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Seriously Guys? (some of you)
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Seriously Guys? (some of you) So I received this email from a guy that just cuts and pastes emails apparently, either that or he was very confused, was thinking of someone else when he emailed me, or was hoping he was being very flattering to me and I'd jump at the chance....lol I've considered perhaps a typo-but I'm thinking that the numbers are too far spaced on a keyboard.....lol Your pictures are amazing!! You look gorgeous for 40!! You look like a very sensual lady... I'll be in the area this week for business, and would love to enjoy you if you're interested. ...I hope that you are 10/23/2017 3:28 pm He also included pictures, and honestly he wasn't a bad looking man. He was younger (48 yrs. old) But come on now... I'm 57 years old, quite a bit past 40, and I clearly state in my profile what I'm looking for. I'm not looking for quick hookups with men I barely know. Does he think we are going to develop a long term relationship with him coming into my area for business occasionally ?. He lives 828 miles away from me! Am I supposed to be flattered? Yay...he'd like to enjoy me, no mention of if he'd like for me to enjoy as well! Hmmmmm....... IF he had taken a little time to read my profile, he would have known that I wouldn't have been interested.... I realize my profile is a long read, and if someone is not up for it...that's fine. Don't bother and move on....but if you're going to email me (or any woman/man) for that matter, then you really should take some time. Otherwise you are just wasting your time and mine. I use to answer all emails, but it can get ridiculous saying the same things over and over. I get it if they don't have a gold membership, but my understanding is standard members can't read or send emails anyway. (correct me if I'm wrong). Soooooooo.....If you are a gold member then there is no excuse for you not reading a profile, other then you didn't care to. I'm really a pretty easy going-laid back woman....not trying to bust balls, but I don't think it's that hard for people to take some time, and put in a little effort, if they really want you to consider them Agree? Disagree? Feel free to give your thoughts.. Ahhhhhhh...those disappearing images......Ugh   Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL  |
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Time and effort...it could just pay off..... [image] Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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They either can't read, don't care, or are just casting a very WIDE net hoping to get some response. When they don't they whine that everyone is fake. : / If you don't stand for something , you will fall for anything ! 
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Reading most women's profiles doesn't take that much time. and BTW, You don't have to have a gold membership to read profiles. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I think the majority of men just look at the pictures on our profiles and not read them. Nothing they email anymore surprises me!!! Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Very much agree...I also agree that it doesn't take long to read a profile. I continue to wonder about people and how they've made it so far in life if they can't do the basic things, like reading a profile to determine if there is even a remote chance of compatibility.
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I always read the profiles when I can,,,as a regular member I can only read a small part of the profiles. What sense is there in contacting someone who's profile information does not conform to what one is looking for? Other than just to chat a bit and maybe strike up a friendship.
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Just when I thought I had idiot proofed everything someone brought in a new class of idiots
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This site brings out all types. I love how I set my preferences for certain age ranges & I get everyone BUT the ones I want. It is too bad that men or women don’t read at least a portion of the profiles before they send a message. I think you’re right but that’s just a crapshoot and they said maas emails out to see who replies. Does make for good reading for us here on the blogs. 😊 Rachel Mae
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They either can't read, don't care, or are just casting a very WIDE net hoping to get some response. When they don't they whine that everyone is fake. : / Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Reading most women's profiles doesn't take that much time. and BTW, You don't have to have a gold membership to read profiles. Hmmmm.....I guess I was under the impression that standard members could not see profiles. I learned something.....thanks....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I think the majority of men just look at the pictures on our profiles and not read them. Nothing they email anymore surprises me!!! I'm with you....but ya never know..it seems we read something on the blogs about emails frequently.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Very much agree...I also agree that it doesn't take long to read a profile. I continue to wonder about people and how they've made it so far in life if they can't do the basic things, like reading a profile to determine if there is even a remote chance of compatibility.  It does make it easier to see if the woman might be interested because you share something in common if one takes the time to read profiles. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I always read the profiles when I can,,,as a regular member I can only read a small part of the profiles. What sense is there in contacting someone who's profile information does not conform to what one is looking for? Other than just to chat a bit and maybe strike up a friendship. Even if you can only read a small portion, you make the effort. It doesn't make a lot of sense to me to contact someone that I clearly have no common interests with or one who doesn't desire the same type of relationship that I'm looking for. I don't mind so much if someone contacts me to chat and I have made a few friends here that I email with, so I understand that aspect. This guy I referenced in the blog was just clueless..... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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You are right, some women don't say very much on their profiles. I read the women's as well. Hmmmm.....I guess I was under the impression that standard members could not see profiles. I learned something.....thanks....lol When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Just when I thought I had idiot proofed everything someone brought in a new class of idiots I think if a guy does choose to send a cut and paste email, he should definitely make it rather generic (no age reference for sure....lol) and if he sends it to the same woman repeatedly (which I have happen all the time)....well she's on to him most assuredly.....lol  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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This site brings out all types. I love how I set my preferences for certain age ranges & I get everyone BUT the ones I want. It is too bad that men or women don’t read at least a portion of the profiles before they send a message. I think you’re right but that’s just a crapshoot and they said maas emails out to see who replies. Does make for good reading for us here on the blogs. 😊 But like you've pointed out there are some things that could use improvement. I have cupid preferences set within a certain range and generally those are the profiles I see. I suspect some people put them in at 19 to 99.....lol This whole site is a crapshoot, will this work today-will that work today, but again...it keeps ya on your toes....lol I think you are correct that some send out mass emails hoping someone will respond. I like the more personal approach....lol It does make for funny...interesting reading on here. Which I do enjoy  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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You're in a world of bullshit.
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Most that write me don't read my short and clear profile or ignore what is there. They think they are so special. I haven't changed my mind about what I want. No matter how much they love older women or beg me to teach them to top me because they are fast learners. A few think how they love giving oral will interest me. Or compliments. No to both. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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You're in a world of bullshit. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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You may be right Lala....mass emailing and hope something sticks.... I'm fairly certain most of the men that email me don't read my profile or they wouldn't ask the questions that they do. And that's if I get more than the "Hi" or "Hey" or "wanna fuck" or"I'd like to lick your body all over" type of email. Soooooo many are clueless.... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Ahhhhhhhhhhh....I forgot about that option....lol Shame isn't it that some don't realize that's not a way to grab a woman's interest. Good things may come to those that show some real interest and are willing to put in some effort. Oh well.......they'll most likely keep on doing what they do...and cry because no woman will give them a chance....  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Most that write me don't read my short and clear profile or ignore what is there. They think they are so special. I haven't changed my mind about what I want. No matter how much they love older women or beg me to teach them to top me because they are fast learners. A few think how they love giving oral will interest me. Or compliments. No to both. My profile is pretty long and kinda detailed, but no man should be confused by what I want....if they take the time, and then believe what I've said. I think they think, that they will be the one to change my mind. Nope...I know what I want- and not gonna settle. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I do realize that not all men have the approach that the guy I wrote about has. And I'm sure you're right, that some men hope they throw the BS up on the wall (so to speak), and some might stick, but it sure as hell does not endear these men to us women. I agree that A*F*F may have their own agenda ie: fake profile views and the like, but the emails are sent by the men. Not all men take a hint...and if you flat out tell them, they can get pissy and butt hurt and lash out with some mean crap. Trust me...I love men and realize that not ALL men are like that. There are some awesome men here....and we women can tell who they are. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Well said Lala Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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