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If you want a response
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If you want a response I don't respond to form letters. If you were to send me an email and it had forward at the top or if I had an indication that you had sent me something that was some generic message you send out to everyone, I simply don't respond. I just don't feel like I should have to put any effort into something after you already showed me you saw me as a dime a dozen kind of girl. Does that mean that I expect a 20 page email complete with flowery language? Nope. In fact, I actually prefer that you wouldn't do that, either; it still seems fake or like a form letter. It seems like you're trying to be slick. I don't want games. I'd rather you be you. If you're funny, tell me a joke. If you are more of the serious type, tell me about your day. Though, really, you can simply start with "Hi, how are you?" and hit send. I will be much more likely to reply to that than something I feel like you created to save you time and energy and thoughtfulness. It just seems disrespectful to me. Would you want a woman to talk to you with someone else in mind? Would you want a woman who really wasn't paying you any personal attention? No. You wouldn't. You wouldn't want to bother with someone who couldn't be bothered to talk to you. |
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Bravo, couldn't agree more..xo
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18/8/2016 12h01 |
I have long ago accepted that women on this site especailly attractive ones get so much mail that odds are, they will not have the time to respond, even with a simple you seem like a nice guy but not for me. There is just too much of an imbalance between men who are looking and women who are interested in being found. I individually write every message, I try to make it revelant and meaningful as possible as I can with the 25 or so words that are likely to get read, but truth is I get less than a 1% response rate. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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I have long ago accepted that women on this site especailly attractive ones get so much mail that odds are, they will not have the time to respond, even with a simple you seem like a nice guy but not for me. There is just too much of an imbalance between men who are looking and women who are interested in being found. I individually write every message, I try to make it revelant and meaningful as possible as I can with the 25 or so words that are likely to get read, but truth is I get less than a 1% response rate.
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I cannot offer you any explanation of what does and doesn't with with other women, but please, whatever you do, don't send a woman a message that says how unique you think she is with the words forwarded message left at the top.
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Agreed.....all to often I get form emails on here and I'm a guy!
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18/8/2016 3h45 |
agree with u honey
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Good post.
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Well said, if you cannot take the time to be original, then you get what you deserve.
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Well said and clear the air about it. Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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