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Holy SHIT! Take The Time BEFORE You Contact!
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Holy SHIT! Take The Time BEFORE You Contact! I try very hard to be a patient and kind person, and honestly it is something that nine times out of ten just comes to me naturally! It is just in my nature.  But I can get pretty frustrated at times when I am contacted by younger guys or people asking to meet! I make it very plain on my profile why I am here at the moment. And I will be wording it a little different after this post, to include and hopefully be visible...that I am NOT interested in younger guys! I took the time to put together an honest profile. I am assuming that they are just looking at a profile pic! I'm glad you may like it...but come on! Now I can understand IF someone is not an upgraded member and can't read my entire profile...BUT even when you hover over one...you can see the first part of it.........so what is the problem here?? Stopping by to say "hi" is one thing....but asking to meet or asking if I'm into younger guys...is not okay....it says right in my profile that I'm not doing either of those things! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL  |
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If ya just wanna say "Hi"...great! Otherwise READ the profile FIRST!! Please! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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24/4/2017 17h11 |
You are being generous in assuming they can read!
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You are being generous in assuming they can read! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I agree 100 percent. Happens all the time though.
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I totally understand what you're saying. I have a few things in my profile as well regarding what I am NOT looking for. I even changed the font color and moved it further up on my profile page. Don't you know, half the e-mails I get are from just those people. And as I'm getting an e-mail, it's definitely from a paying member. Either they just skipped over the majority of my profile or didn't bother to read it at all. Oh well, easy enough to just delete the thing.
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I agree 100 percent. Happens all the time though. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I have decided that if they cannot read the conversations will be as empty as their heads so I just delete and block (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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I'm convinced most of them don't read profiles. I don't have any time to play at the moment. My profile says as much. Still day in day out... wanna meet up? free tonight? etc etc
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I totally understand what you're saying. I have a few things in my profile as well regarding what I am NOT looking for. I even changed the font color and moved it further up on my profile page. Don't you know, half the e-mails I get are from just those people. And as I'm getting an e-mail, it's definitely from a paying member. Either they just skipped over the majority of my profile or didn't bother to read it at all. Oh well, easy enough to just delete the thing.  I agree I can just delete....and usually do! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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You can put anything you want on your profile, but you can't really get angry if some take that chance of contacting you anyway. Life is about taking chances. I generally don't get too angry, as opposed to more frustrated. They can contact if they want...I can't stop them...but they will just get deleted! Now they know.... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I have decided that if they cannot read the conversations will be as empty as their heads so I just delete and block  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I'm convinced most of them don't read profiles. I don't have any time to play at the moment. My profile says as much. Still day in day out... wanna meet up? free tonight? etc etc Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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24/4/2017 18h09 |
wait, we can contact others??? Oh, it's gonna be a late night..
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No matter how clear a profile is there will be some that write who did read it but chose to ignore. They THINK they are special so you will make a exception for them. I have no younger but most that wrote was younger. Have not meeting at this time. Still get mail asking to chat. Had kink only but most don't know what it is. Had must be experienced but most wanted me to teach them. Very few was the right age, experienced etc. Then of course there is the ones who think that because this is a sex site we are suppose to f anybody who shows interest. They don't get there is a profile we have to fill out the Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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wait, we can contact others??? Oh, it's gonna be a late night..  ....okay.....I get that not all free members can contact other members. I think perhaps they may use points to do it, which makes it all the worse for them to bother contacting me and getting deleted.....or blocked depending on how bad their email is....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I'm new here but I understand what you're saying. I personally think that if you really want to meet up with somebody you should really take time to get to know them somewhat. Even though I can't read whole profiles because i'm a basic member..... I want to actually get to know someone that I may eventually meet up with. Send emails.... to each other... IM each other... learn some about them. I think it makes the hookup more intimate..... more special. Make it a time that the one who you are with can feel more comfortable.. more relaxed. Make it a time that you give yourselves to each other. Completely. I agree..IF I was looking to meet at the moment I would want to take the time to get to know them and that would initially be through emails...IM's etc. But when one states that they are not looking for that at the present time...it should (in my opinion) be respected for the honesty that it is. They can always hot list me if they'd like...keep an eye and if they notice a change in my profile..then take that time to contact me. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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and I do put what I want and don't want on my profile. .... Maybe just enter what you do want. Remove from your profile , the items you don't want. That might eliminate most of the annoyances who may be just contacting you knowing full well you don't want them. I suppose my mistake is in hoping that someone will respect that. ...Nooo. 1. You're practically inviting trouble, and 2. Those who may be serious should always take that chance just in case. They can contact if they want...I can't stop them...but they will just get deleted! ... Doesn't matter, at least [those who may have been serious] now know. So no regrets later on for them. They tried. (Maybe just enter what you do want. Remove from your profile , the items you don't want. That might eliminate most of the annoyances who may be just contacting you knowing full well you don't want them). BUT...I like my profile just the way it is and shouldn't have to change it for anyone. .Nooo. 1. You're practically inviting trouble, and 2. Those who may be serious should always take that chance just in case. 1. I'm inviting trouble by expecting people to respect my wishes? Hmmm...guess I'm just a troublemaker then..lol 2. I guess I can agree with this a bit...but they also can't get angry if I don't respond to them...or keep sending the same damn email constantly and expect me to be happy about it. Doesn't matter, at least [those who may have been serious] now know. So no regrets later on for them. They tried. Okay...maybe so....and I'm thrilled if they have no regrets later and can tell themselves they tried. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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24/4/2017 19h51 |
It can all be summed up with one word....RESPECT!!! People post what they are looking for on their profiles, in their blogs and in some cases, their pics. And those reading it should show the respect that they would want to be shown to them. I look at this as if it were a bar. I would not go up to a stranger in a bar and ask if they want to go to bed. I would attempt to get to know who they are and what they are about. If things click, the other stuff will happen. But respect is where it all begins in my opinion! Cum follow my blog and feel free to leave a comment. It's what makes the chat interesting!
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I am currently having the best conversations with a guy who can't read my profile, or see my pics. Quality will always win out. The rest, I delete, once I have wiped my tears and picked myself up off the floor. The numbs kills just help us separate the wheat from the chaff, without having to actually do any work. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Hey, I'm an oldster! 59!!! So that is good right? Hey, lots of people do that - don't read or act like they don't - or think that they are an exception - so ....
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some people just like to look at photos, others will take the time to read the profile
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It can all be summed up with one word....RESPECT!!! People post what they are looking for on their profiles, in their blogs and in some cases, their pics. And those reading it should show the respect that they would want to be shown to them. I look at this as if it were a bar. I would not go up to a stranger in a bar and ask if they want to go to bed. I would attempt to get to know who they are and what they are about. If things click, the other stuff will happen. But respect is where it all begins in my opinion! If there is nothing in common that we may connect with, then chances of anything working out are pretty slim. It is the purpose of our profiles on here- to let others know what we want..what we are looking for-what we don't want and aren't looking for. Otherwise why bother to even write one. Some don't, they just have a blank intro-what a waste...but still their choice. We're all here for different reasons...and should show respect for them! Makes for a better site...hopefully...lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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some people just like to look at photos, others will take the time to read the profile At least that is my opinion on how it should "work" on here...  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Haven't you heard? There is a marketing ploy out there somewhere thst guarantees naive horney guys that all they have to do is she'll out megabucks, and they will get laid? They were to cheap to upgrade to gold or too lazy to read profiles and think "Hi" is all that is needed because this site is full of women who are here to do nothing than be available to any cock that comes along. There are millions of them out there, that think "they are the bait". Goodgawdalmighty, are they in for a surprise. WE ARE THE BAIT. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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...it is about respect! .... Cutting in here, for a bit, ...actually this has nothing to do with respect at all, but everything to do with attraction and chemistry. ....If the question of "Respect" is a thought pinging between your ears with some guy, you're with the wrong guy. For example, guys who are assholes, get all kinds of tail. You think those women who have sex with him is concerned about being respected?! ....ha...no way!! Why? Because she's hot for him. I think maybe you miss a point...that not all people (men or women) are, or feel the same way! I could be immediately, sexually attracted to someone, but guess what? I'm still NOT gonna jump his bones THAT night. I LOVE sex....but it ain't the end all and be all of my existence! If a man wants to have sex with me...He'll respect my position! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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