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And the crazy gym stalker is.....  

secret_lade 49F
14389 messages
26/2/2020 17h50
And the crazy gym stalker is.....


My spawn had told on a couple of difference occasions after we went to the that there was a "crazy stalker" who kept staring .

Now, I don't really attention to what other people are doing at the and I don't really around and stare people because I know how uncomfortable I feel when people do that to .

So, I never noticed anyone or anything of the ordinary.

Fast forward to today.....

I got off the treadmill and wiped down my machine, glancing over the spawn. She was doing some crazy exaggerated eye movements and point to her left, so I looked to her left.

And, there he stood.

Someone I knew.

The spawn was all but pointing and yelling "There he is" while I was changing my shoes, I couldn't get of there fast enough.

"So, that's my stalker, huh..." I whispered as we were headed to the car.

". Did you see all his tattoos? He was staring at you the minute he walked in. He only looked away when I looked at him."

I pretended to not know who it was.

I do know why he was staring.

We met years ago and he couldn't stop talking about how much I looked, talked, and acted like a girlfriend he had dated. We ended up fucking and during the whole thing he kept saying "Look at ."

It was awkward, and never happened again... In fact, I think we only talked once after that.

And now, there he is again.

He must remember who I am.... Thankfully we don't end up going to the the same time very often. It's also a blessing that he's a super fit, muscle guy so he spends his time on the weight machines, which I'm guessing, is the reason I never noticed him before. I've been focusing more on cardio stuff so I've been using the elliptical, treadmill, and bike every time.

I'm not quite sure what to do now.

Do I just continue on, pretending to not know him?

I guess I'll cross that bridge when it comes. He hasn't approached me at all, or gone of his way to be noticed. I guess I'll just have to see what happens. Who knows, maybe he was able to decipher my spawns thinly veiled attempt at subtlety in pointing him and will avoid going forward.

I can only hope.

citizen4722 66H  
74582 messages
27/2/2020 16h27

It must have been very unnerving for you. Hopefully he might have just been curious and thinking where he'd seen you before?


fwblook4unow 48H

27/2/2020 4h26

Geez, that would be uncomfortable....was he a good fuck?😊


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
27/2/2020 2h11

The word gobblins age quite a bit of that post.... Yikes!

My spawn had told on a couple of different occasions after we went to the gym that there was a "crazy stalker" who kept staring .

Now, I don't really pay attention to what other people are doing at the gym and I don't really look around and stare at people because I know how uncomfortable I feel when people do that to me.

So, I never noticed anyone or anything out of the ordinary.

Fast forward to today.....

I got off the treadmill and wiped down my machine, glancing over the spawn. She was doing some crazy exaggerated eye movements and pointing to her left, so I looked to her left.

And, there he stood.

Someone I knew.

The spawn was all but pointing and yelling "There he is" while I was changing my shoes, I couldn't get of there fast enough.

"So, that's my stalker, huh..." I whispered as we were headed to the car.

"Yes. Did you see all his tattoos? He was staring at you the minute he walked in. He only looked away when I looked at him."

I pretended to not know who it was.

I do know why he was staring.

We met 10 years ago and he couldn't stop talking about how much I looked, talked, and acted like a girlfriend he had dated. We ended up fucking and during the whole thing he kept saying "Look at me."

It was awkward, and never happened again... In fact, I think we only talked once after that.

And now, there he is again.

He must remember who I am.... Thankfully we don't end up going to the gym at the same time very often. It's also a blessing that he's a super fit, muscle guy so he spends his time on the weight machines, which I'm guessing, is the reason I never noticed him before. I've been focusing more on cardio stuff so I've been using the elliptical, treadmill, and bike every time.

I'm not quite sure what to do now.

Do I just continue on, pretending to not know him?

I guess I'll cross that bridge when it comes. He hasn't approached me at all, or gone out of his way to be noticed. I guess I'll just have to see what happens. Who knows, maybe he was able to decipher my spawns thinly veiled attempt at subtlety in pointing him out and will avoid me going forward.

I can only hope.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
27/2/2020 1h54

    Citer mc_justmc:
    Yikes! Get on that treadmill and run as fast as you can.
LOL Run Forrest Run!!


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
27/2/2020 1h53

    Citer superbjversion2:
    Maybe he keeps staring cuz he doesn't know which girl you are … you or the other one you look like. You could always go on the offensive and ask him why he keeps staring at you - or report his staring to the gym manager since it's making you uncomfortable.
I never actually noticed him, it was my daughter. Even when she was pointing him out, he was not looking at me. He was lifting weights in front of the mirror. I'm pretty sure he knows which girl, I can't imagine the ex-girlfriend would have a daughter that would be the same age as mine, or look like mine. I'm not as weirded out by it at the moment, as I was last night, so I'm thinking a little more clearly. I think I'm going to just keep doing what I'm doing, going to the gym, doing my own thing, and going on my way. If he were going to approach me, he would have already done it.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
27/2/2020 1h45

    Citer Hawkfan533333:
    Always fun when past mistakes pop back into your life. I had one the other day. I saw a woman I hooked up with years ago, and wasn't feeling her, so I ghosted her. Walking in to the pharmacy yesterday , and there she was. We made eye contact, and we both quickly looked in separate directions. No hi, no nothing. Just silent akwardnes.
I tend to blend into the scenery when I encounter those situations.... I work with the public heavily now, so it's only a matter of time most days when I will run across someone I know or have known that I don't really care to see. When I do see someone, I quickly turn down a different isle or turn to speak with whoever it is I may be walking with or near.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
27/2/2020 1h41

    Citer Paulxx001:
    or... you meet and talk..
    sounds like a plan. 👍🤔
I don't want to talk to him.... My gut tells me I don't want to revisit any of that.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
27/2/2020 1h37

    Citer h4rry66:
    It looks like he is trying to get into your knickers again beautiful. He is probably remembering fucking you and wants a repeat but worried how you might react. You should speak with him and let him out of his misery. Just tell him that you don't want to hear the words "look at" lol
If he is remembering.... He's got to remember how awkward and quick it was. He's a really good looking guy, but it's definitely not something I want to revisit again. It didn't leave me feeling very good about myself and his expectations were that I would also respond to him very similarly to the girlfriend I had reminded him of. Just all around not good for me.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
27/2/2020 1h32

    Citer easy_going2014:
    Hi secret_lade

    hmm

    sometimes I've shared myself with someone else, and it didn't work out

    I never look back

    I always look forward

    made me think of this

    Gordon Lightfoot - "Sundown"

    I can see her lyin' back in her satin dress
    In a room where ya do what ya don't confess
    Sundown you better take care
    If I find you been creepin' 'round my back stairs
    Sundown ya better take care
    If I find you been creepin' 'round my back stairs
    She's been lookin' like a queen in a sailor's dream
    And she don't always say what she really means
    Sometimes I think it's a shame
    When I get feelin' better when I'm feelin' no pain
    Sometimes I think it's a shame
    When I get feelin' better when I'm feelin' no pain
    I can picture every move that a man could make
    Getting lost in her lovin' is your first mistake
    Sundown you better take care
    If I find you been creepin' 'round my back stairs
    Sometimes I think it's a sin
    When I feel like I'm winnin' when I'm losin' again
I love Gordon Lightfoot.... I saw him perform when he was at Interlochen.

I had literally forgotten about that whole experience. I'm not even sure if I'm remembering his first name correctly.... I certainly don't remember a last. I'm definitely looking forward, as, I really don't care to experience that whole debacle again.


easy_going2014 57H
14366 messages
26/2/2020 21h22

Hi secret_lade

hmm

sometimes I've shared myself with someone else, and it didn't work out

I never look back

I always look forward

made me think of this

Gordon Lightfoot - "Sundown"

I can see her lyin' back in her satin dress
In a room where ya do what ya don't confess
Sundown you better take care
If I find you been creepin' 'round my back stairs
Sundown ya better take care
If I find you been creepin' 'round my back stairs
She's been lookin' like a queen in a sailor's dream
And she don't always say what she really means
Sometimes I think it's a shame
When I get feelin' better when I'm feelin' no pain
Sometimes I think it's a shame
When I get feelin' better when I'm feelin' no pain
I can picture every move that a man could make
Getting lost in her lovin' is your first mistake
Sundown you better take care
If I find you been creepin' 'round my back stairs
Sometimes I think it's a sin
When I feel like I'm winnin' when I'm losin' again

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h4rry66 57H

26/2/2020 21h09

It looks like he is trying to get into your knickers again beautiful. He is probably remembering fucking you and wants a repeat but worried how you might react. You should speak with him and let him out of his misery. Just tell him that you don't want to hear the words "look at" lol


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
26/2/2020 19h41

or... you meet and talk..
sounds like a plan. 👍🤔


Hawkfan533333 34H
688 messages
26/2/2020 19h29

Always fun when past mistakes pop back into your life. I had one the other day. I saw a woman I hooked up with years ago, and wasn't feeling her, so I ghosted her. Walking in to the pharmacy yesterday , and there she was. We made eye contact, and we both quickly looked in separate directions. No hi, no nothing. Just silent akwardnes.

Feel free to message my private mailbox


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 messages
26/2/2020 19h02

Maybe he keeps staring cuz he doesn't know which girl you are … you or the other one you look like. You could always go on the offensive and ask him why he keeps staring at you - or report his staring to the gym manager since it's making you uncomfortable.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


mc_justmc 63H

26/2/2020 18h27

Yikes! Get on that treadmill and run as fast as you can.


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