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A moment of confusion  

rabbitmomma 69F
20 messages
11/5/2016 3h40
A moment of confusion


I have communicated with two (2) different men on this site in hopes of meeting someone for some mutually satisfying play. After several email exchanges which were very open about what we each hoped to get out of this, the first man set up a date and time to meet. I showed up at the designated place and time only to sit there reading a book. Not another word from him. I did not contact him to ask why, I don't care. Standing a person up is inexcusable.
The next man I communicated with was going very well, at least I thought so. We exchanged a lot of emails and were very open about what we had in common and what we may want to explore. There was little discussion of topics other than our sexual proclivities. We each acknowledged we did not know how a relationship might play out between us. This appears to have also gone south. I appreciate him bowing out rather than standing me up, but would have preferred a simple, I have lost interest, rather than a story. If you are reading this, and I have misread your intent, I apologize, you know how to contact me.
I have read several posts where women have been stood up by men they were communicating with on here. I do not understand why a person does that. Do they have a need to try and hurt a complete stranger or are these men fake profiles planted by passion to draw women in? I am not hurt nor offended by their actions, simply confused by them.

LimerickJohn 69H
1046 messages
11/5/2016 3h59

I have to agree with you 100% on this one. There is absolutly no need for a stand up. I was getting quite friendly with a lady whos profile said she was 175Km about 110 miles away. However she was nore like 5,000Km or 3,000 miles away. Once I discovered this I told her straight away I have no interest if we are not in the same country and likely to meet.

At the end of the day it is just plain courtisey.


sasha3676 66F  
114 messages
11/5/2016 4h22

Fortunately have only been stood up once and have met many nice guys.Like you I didn't contact him.However he kept viewing my profile and then I asked him why he continued to do so but never showed up with no text or phone call to explain.His response .Well you are 45 min away and I wasn't sure you were going to put out.Nothing said to this jerk would have made a difference so I blocked him and moved on.There are good sincere men on this site so keep trying and I wish you the best.


Maybe2day1999 68H

11/5/2016 15h24

We ALL have had that happen, young lady...and I fear our confusion matches yours.


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