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Self Love - Self Care
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Self Love - Self Care I some times deal in traumatic events. During and after those events we are required to attend counselling. In my most recent event in speaking with a new in-training counsellor and his mentor he asked me what I do to engage in self -care. Having been at this a while and no longer feeling the need to hold back I told him that yes I do engage in self care I masturbate regularly during dealing with these events. It helps put things in perspective, it calms me and helps me sleep. I go on to say that when I have had a partner then I engage in frequent sex. The two counsellors look at each other and I can see the counsellor in training is turning red and a bit flustered and unsure of what to say. The mentor takes over and states that sex is one of the normal ways people deal with trauma and in certain circumstances is quite healthy. He then goes on to explain that self care is a little more involved... Ooops...guess sex was on my mind. |
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Congrats to you for feeling so comfortable and self-assured that you were able to be so honest. Bet your colleagues never expected you to be so revealing 😊
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Sex is a good way to deal with traumatic incidents. I will have to try that
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6/2/2019 6h12 |
Wish I could have seen the looks on their faces, I'd bet it was priceless. I bet they both went home and "self-cared" themselves thinking about that! 
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6/2/2019 6h15 |
I think sex is a good cure for many things... You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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6/2/2019 6h21 |
lol, I can obviously see why when you had a partner why you would be involved in frequent sex to alleviate any stress! On a serious note, your point is very valid. If you look at any of the historic events that were traumatic, ie: missile crisis, wars.....there was always a spike in births 9 months and more afterwards....when we have traumatic events our primal instincts is to procreate so that our gene pool lives on. I think north korea is planning to nuke north bay, I will be there shortly 
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wishing one day you would do some self care in texas... lol
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6/2/2019 7h42 |
Funny, every time I see your pics, sex comes into mind. Also funny, when she an I were chatting yesterday, another A F F er referred to masturbation as "self abuse". She told me she was horny. I sjared that I was, too, and that I'd stroked off a big load just before. That's when she wrote, "Sorry for your dtroking and self abuse>" Maybe she wrote that tongue in cheek. I think she could have put her tongue to better use.
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POW! You blew their mind! Would have liked to seen the look on their faces! 
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6/2/2019 8h53 |
lol, I can obviously see why when you had a partner why you would be involved in frequent sex to alleviate any stress! On a serious note, your point is very valid. If you look at any of the historic events that were traumatic, ie: missile crisis, wars.....there was always a spike in births 9 months and more afterwards....when we have traumatic events our primal instincts is to procreate so that our gene pool lives on. I think north korea is planning to nuke north bay, I will be there shortly
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i agree, masturbation and sex is used fro stress relief. I also find that orgasming before bed does help me sleep better
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Naughty, such a great read hun and you should of gotten a picture of his face. As I am sure it was priceless, and we all have to do self care when we face traumatic events that occur in our lives, well said hun.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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LMAO Jo Honesty is the Best Policy, loved to have seen their faces  my Friend  Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"
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Oops is right... Lol 😁 So.. Inner monologue disappears for you as you get older? Kool.. Glad to know I'm not alone . 😊 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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6/2/2019 16h34 |
pent up frustration isnt healthy
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You are not wrong. Good for you in being open and honest.
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7/2/2019 4h05 |
good for you
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LOL...got them,,,,one counselor is well adjusted the other needs some counseling. Well I do like your methods of pushing those difficult visions out of your head. Sex can be a hobby...at least I think so.
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 Oops.....not quite a slip of the tongue, more so a slip of the finger......I always knew there was more to you McSuit......ye're a wee bit special it seems!! 
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That's why I visit this site often..... the need for self -care ~~~ ....happy to read you are well adjusted ~~
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Ouch!!!....brb... gotta go masturbate
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Self pleasure seems like acceptable self care to me! I console myself often!
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Sex is a good relaxer I have also been known to watch the Chopped Food Network program while sipping Dewars to unwind. NO where near the relaxation that comes from masturbating --but it works some.
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11/2/2019 11h31 |
Funny...there’s two things we agree on.
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Naughty Girl... I ALWAYS deal with everything via the ol' chicken choke-hold. I just have a sneakin' suspicion that if you were placin' a choke-hold on that ol' chicken of mine... I' likely be a whole lot less stressed... and I wouldn't need 3 quarts of BBQ sauce to bring to a well-done golden brown. Solar...
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