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MOMMY?? WTF.......
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MOMMY?? WTF....... Below is an email I received this morning…..clearly he didn’t read my profile (he is a gold member) or he would have known I don’t appreciate dick pics being sent unsolicited and will just delete his email….usually with no reply (unless I’m in one of “those” moods…...lol).! Ya know....I get that this is a sex site- after all the "slogan" for A*F*F is: Hookup,Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now But can that not be done in an adult, decent,and respectful way? Can the sexy chat or "dirty" chat not be saved until it is determined between the parties that- that is what each are looking for or desire? I will say that most of the men that contact me behave in a more gentlemanly manor. They say “hello”...ask how I am doing, and then go into whatever they would like to say to try and convince me to meet them etc. It is the clueless men that make me shake my head and wonder...WTF are they thinking?! Do they really think that a woman is gonna appreciate that approach? Maybe some will - we all have things that float that proverbial boat and turn us on I suppose. This idiot called me mommy! Mommy? Yes I am a mommy to four sons and two daughters.....but I ain't your mommy dufus brain, and in no universe would I want you to call me that!! I honestly don’t want any man to call me mommy. I imagine in a relationship where the woman is the dominant….it could be possible for that nickname to be wanted or okay…..but for me….NAH…...lol The rest of the email was not much to my liking either - especially considering it was a first contact for Pete's sake......  So here’s just a reminder for those men that haven’t gotten a clue yet on how to approach a woman,although they probably don’t read the blogs either when ya think about it….here ya go! A shining example how NOT to do it…..lol  Ladies….would you want or like this approach? Would you like a man to use a term of endearment such as mommy...sweetheart...babydoll etc. when emailing you (especially first contact)? Gentlemen….feel free to let me know your thoughts on this guy and his approach! Let me know what yours is! Maybe you can educate those that are clueless…..  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL  |
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Most of you gentlemen are decent guys and have some understanding of how to approach a woman.... But there are some that this will apply to.....take a look and if it does....FIX IT!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Some men don't get it or they don't care! I always read profiles I think all should read profiles before they try to contact anyone. And they should always respect what they see. I know a lot of very young ladies don't read mine at all. It clearly states no ladies under 50. Butch
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OMG I got a couple of those and did delete and block. Then I send them each a private email and let it rip!!! I dont even dare guess his age cause I do not think age has anything to do with manners and respect, But let's hope the Rosetta Stone was written in braille- at least we would know they fingered they way through it if they cannot read LOL (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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That sort of thing makes a lot of us men on here look bad. There's no way I'd write such a thing on the first e-mail. Hope you blocked him !!
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Some men don't get it or they don't care! I always read profiles I think all should read profiles before they try to contact anyone. And they should always respect what they see. I know a lot of very young ladies don't read mine at all. It clearly states no ladies under 50. Butch But then they will complain that the women on here are just playing games, or some other nonsense to make themselves feel better. I can understand when someone doesn't have a gold membership and can't read a profile...but in my opinion when they can - they should. If clearly there is no common ground in wants...needs...desires- then why bother? Thanks for your comments!  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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OMG I got a couple of those and did delete and block. Then I send them each a private email and let it rip!!! I dont even dare guess his age cause I do not think age has anything to do with manners and respect, But let's hope the Rosetta Stone was written in braille- at least we would know they fingered they way through it if they cannot read LOL Should he be stupid enough to send me another one then...bye bye....lol This guy was 39 years old, so old enough to know better, but you are absolutely right...age should have nothing to do with manners and respect! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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That sort of thing makes a lot of us men on here look bad. There's no way I'd write such a thing on the first e-mail. Hope you blocked him !! It's good to hear you have more common sense,manners and respect not to send something like this guy did! I deleted his email and will block him if he's silly enough to try again.... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Not a bad idea Lala...to show there are thoughtful and decent men on here as well as the "others".. I will consider you suggestion! My profile is lengthy and pretty much spells out what I'm about....so yeah, I think had he read it..he should have thought twice in his approach. Knucklehead for sure.....lol  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Where do they get this crap? Porn sites? Older women will fall for the fantasy of their son? Some sickos out there. What am I missing? Just like that daddy dom shit. Ewww
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Yeah, I agree that stuff is for the birds. (I cleaned up what I really meant to say A LOT). There are certain "taboos" I just will not allow. is one of the biggest. Come on guys, There are WAY too many people in the world to go shopping in your own gene pool. positively4you is right... Ewwww! Jimmy B. My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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The clowns with dick pics and crude approaches make thing a bit easier for me. I've been told those guys eliminate themselves out very quickly and in a small community that works out well for me.  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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that message would make me want to puke! WTf indeed!!
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I know right.....no idea what's wrong with me.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Hmmmm...... Well honestly..I don't wanna hear that in any email -first...second...third etc. ! Perhaps with someone I have been communicating with, and considering as a playmate seriously, or already involved with. Otherwise they can keep it to themselves. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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It's almost a given that most women on here have received emails similar to the one I got today. Many of them do get pissy or nasty if you tell them their emails were unappreciated. Guess it hurts their fragile ego.... They don't realize how important a first impression can be.... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Where do they get this crap? Porn sites? Older women will fall for the fantasy of their son? Some sickos out there. What am I missing? Just like that daddy dom shit. Ewww Not sure why they think that would be a good thing to send to any woman, let alone a more mature one.....lol I'm personally not into being with younger guys and I sure don't want one calling me mommy! Honestly I'm not into the dominant/submissive thing.....just enjoyable sex, with mutual satisfaction. Where nothing is predetermined, and it just goes with the flow of the encounter. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Yeah, I agree that stuff is for the birds. (I cleaned up what I really meant to say A LOT). There are certain "taboos" I just will not allow. is one of the biggest. Come on guys, There are WAY too many people in the world to go shopping in your own gene pool. positively4you is right... Ewwww! Jimmy B. is just sick..... I once had a young guy tell me that his mother watched him jerk off. He actually thought that was something he should tell me! YUCK....YUCK...YUCK...and EWWWW for sure! I told him that was f*cked up and got off the IM immediately! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I just hope that he is 18 years old. Yes I have used cheesy pick up lines in my life but. This is not a dive bar or a frat party. We spend a lot of time on our profiles because I don't want a lot of unsolicited messages. That being said they are there every day WTF. Why do the same asshats keep trying to hookup?
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Truthfully I ignore the BS most of the time too. I just ignore, don't respond to them, just delete the email. Nine times out of ten blocking isn't necessary because they don't send a second email. I too applaud the men who are courteous and respectful. They are absolutely on here. Kudos to them!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Thanks for the reply....long, but good info! His profile says he is from Michigan, and he is 39 years old. Looks to be American, so perhaps mommy issues apply....lol I do know some cultures refer or call women - mommy and males poppy....I'm not thinking that this was the case for this guy though. I just wasn't in the mood to "school" him today on common sense and how to approach a woman. It quite possibly could have fallen on deaf ears anyway or gotten me verbally abused...which happens sometimes too! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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The clowns with dick pics and crude approaches make thing a bit easier for me. I've been told those guys eliminate themselves out very quickly and in a small community that works out well for me. I have seen your responses on other blogs and read your blog at times, so I know you are one of the "good guys"!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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that message would make me want to puke! WTf indeed!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I just hope that he is 18 years old. Yes I have used cheesy pick up lines in my life but. This is not a dive bar or a frat party. We spend a lot of time on our profiles because I don't want a lot of unsolicited messages. That being said they are there every day WTF. Why do the same asshats keep trying to hookup? It's a sex site, but that doesn't mean it's a free for all, and gives people the right to think that all decency goes out the "door". I did spend time on my profile and seem to get mostly good feedback. I did that for a reason...to let people know who I am, what I eventually would hope to find. And what I'm open to in a sexual way. I agree...there are things on here that every day can sometimes make me shake my head and wonder WTF. Such is life on a sex site I suppose....loll Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Ewwww!  amp;
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Yup...that sums it up in one word.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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