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The Ugly Duckling...
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The Ugly Duckling... The 'ugly duckling' ultimately wins by becoming a beautiful swan... Better story: It remains a duck, loves itself, learns to ignore assholes. I saw this on my FB page and thought, wow, I've got to post about this. How many times do we see stories about: changing into something we are not, and are never going to be, as if this is a happy, expected outcome. When, perhaps, we should just accept who we are and learn to live with it... The message that we receive daily is that: Beautiful is everything and everything else doesn't matter... I don't agree with that, because I am happy with myself. That's all I have and all I am going to have. So, if I choose to accept me, then, others might be able to accept me... Don't you all agree that we set expectations 'way' to high for the things that we are looking for? I mean, if you read through the passion posts, most of the people have all of these rules about what they are and are not looking for... You have to be this tall, or this short and be like this or like that and can only be within this range.... So, please let me know your thoughts on this... Thanks, in advance... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!  |
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I am one of those people who have learned to ignore assholes. even as an attractive woman.
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I am one of those people who have learned to ignore assholes. even as an attractive woman. Appreciate it... And, yes, you are an attractive woman! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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This is a tough one. I can be friends with a variety of people but I only lust after some. If I am primarily looking for someone to arouse me then there are certain attributes that I prefer. If I were to look for a soul mate then I would look for different attributes. The things that I need to have in common any type are respect, honesty, and kindness. Assholes will be ignored whether I'm looking for friends, sex partners, or a soul mate. Good post, thanks.
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The first response I made was from my point of view of others. Now I thought of how others view me and my reaction to it. Just this week someone emailed me saying that I was ugly in the face pic I shared with him. I had previously told him that I wasn't attracted to the 7 year old picture of himself that he sent and would pass on meeting. Whether he was responding out of honesty or anger/hurt I will never know. Some men on here are so desperate to find a place to put their cock that they would try to fuck someone they thought was ugly. Either way, it stung. I am not gorgeous, never claimed to be, but I am happy with myself. No matter what this man said, I am happy with "me", assholes can step aside. Told you this was a tough one to think about.
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This is a tough one. I can be friends with a variety of people but I only lust after some. If I am primarily looking for someone to arouse me then there are certain attributes that I prefer. If I were to look for a soul mate then I would look for different attributes. The things that I need to have in common any type are respect, honesty, and kindness. Assholes will be ignored whether I'm looking for friends, sex partners, or a soul mate. Good post, thanks. You know I enjoy reading your blogs... I like your post... especially the critical attributes: 'respect'; 'honesty' & 'kindness'. However, the infatuation or lust or physical attraction that one may have for someone, may also be a part of the 'relationship' one seeks to have with another... I mean, when I look at a woman and am mesmerized by her beauty, I don't know anything about her, her history, her likes, wants, wishes... I just think... Wow... what a knockout... I may never truly want to meet her... but, she brings out a feeling inside of me... Would she ever be my friend, my soulmate... Don't know, but, when I look at the women that I consider 'hot'; ultimately, most of them get divorced multiple times over their lifetime... or are judged harshly by others... or can't carry on a conversation that is scripted... so, then, I'm back to being a 'duck'... just sayin'... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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The first response I made was from my point of view of others. Now I thought of how others view me and my reaction to it. Just this week someone emailed me saying that I was ugly in the face pic I shared with him. I had previously told him that I wasn't attracted to the 7 year old picture of himself that he sent and would pass on meeting. Whether he was responding out of honesty or anger/hurt I will never know. Some men on here are so desperate to find a place to put their cock that they would try to fuck someone they thought was ugly. Either way, it stung. I am not gorgeous, never claimed to be, but I am happy with myself. No matter what this man said, I am happy with "me", assholes can step aside. Told you this was a tough one to think about. I'm just a guy... I probably need 'real' psychiatric treatment for the remaining part of my life... Having said that... some people in the world are simple and look only for instant gratification and/or entitlements... they look at the law of averages and flip a coin to determine if what they do is worth their time... Then, faced with rejection or satisfaction, they move on to the next one, and so on... That would be their loss, and they don't know it... My favorite saying of all time is this: 'A donkey doesn't know that he is a donkey'... And, your post 'If you can't say something nice' is a reminder of the things that many people have forgotten or just don't care to do... Rejection hurts us all, even though we say it doesn't... Sometimes, people say the first thing that pops into their mind. And, often, it is not the most politically correct thing to say, even though to the speaker it seems innocent enough. Sometimes, people get upset with me, because I hesitate to answer and take a few moments to formulate my response to something. They ask me to just blurt it out. At which, I take a few more seconds and give them the possible responses and why I wouldn't say that... and the response that I would give and the reason... and, then their eyes light up and they say... 'Oh'... I wasn't looking at it like that!!! Well, what do I know... but, a long time ago, my grandfather told me 'everything in moderation'... didn't matter if it was drinking, smoking, talking... whatever, he said if you do everything without going crazy about it... things will work out... I like the idea of life being like a box of chocolates... we all still like to choose our own, don't we! just sayin'... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I'm too stubborn to be what I'm not LOL. As for insecurities.... I have them. I worry people will think me not pretty enough, not sexy enough... but I pretend I don't notice my flaws and so far... they've not been an issue for anybody else either.
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I'm too stubborn to be what I'm not LOL. As for insecurities.... I have them. I worry people will think me not pretty enough, not sexy enough... but I pretend I don't notice my flaws and so far... they've not been an issue for anybody else either. thanks for the post... I think it is good to be stubborn... We all have insecurities... I always tell people I'm just a simple man. I think I am a 7 but, I can play up... The superficial stuff is not important... What people feel and do is what defines them... Flaws and all... I'm comforted by the fact that there are over 7 billion people on the planet... I can accept 6.9 billion people or more rejecting me... Still leaves a few million to challenge & stimulate... that's a great feeling... If you like yourself, the whole world is open... It's not just about the physical, the emotional component is so powerful, kind of like all of the elements of attraction (sight, smell, touch, taste, hearing)... thanks for posting... Have a great day! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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