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What's the point?  

secret_lade 49F
14360 messages
21/10/2020 15h05
What's the point?


I don't normally complain about this stuff.

We're all on here experiencing the same stupid shit. Wanna chat with someone when you're not a Gold Star Super Fancy Premium Member, you have spend some .

It's the way it is, and I accept it. If I feel like responding a chat, I chat. It doesn't bother spend the .... If it's worth it.

Here's the part that pisses off though.

When a person initiates a chat, and you respond, SPENDING YOUR , only have them not speak another word.

Nothing.

There you sit, once comment in, 17 down the drain, and all you've managed accomplish is....

Hi

The worst part? Having it be someone you know...

I need pick better friends.

secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
22/10/2020 22h28

    Citer KX450F2016:
    There is a lot of crude people out there.... Mostly guys for sure. I am sure it is difficult on this site getting bombarded with that. Some people have no tact.
You are absolutely right... Some people have no tact.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
22/10/2020 22h26

    Citer srkaficionada:
    I don’t know if it’s better to Have your problem of people not being interested or have my problem of people being interested and being crude assholes about it. 🤷🏿‍♀️
The advertising gives the impression to guys on here that the women are, for the most part, just looking to screw. They honestly believe they are going to 'find someone tonight'. So, they treat us like soulless whores....


KX450F2016 55H
193 messages
22/10/2020 15h33

    Citer srkaficionada:
    I don’t know if it’s better to Have your problem of people not being interested or have my problem of people being interested and being crude assholes about it. 🤷🏿‍♀️
There is a lot of crude people out there.... Mostly guys for sure. I am sure it is difficult on this site getting bombarded with that. Some people have no tact.


srkaficionada 70F

22/10/2020 5h38

    Citer KX450F2016:
    Most of the time I don't participate in anything on here. No one is really interested anyway. Not even sure why I am still here.
I don’t know if it’s better to Have your problem of people not being interested or have my problem of people being interested and being crude assholes about it. 🤷🏿‍♀️


KX450F2016 55H
193 messages
22/10/2020 4h16

    Citer secret_lade:
    Yep. It doesn't really bother me to spend the points if it's worth it. I chose to not go gold this time, so I accept the limitations. This site is just too broken for me to want to pay for it, I mainly just blog anymore.... And even that is problematic. This post is a prime example...
Most of the time I don't participate in anything on here. No one is really interested anyway. Not even sure why I am still here.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
22/10/2020 12h03

    Citer MrWrong4RghtNow:
    It’s certainly become a fact of chatting life on this site that non gold members need to shell out moolah for points to engage in simple communication.
    That being said, it does suck donkey balls when you fork over those points only to get no response or a stunted conversation that can end abruptly fir any reason.
    My suggestion is to shame your friend into giving you the 17 points you wasted for a “hi”. If that friend is truly a good one, there shouldn’t be a problem. I know I would gladly do that for any of my friends on here.

    Just a thought.
He has returned the points, said he only wanted to say 'hi'.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
21/10/2020 23h35

    Citer Hardonetopick:
    Sorry to hear that.....I do like your ramblings and cute toes
Thank you....


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
21/10/2020 23h32

    Citer Yours_4A_knight:
    he worst part? Having it be someone you know...

    I need pick better friends.

    Hopefully they are someone who reads your blog and gets the point
It is someone who silently reads.....


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
21/10/2020 23h26

    Citer easy_going2014:
    yes, that is not right

    but, it does happen

    be safe

    hmm

    Jim Croce - "Operator"

    Operator, well could you help me place this call?
    See, the number on the matchbook is old and faded
    She's living in L.A. with my best old ex-friend Ray
    A guy she said she knew well and sometimes hated

    Operator, well could you help me place this call?
    Well, I can't read the number that you just gave me
    There's something in my eyes, you know it happens every time
    I think about a love that I thought would save me

    Isn't that the way they say it goes? Well, let's forget all that
    And give me the number if you can find it
    So I can call just to tell 'em I'm fine and to show
    I've overcome the blow, I've learned to take it well
    I only wish my words could just convince myself
    That it just wasn't real, but that's not the way it feels
    No, no, no, no - that's not the way it feels

    Operator, well let's forget about this call
    There's no one there I really wanted to talk to
    Thank you for your time, ah, you've been so much more than kind
    And you can keep the dime
I just love this song.... I needed to hear it today. Thank you.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
21/10/2020 23h25

That's another thing that has gone away.... Standards can't friend other members anymore. They can accept a request but they can't initiate one...


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
21/10/2020 23h19

    Citer benard69:
    Perhaps the site does that to get yer money/points...
It is a possibility.... I don't think so in this case, but there could be some truth to that for a lot of other abruptly ended chats.


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
21/10/2020 23h17

    Citer KX450F2016:
    So if you're not a gold member & someone wants to chat with you then you have to pay to chat?? I realize they are out to make a buck, but you can go other places for less or free. I usually don't initiate a chat, I just message.... and not often there either.
    I let my gold expire every time and wait about 6-8 weeks til they offer it half off. Plus, when I joined, it was under my own affilliate program, so I get another 20% back (after I reach a specific dollar amount tho)
Yep. It doesn't really bother me to spend the points if it's worth it. I chose to not go gold this time, so I accept the limitations. This site is just too broken for me to want to pay for it, I mainly just blog anymore.... And even that is problematic. This post is a prime example...


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
21/10/2020 23h08

I was always gold in the past.... I chose not to this time around because it's just not worth it anymore. Blog posts are chewed to shit and the quality of guys I have near me.... There is a lot that needs to change for me to want to spend money.


MrWrong4RghtNow 57H
2439 messages
21/10/2020 22h31

It’s certainly become a fact of chatting life on this site that non gold members need to shell out moolah for points to engage in simple communication.
That being said, it does suck donkey balls when you fork over those points only to get no response or a stunted conversation that can end abruptly fir any reason.
My suggestion is to shame your friend into giving you the 17 points you wasted for a “hi”. If that friend is truly a good one, there shouldn’t be a problem. I know I would gladly do that for any of my friends on here.

Just a thought.

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


Hardonetopick 58H

21/10/2020 21h48

Sorry to hear that.....I do like your ramblings and cute toes


Yours_4A_knight 59H

21/10/2020 19h46

he worst part? Having it be someone you know...

I need pick better friends.

Hopefully they are someone who reads your blog and gets the point

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


easy_going2014 57H
14366 messages
21/10/2020 18h59

yes, that is not right

but, it does happen

be safe

hmm

Jim Croce - "Operator"

Operator, well could you help me place this call?
See, the number on the matchbook is old and faded
She's living in L.A. with my best old ex-friend Ray
A guy she said she knew well and sometimes hated

Operator, well could you help me place this call?
Well, I can't read the number that you just gave me
There's something in my eyes, you know it happens every time
I think about a love that I thought would save me

Isn't that the way they say it goes? Well, let's forget all that
And give me the number if you can find it
So I can call just to tell 'em I'm fine and to show
I've overcome the blow, I've learned to take it well
I only wish my words could just convince myself
That it just wasn't real, but that's not the way it feels
No, no, no, no - that's not the way it feels

Operator, well let's forget about this call
There's no one there I really wanted to talk to
Thank you for your time, ah, you've been so much more than kind
And you can keep the dime

To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog:

Good luck!!!


benard69 66H/66F  

21/10/2020 18h12

Perhaps the site does that to get yer money/points...


KX450F2016 55H
193 messages
21/10/2020 17h57

So if you're not a gold member & someone wants to chat with you then you have to pay to chat?? I realize they are out to make a buck, but you can go other places for less or free. I usually don't initiate a chat, I just message.... and not often there either.
I let my gold expire every time and wait about 6-8 weeks til they offer it half off. Plus, when I joined, it was under my own affilliate program, so I get another 20% back (after I reach a specific dollar amount tho)


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