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I'm Getting Real Tired  

GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1809 messages
19/12/2017 6h57
I'm Getting Real Tired


Of this new IM "feature"......

The freaking thing signs me on automatically every time I sign in, and apparently sometimes when I click on my email, or other odd times it does it as well. It use to just do that if I logged in on my cell phone, now it does it if I'm on my laptop!

Is this supposed to be a good thing? Cause I think it sucks!!

IF I wanted to go on the IM I can damn well do it when I feel like doing it, not when A*F*F feels like doing it for me!!!

Is this annoying anyone else or is it just me?.........lol


WTF.........

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 6h59

I KNOW how IM works.....soooooooooooo let me do it IF I want!!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


NovemberRain2702 32H
4 messages
19/12/2017 7h01

quero ser bem real para você amor


NovemberRain2702 32H
4 messages
19/12/2017 7h02

bem gostosa você


Owatalife 67H
1711 messages
19/12/2017 7h18

They should teach a course here on how to utterly & completely
piss people off!


STampa1971 53H
45 messages
19/12/2017 7h20

It can be really annoying


Story435 76H
3791 messages
19/12/2017 7h26

I have never seen this before but I can say I'm dose not work very good at times that's for sure.
Butch


TB5758 65H/67F
577 messages
19/12/2017 7h33

I just hate that when I am not really on some may consider it rude of me not to respond. I try to tell them I am not on 24/7 even if it appears that way.


OldrHarleyGuy 72H

19/12/2017 7h41

Find that it happens all the time here. I just found that if I leave the computer on at all after I log off the site, it will keep me logged in as being on, so have to shut the computer off whenever i'm leaving it for awhile. Only stumbled on to this a little while back when was on another computer that was logged in on a friends account and it still showed me as being online.
Anyway, is just another one of the tricks in the bag of many that these sites have adopted to keep it looking like there are more users online than really are and same with the IM, makes it look as though there are more there and open for chat than there really is, etc............


HarddinHou 34H
17 messages
19/12/2017 8h08

ya the messenger is no good..... to top it all they just jacked up the cost/point system for non gold members. either trying really hard to get people to purchase gold, or to push people away; not sure which


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h11

I suppose you are probably right.

I have now added sliding the button to busy as well to my list of things to do. The list grows.....lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h15

That's what aggravates me, I'll be reading an email or a blog and lo and behold I'll see my IM button magically slid over and I am now on the IM.

So I slide it back over to busy. Ugh....the "improvements" on this site are not always so welcome.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h18

    Citer Owatalife:
    They should teach a course here on how to utterly & completely
    piss people off!
Yes...with all the glitches on here it's no wonder people get pissed off. This new feature was not an improvement in my opinion....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h19

It absolutely can be...and there is enough annoying glitches here.....lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h21

    Citer Story435:
    I have never seen this before but I can say I'm dose not work very good at times that's for sure.
    Butch
It just started for me a day or two ago. I don't really go on The IM that often, but I want it to be my choice to do it!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h24

Pretty much any woman on this site is popular.....lol

The minute you log in on IM there are usually at least a few men wanting to chat........lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h27

    Citer TB5758:
    I just hate that when I am not really on some may consider it rude of me not to respond. I try to tell them I am not on 24/7 even if it appears that way.
I agree and that's another reason I don't like it. When I would sign in on my cell I really didn't see that I had IM's. This new feature, I can see that I have them, but I may not feel like chatting at the moment and then slide it to busy and feel a tad bad.

Maybe A*F*F is trying to guilt us into chatting......lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h31

    Citer OldrHarleyGuy:
    Find that it happens all the time here. I just found that if I leave the computer on at all after I log off the site, it will keep me logged in as being on, so have to shut the computer off whenever i'm leaving it for awhile. Only stumbled on to this a little while back when was on another computer that was logged in on a friends account and it still showed me as being online.
    Anyway, is just another one of the tricks in the bag of many that these sites have adopted to keep it looking like there are more users online than really are and same with the IM, makes it look as though there are more there and open for chat than there really is, etc............
Yes..this site has all kinds of glitches going on. I have heard of the one you mention as well. I once had someone text me and ask if I was on and I wasn't, but they told me that my profile still said I was.

I agree it is all their marketing ploys to make the site look better....but it seems like we're all on to them.....lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h33

I hear ya...some people can get a bit testy if they think you are ignoring them, when you don't even know that they are there..

Soooooooooo pain in the ass it is!!!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h35

Yup....so says just about everyone!! You'd think they'd fix the things that don't work, instead of trying new things that won't work either.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h38

    Citer HarddinHou:
    ya the messenger is no good..... to top it all they just jacked up the cost/point system for non gold members. either trying really hard to get people to purchase gold, or to push people away; not sure which
So I hear, I am a gold member...but don't really go on the IM. I do hear all the complaints though about the problems.

I think they most likely want more members to go gold, or to buy points to do the "activities". Either way they are lining their pockets with $$.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 messages
19/12/2017 8h41

Ahhhhhh so I'm not the only one.....lol

I bet site support wasn't real helpful with it, they most likely say they are working on it and then nothing happens.

I hate to complain about the site all the time, but they make it real easy!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


s2ndegree 65H
9800 messages
19/12/2017 11h25

I guess I'm lucky I live where I live.
The highly measured personalities
that generally pervade the site locally
makes this a no issue issue.
And here I always thought popularity
was a good thing.
Sorry for your grief.

Using more than all the road!


peterlikesplay2 67H
461 messages
19/12/2017 11h54

well it has an off switch...which i use all the time..otherwise it can be annoying..when i don't want to use it


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 messages
19/12/2017 12h02

From what your describing hun it sounds like maybe it's just on the cell phones as when I'm on my computer I don't see anything like that. Being on phone on the site sucks big time.. I hope you figure it out soon..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


notsure1949 75H
10657 messages
19/12/2017 14h47

this has happened to others, says they are logged on IM when the are not


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