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Lazy Saturday
Lazy Saturday Feeling a little tired and hung over today.... I didn't really drink all that much last night, I probably didn't eat enough for dinner before I went out. Note to self - Must eat more than a ham sandwich and fruit before drinking. I had a friend sleep over last night, someone who I've been with a few times, but also someone who I'm still getting to know, who is still getting to know me. This is always the tough sequence of time for me.... The first time you have sex is always fantastic. It's someone NEW! It's NEW experiences!! NEW thoughts and feelings!!! After you've been together a few times, your oddities and intricacies come out... Where does he like to be touched? Not like to be touched? A favorite position begins to emerge.... My oddities and intricacies are little more psychological. Why can't I just kiss a guy? Why do I always feel like I have to hold back? Why is my clit so sensitive and hurt when my partner is merely trying to pleasure me? Am I the only one who experiences the involuntary need to draw my legs tightly together the moment his touch finds me down there? Can he see the scars that I have down there? I refrain from discussing this stuff, instead leaving it an oddity that may or may not even be noticed by my partner. |
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Being as it doesn't turn you off, there should be no problem with someone accepting it. If it gets too sensitive, just have them take a break LOL. I personally love to eat pussy, but understand that things get sensitive once in a while.
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I'm a bit of an overthinker as well.... especially the first time with someone. Before, during & after as you say. I'm a little better if I know what to expect going into the situation. It takes a few times for me to be very comfortable. As for your clit sensitivity, I have had women do that to me, but just assumed it was because of the intense pleasure they were getting. No one has ever said otherwise to me. I know my ex wife used to get very sensitive after she orgasmed. I had to wait a bit to go down on her again.
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I'm a bit of an overthinker as well.... especially the first time with someone. Before, during & after as you say. I'm a little better if I know what to expect going into the situation. It takes a few times for me to be very comfortable. As for your clit sensitivity, I have had women do that to me, but just assumed it was because of the intense pleasure they were getting. No one has ever said otherwise to me. I know my ex wife used to get very sensitive after she orgasmed. I had to wait a bit to go down on her again.
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Maybe deep down you don’t want that person intimately and would rather have someone else
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I think that awkwardness when your learning someone new can be fun and exciting. or not.
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I was up front with it, in this case. I think maybe he's drawn to clitoral stimulation as a regular part of foreplay, though. It's something he revisits often.
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Hi secret_lade thanks for sharing another intimate moment I always engage in open communication with my lover about wants and needs before, during and after for me, the experience should be a "first" always at least, that's how I want to see it and, most people will be honest and open I have dated women that have experienced operations and, they shared their concerns with me, so that we eased into the moment the first woman that was a squirter with me had an open discussion about what would happen and we talked about it, so that there were no surprises you know, I always say that I want to break bread with someone before having sex it gives you a chance to see someone in safe environment and have an open discussion good luck reminded me of this one Spanky and Our Gang - "Lazy Day" Blue sky, Sunshine, what a day to take a walk in the park. Ice cream, Day dream, till the sky becomes a blanket of stars. What a day for pickin' daisies, and lots of red balloons. And what a day for holdin' hands and bein' with you. Lazy Day, Just right for lovin' away. Lazy Day, Made for a stroll in the lane, Baby, you and me (Baby you and me) and the honey bee ('Neath a shady tree) Lazy Day, Lazy Day, Lazy Day 'n' you 'n' me Blue sky, Sunshine, flowers bloomin' children sayin' hello. Row boats, bird notes, people smilin' ev'rywhere that they go. What a day to be together, and what a sky of blue. And what a day for thinkin' right out loud, I love you. Lazy Day, Just right for lovin' away. I'm actually a very complex creature.... There are many facets to my personality, some good, some not so good. Most people see me as funny and charming, they are drawn to my laugh and smile. Breaking bread with someone like me doesn't always reveal the part of me you want to see. This part of me is cultivated. I'm really very shy and have a hard time with expressing my innermost feelings. You are right, though, communication is key.
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Hi secret_lade thanks for sharing another intimate moment I always engage in open communication with my lover about wants and needs before, during and after for me, the experience should be a "first" always at least, that's how I want to see it and, most people will be honest and open I have dated women that have experienced operations and, they shared their concerns with me, so that we eased into the moment the first woman that was a squirter with me had an open discussion about what would happen and we talked about it, so that there were no surprises you know, I always say that I want to break bread with someone before having sex it gives you a chance to see someone in safe environment and have an open discussion good luck reminded me of this one Spanky and Our Gang - "Lazy Day" Blue sky, Sunshine, what a day to take a walk in the park. Ice cream, Day dream, till the sky becomes a blanket of stars. What a day for pickin' daisies, and lots of red balloons. And what a day for holdin' hands and bein' with you. Lazy Day, Just right for lovin' away. Lazy Day, Made for a stroll in the lane, Baby, you and me (Baby you and me) and the honey bee ('Neath a shady tree) Lazy Day, Lazy Day, Lazy Day 'n' you 'n' me Blue sky, Sunshine, flowers bloomin' children sayin' hello. Row boats, bird notes, people smilin' ev'rywhere that they go. What a day to be together, and what a sky of blue. And what a day for thinkin' right out loud, I love you. Lazy Day, Just right for lovin' away. To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I think that awkwardness when your learning someone new can be fun and exciting. or not.
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Maybe deep down you don’t want that person intimately and would rather have someone else
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Hmmm... interesting way of describing the whole evolution of new relationships. And bang on - I might add. So... about that sensitivity issue you've been having... Is there something you can do about it? 🤔
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Hmmm... interesting way of describing the whole evolution of new relationships. And bang on - I might add. So... about that sensitivity issue you've been having... Is there something you can do about it? 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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