for me. That mutuality is very powerful. What I find is that so many people have a perception of what sex is - as is evidenced by the 32 billion pictures of young, bouncy, shaved girls with long flowing hair and pert titties, formerly on Tumblr, and the porn industry's templates - girl surprised when a giant cock springs out, girl sheepishly taking it in hand, sucking an inch of it, two inches, licking this and that, cooing like Betty Boop, and handing it back to the guy to spray all over her (pick one - face, tongue, hair, panties, stockings, back, feet...) - absolutely no creativity, maybe a dozen variations, but billions of hours of the stuff, basically all the same. And you know what happens? People start to imitate that, and half the stories here are just like that. Men want their wives and girlfriends to deep throat them and ask them to fuck their asses, and women want the men spend enough time attentive and sensitive to their needs to give them an orgasm or two. It's the creativity and empathy genes that are missing, because the magic is when she wants to try to deep throat him because he's paid such focused attention on her. Oh crap - did I just rant? I've seen so many girlfriends (platonic) of mine treated like shit, and in some cases I could see it coming. I hear a guy's sincerity dribbling out of him and know it's bullshit. Men don't fuck women silly, they fuck themselves and hope the woman is OK with that. These are generalizations - again, I know this because I've purposefully addressed my own selfishness and on the other side found WAYYYYY better sex, and communication, and mind-blowing experiences. I've learned to be spontaneous, but not just pulling over and fucking in the car, though that can work. I've learned to pay attention to a woman, to express my warmth toward her, and to be romantic (which I felt, but felt too awkward and unsure to express). I've learned that you have to ask the questions out loud, rather than just in your head. And the rant goes on, the rant goes on. Just a bunch of thoughts on the topic. I loved the Badlands though I really just passed through. Beautiful country. A woman I met here was from SD, and I loved her and SD too. It's hard, because I love a lot of things, and find it hard to choose. Writers block - well, sometimes I shut everything off, radio, books on tape, facebook, and as much work related as I can. When all that has cleared out of my head, (sometimes a week later), I start getting ideas that I want to write about. Sometimes on long drives, I listen to nothing but the road, and ideas come to me and I write them down barely legibly on a pad next to me (keeping my eyes on the road, or course) I also go back to my past and pick out focal points and draft stories around those. One of my stories recently got more than 940 views, 13 comments and an 8.4 score over two days, which means, it did very well. Babette and Albie is the title, and I'm pretty proud of it, though each time I read it, I see where I can improve. Sleep well! Join my group, converse, share Words, brains, & other hot sex View my blog rm_WordsWolf
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