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Sixth Virtual Symposium - Odd Then, Fantastic Now...
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Sixth Virtual Symposium - Odd Then, Fantastic Now... Ok, so I don't like this topic. I can't think about anything that was odd then and now fantastic. So here goes my take on the topic. All my life it seems, I have done what other people wanted me to. I remember having a boyfriend that I lived with who wanted me to throw away some stuff I kept in boxes. So I cleaned out the boxes and threw the stuff away. My mother would call me and want me to come over to her house. She was a very negative person and actually didn't even like me. I would go because I felt obligated. My previous husband wanted to move to another city and state. We moved even though I didn't want to. He choose the house that we bought also. Recently, I had a friend that wanted me to move to another city and state with him so he wouldn't be alone. I decided not to move. Luckily he changed his mind before we had the discussion. I feel like I have done things all my life for other people. I don't do that anymore. Now my life is mine and is fantastic. I will not do what someone wants me to do unless I want to do it. Life is short. Enjoy it while you can with whom you want to enjoy it with.  |
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so true, being poor but happy is a great way to go through life. Enjoying the people you meet. the really good people leave you those special memories. 
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Good for you! I stopped being a doormat about 10 years ago. And it does feel fantastic to live my life the way I want. Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Fantastic now, to be sure! Welcome to the symposium... even if it wasn't your topic of choice... we'll have another one next month, and you may find the next focus more to your liking (or you may hate it even more, in which case it'll be a lovely challenge, should you wish...) Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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Very good advice.  A good read.  
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Very Very good post. I think we all do things like that untill we get fed up with it and put our foot down and say no I'm not doing it any more. A very good post 
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Succinct and straight to the point. And a damn good rule to follow as well! Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Sometimes a topic sounds good and it is hard to interpret it. I liked reading this, though. Being a people pleaser is hard. I think as we grow older, we become less People Pleasers and more just realizing what we can do and what we can't do. Kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Very true! "To Be Consumed" Blog : I want to be your drug of painful withdrawals.
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I say stick to your guns. Do what you want to do for a change, it's your life, right ??
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To thy own self be true Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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