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Why a profile A.F.F. why?
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Why a profile A.F.F. why? It's not like anyone reads these things initially. Let me tell you a story.... I've been on this site for a very long time. That's right kiddies this is not my first rodeo or my first handle on this site. It is my second. I do a lot of things on this site. I try to email folks back (well as best as I can after all I'm what's considered a "unicorn" *snicker snort* on this site) . I blog, I chat and I cam. I also like to meet people in real life. I know, I know...you're thinking woah..no way a chick who actually meets people it simply can not be possible" ahh but my lovelies it is. The reasons you may ask well I'm glad you did (and if you didn't I'm going to tell you anyways...) First: My typing is atrocious Second: I can only masturbate so often before my hands go on strike and third... I don't get nearly as much attention as I would like. Those very reasons put me on this site years ago and they are the reasons I still reside here occasionally today. The almighty profile. The profile is a place where you can share a little bit about yourself, your history, what you are looking for and anything that you are not looking for. However most don't look past the pictures before they look you up. I proved a point once upon a time. If you've seen the pic with me with bright red hair I posted that pic as a profile and then went on to say how I was a pre-op and how with the right plastic surgeon you can fool the best of them. This profile was up for months so when someone would hit me up and talk to me about my profile and tell me how much they enjoyed it I would ask what part did you like..the tits or my balls? needless to say most of those guys quickly excused themselves and i never heard from them again. I really think if you're going to compliment a profile you should really understand the whole meat and potatoes of it. Dissection of a profile. Let's look at mine.... Welcome to my profile. Most of you old-timers might remember my previous profile "velvetgrrrl". For whatever reason a couple years back it just disappeared and i have no idea if it's even retrievable after so many years. So here goes round ahem hm cough cough... Again not my first time here and unless I get married (hahaha...do you suppose I'm jaded that I laugh at that institution? Personally I'd rather be institutionalized by the state I'm a 37 year old female and I'm open to suggestions. I'm not attached to anyone at this time but not really sure if i want to be. I DO have kids...have a problem with that? Then move along I do not have the time for wasted energy. Been there, done that and still a bit perturbed over the end results. Please do not assume because I'm on this site and am NOT looking for a relationship that I'm going to just invite you over, with my children under the same roof and fuck your brains out. I will probably have to fine tooth comb my profile to make sure that those out there are aware that if I have not talked to you, have not met you in a public location and have not determined there is an interest from both parties that I probably won't be giving you my name...let alone my address. One thing that folks may remember about me is I'm age picky. I haven't changed on that either. I am looking for someone at least 27 and no older than 44. I have made exceptions in the past but you really need to get to know me and capture my interest to get past that initial barrier. Ok this one bugs me the most and is how I know no one bothers to take a moment to read my profile. I am age picky for reasons. If you're closer to my oldest son's age than my own chances are I probably won't fuck you. It would probably give me some sort of heebie-jeebie thought of sex with children. No bueno. If you're closer to my parents' ages than my own there is no way I'm going to go there. Will I talk to you? Sure, just DON'T try to get in my pants. Don't try to ask me out. I just can't get past my own personal issues with age. My mom is 55. My dad is 60. So if you can be old enough to have been part of my creation.... Just no. I don't have a daddy complex. I don't want someone to take care of me and I'm sorry for the bluntness I just don't want to look at old balls and penis. Too much? Perhaps. Necessary? Definitely. I realize someday too my boobs will sag and my vagina will look like a botched dinner plan but until then.... I'm a full time student. This means I'm pretty busy. Can I make time? Absolutely just know that school and family will always come first. Self explanatory. I'm busy. Despite the ungodly amounts of time I spend on here I have a lot of things I can do and I actually probably shouldn't be spending the time on here or any other social networking. I blame it on the ADD. *grin* I'm also a full time photographer so I'm surrounded by beautiful secure people a lot. This must be why i do it because I am not beautiful nor secure (translation:emotional/security issues not really but I thought I would concern you for a moment) Ok if you're interested in getting photographed that's fantastic. Have an event? Need to hire someone? Awesome. We'll review rates and work and see if i can help you in your time of need. Do not use ploys such as come take my naked pictures as a ploy to get naked and get me in your presence. I take my business very seriously as it is supplemental income to my going to school. Also do not question me about my models they have their own lives that have nothing to do with this site. Surefire way to irk me take the one thing I love as much as my family and drag it through the mud What do i want? Hell if I know. But maybe I will find it here. After all you can't get anywhere without trying first. No I do not know what I want if it's anything at all. Does that mean I'm against the idea of things? Not at all it just means I may be a slower choice than others when it comes to this site. Great things come to those with patience. Now let's look at the "my bad" part of it. Things I did not think I would have to mention. I don't do cybersex. I'm not a cam to cam person it does nothing for me unless I have an emotional connection to you. Do not try to do more than chat if you live so far away that I can not easily visit within a couple hours. I personally try to keep within a 200 mile radius and thats a lot. I have been known to break my own rules but that's with time and getting to know a person without all the sex talk iniitially. I know I come across like a raging cunt and I may be pre-menapausal but I know what I want to a point. I want FRIENDS who I can share the fun BENEFITS of being so with them. "I could make you all go away, any time I want to" |
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I suppose the point I'm making since I tend to be vague and scattered is what's the point of a profile if no one reads them anyways. Oh and a big s two fingered salute to this site for having a fucked up sense of javascript "I could make you all go away, any time I want to"
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I use my profile to screen out the people who don't read my profile. I've also been on the site in a couple of different iterations over the past decade and found that if someone writes to me and doesn't even bother to skim my profile, it's a waste of time to even meet.
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Sorry to say, but men on this site, as a general rule don't get past the photos, and never bother to read the profile.
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Ever read something by someone you have already started getting to know, and wondered, "how would this sound from a total stranger?" Yeah, I don't think you sound menstrual. ...but I could be biased. Sounds like a good weekend for having shoots and things to do. All us attention hungry guys will just have to understand, the camera needs your wrists and fingers too 
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Go back on IM!
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10/1/2017 17h53 |
"What do i want? Hell if I know. But maybe I will find it here. After all you can't get anywhere without trying first. No I do not know what I want if it's anything at all. Does that mean I'm against the idea of things? Not at all it just means I may be a slower choice than others when it comes to this site. Great things come to those with patience." For me, I just learned what the hell that 'want' is: transparency. Now, I am looking for it in a life partner.
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I'd given my left nut to have stumbled across your profile first. I've almost finished reading and ..DUDE, totally wish I would seen you first. I'm going to go back and rewrite my profile again. But, any advice you feel like giving would be welcome. Please. I'm fairly new here on the site and have made a number of blunders; at least it sure seems that way. As far as advice goes, ...up to a point I've got to give you, at the very least, a direction for words. If their to do me any good. It's just that: I'm not exactly sure which way I should point. So, I guess, IN A NUT SHELL... I can't seem to turn any heads. With words or my good looks and I'm getting frustrated. Now granted, I'm guessing my age has a bit to do with it. But in my opinion, I neither look nor act as old as I am. So if that truly is the case, ... WTF, over. Thanks in advance for any and all help. Best, Jonny. Ps, I do MUCH better in person too.
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