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Warning Signs - my view on the blog topic Warning Signs Warning signs are present in our everyday lives. When turning the ignition on in your car, there is a buzzer that sounds if you haven’t put your seatbelt on. When cooking, if there is too much steam or smoke you can set off your smoke detector. When driving there are signals that warn you they are changing by going from green to yellow to red. At railroad train crossings there are lighted warning poles that come down in the road to block cars from continuing forward. A severe, crushing pain in the chest that may radiate outward to the shoulders, arms and neck is a warning sign of a heart attack. There are also warning signs of infidelity in a relationship. Your partner is working longer hours at work. I found a note from a secretary that my partner was seeing in his briefcase. Your partner is more secretive. Used movie ticket stubs of a movie I didn’t see fell out of a partner’s wallet when he opened it. You notice your partner has a sense of confusion about oneself. My husband had gender issues. He was a cross dresser. You find your partner lying to you about a variety of things. My husband lied to me about wanting to rest in our hotel room while on a vacation. I went shopping and when I returned my husband was in bed with another person. What happens in Vegas, doesn’t always stay in Vegas! Your partner seems bored with you, a job, the kids, or life in general, maybe having a mid-life crisis. I had a partner that couldn’t keep or didn’t want to keep a job. Is your sex life non-existent? Does your partner have low self-esteem? Is your partner more negative or non-communicative? Are they dressing nicer, smelling nicer, looking nicer? These are all warning signs of infidelity in a relationship. |
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Warning signs are there. Most of the time, we are too confident in a relationship to see them right away. It takes time for us to believe what we observe. C'est la vie. Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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And then there are those people who are thrilled by the game...they cheat because of the excitement, the adrenalin rush that comes from it. They leave warning signs everywhere- it's part of the game. How close to the edge, to being discovered, can they get? It has nothing to do with their partner- they'd cheat no matter who they were married to, no matter how beautiful and sexy. It's the game and the chemical that drives them. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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just reading the blog, I had Bruce Springsteen's Hungry Heart star in my head... I always remember a quote... freedom is what you do with what has been done to you... I think it's Satre from memory. and in terms of the blog, remember forgiveness is a choice... sometimes people choose not to forgive after seeing the signs. 
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And then there are those people who are thrilled by the game...they cheat because of the excitement, the adrenalin rush that comes from it. They leave warning signs everywhere- it's part of the game. How close to the edge, to being discovered, can they get? It has nothing to do with their partner- they'd cheat no matter who they were married to, no matter how beautiful and sexy. It's the game and the chemical that drives them. infidelity is a game to a lot of people and unfortunately those people are professionals at hiding their warning signs. Great submission, lots of things to think about, thank you!
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Others have commented about the infidelity issues you raise, but the first part of your post is interesting as well -- it brings to mind some points Scott Adams (the creator of "Dilbert") has been writing about -- the amount to which we let machines and robots influence our actions. Welcome to the virtual symposium! I'm delighted you joined us, and look forward to your continued participation. Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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Sometimes we just don't want to acknowledge what is obvious. Great Post. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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