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WHO SHOULD PAY?  

Cuddly_Kitten 54F
15133 messages
5/9/2018 17h06
WHO SHOULD PAY?

OK..... YOU ARE GOING ON A FIRST DATE....

I SCHOOL.... I BELIEVE THE MAN SHOULD ...BUT....WE ARE LIVING A DIFFERENT TIME.....

WHO SHOULD ON THE FIRST DATE
THE MAN ALWAYS PAYS FOR THE FIRST DATE
THE WOMAN SHOULD PAY
THE PERSON WHO ASKED FOR THE DATE
GO DUTCH.... EACH PAY FOR YOURSELF


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 messages
5/9/2018 17h10



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tmacshane26 39H
2092 messages
5/9/2018 17h14

I said each pay for yourself. I don't mind paying for both of us. Sometimes if you offer to pay for both meals then the lady will get mad and say I don't need you to pay for my meal. I have my own money and I don't want you to pay for my meal.


Yours_4A_knight 59H

5/9/2018 17h22

If you invite you should expect to pay, now this is different than two people meeting at an agreed place, but to me it is a less about gender and more about being polite. Would you as a woman invite a man who you know nearly nothing about to escort you to an event that you know that you couldn't afford but wanted to attend, expecting that if he is truly interested in you he will find way to honor your wishes. Then when he politely declines something that he can not afford, even though he does want to meet you.

I don't know it feels self defeating

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bitchkitty2017 71F

5/9/2018 17h35

I agree whoever asked for the date off the jump..If the man is expected to pay then the gal might see him as an easy mark and expect him to pay the expenses every time.. adults should be adults and maybe talk about it then there be no misunderstanding ...first to ask for meet and lunch should pay..


scott6250 61H

5/9/2018 17h37

The man should pay on the first date.

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love2pleasu13 56H
6472 messages
5/9/2018 17h39

Just be a man and pay on the first date. Then see how goes from their.


TB5758 65H/67F
577 messages
5/9/2018 17h43

The man always.


dewycooterlicker 65H  
354 messages
5/9/2018 17h58

I was raised with manners, Guy always pays, hold door open etc

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Looknfind18 71H  
4379 messages
5/9/2018 18h12

the guy pays although now days it might be the person who did the asking..


Horny_Cat68 55H  
582 messages
5/9/2018 18h18

I always pay on dates, but that's just how I was brought up.

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lonlyforlove2 81H  
32704 messages
5/9/2018 18h26

the man first and if another he again, and again...be a man about it...and smile when you do..

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Yoursideguy76 47H

5/9/2018 21h23

A large percentage of women will just decide the guy is cheap if he doesn’t pay. Wish it weren’t so but it is.


Heathen_G 65H
7974 messages
6/9/2018 1h21

Go dutch, regardless of who invites who.

If Jim invites out Jane, ....what the hell would Jim be paying for? Jane works... Jane is interested in Jim, or Jane would not have accepted his invitation.


luvexotic 62H

6/9/2018 1h33

I'm old school and believe I should pay for both of us.


CleavageFan4U 67H
69374 messages
6/9/2018 5h56

I'm old school too. But if the lady INSISTS she can pay for it all - no splitting.

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69bud69 69H
7134 messages
6/9/2018 12h03

Perhaps I'm old fashioned this way, I still open car doors and doors for women. So, I would never consider anyone other then myself paying for any date unless she insisted strongly. Even then, it would be up for debate. *S*

Bud

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jrfree2play 54H  
140 messages
6/9/2018 12h29

I know it's more common to go dutch these days, but I'm old school and believe that the man should pay for at least the first date. Then I guess after the first date, the two can decide to go dutch or trade off.


Sexczy69 71H  
3703 messages
6/9/2018 16h51

If I asked out? I will let the other person pay but I will pay for both of us if she lets me! That will be her call...


Heathen_G 65H
7974 messages
6/9/2018 17h18

The Boston Globe Magazine asked the same question...."Do you think men should still be paying for women on dates".

46% said "Yes"
12% said "No"
42% said "They should split it"

Going on a first "intended" date...... What does that mean? It means the male wants to have sex with the female , so he invites the woman out to dinner [when really he reasonably could have just invited the woman to his bed]. Still a "Yes" or "No" response is expected from the woman.

A woman being invited to dinner, because the man fears inviting the woman to his bed, is now allowed to insist he pays money for the company of the woman at his table, and not his bed.

Are women who insist on men paying for food [and drink] for her, Narcissist?

Women don't want to go back to a traditionalist society, so women are encouraged to succeed, and progress , but insist the men behave as before, hold him back, make him pretend he's being "Old school", isn't that making the man obsolete in todays social environment? If so, then this is no longer about "Equal opportunity" , instead, its about squashing men and elevating women.


JimmyB7474 59H

7/9/2018 10h12

My Time, My Dime. Nuff Said. Jimmy B.

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Heathen_G 65H
7974 messages
7/9/2018 12h03

    Citer JimmyB7474:
    My Time, My Dime. Nuff Said. Jimmy B.
That's right.

So we'll say you have one dime.

Wouldn't it be wiser to keep that dime, and find a woman who will do you without expecting that dime to be thrown away on her?

Your dime? If you spend that dime, and she doesn't put out.... you have no dime. So now no power.

The idea is to attract the woman with your dime.... not spend it on her.


zeke53028 65H  
1135 messages
7/9/2018 18h23

I'm old school, I want to pay. And I want to pay most of the time. I've been in my current relationship for a few years now and I still feel I should. On occasion Vicki will or if she comes over and stops at the store to pick something up she'll pay but I always ask if I reimburse her.


cumboi65 72H

8/9/2018 2h08

It is only gentlemanly to cover ll expenses on a first date unless you make arrangements before hand.


SexFantasyChat1 54H

8/9/2018 18h35

Depends on who asks whom out.


JimmyB7474 59H

10/9/2018 4h38

    Citer Heathen_G:
    That's right.

    So we'll say you have one dime.

    Wouldn't it be wiser to keep that dime, and find a woman who will do you without expecting that dime to be thrown away on her?

    Your dime? If you spend that dime, and she doesn't put out.... you have no dime. So now no power.

    The idea is to attract the woman with your dime.... not spend it on her.
Personally I wouldn't want my dime to be the reason a woman wanted me. Money spent on entertainment (food, drinks, movie, whatever) isn't power. The power to attract a woman has nothing to do with money. If it does then you are with the wrong woman my friend. "putting out" is a factor of chemistry not economics in my book. And yes I have never "paid" for sex other than picking up the tab for the date. If she makes love to me it's not because of my wallet. Jimmy B.

My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


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