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With a twist of lemon?  

bitchkitty2017 71F
2245 messages
18/3/2019 7h15
With a twist of lemon?


Ok this is one of those head scratcher stories and actually deserves a bit of thought.
Anyone who has ever been on a date site and found what they think is a good connection , chat up a storm , find lots of things that both have in common, chat some more ..then make plans to meet ..the big day..nervous and don't really know what to expect..arrive at destination..check the time..yep ahead of schedule..wait ..tap tap your foot...wait more, look around ..nope didn't miss anything..check watch again...sigh! Now seeing someone approach you and look up kind of puzzled look at the person who has stopped by your table...hmmm wonder what they want...ignore...then the dreaded words ..hey sorry I'm late but here I am.....whaaa? This is not the person whose pic you seen in a profile...overweight sloppily dressed....! Not quite what you expected ?
Ok so try this ..guy sees a beautiful woman on a date site ..is automatically smitten , swipes right asks a few questions ..looks at her pic...several more , sees her as a twin...not identical as her sister but ..still appealing ..chat ..chat some more..make plans to meet ..she sends more pics ..lovely very striking woman...ok agree to meet ..get to the place early of course ..there is a lot of people there and someone approaches your table ..puzzled you look at her ..same woman as in the pics ..face wise any way but is at least 100 pounds overweight ...she is still beautiful but admits she has shown her twin sisters pic to you not hers because of her weight...not being judgemental you get on with your date have a blast but are still a bit peeved by her deception..
Ok what to do here? She obviously wants to go on another date she has indicated as such.... obviously she deceived you but did she because she is a twin and passed off her sisters pic as her own..we all have flaws we want to pretend isn't there but?? Confused and still peeved he struggles with the deception...he feels like he is " fat shamed" because of her lack of judgement in her decision about honesty and not telling him in the beginning...he asks his colleagues what they think ..they are divided as to what he should do...forget the incident or don't feel obligated to go on another date...tell her your truth how you feel about being honest right off the jump...
The end result in my own opinion...you got catfished , doesn't matter if she has a twin she still used her sisters pics to make herself look good and used her pics to get dates...
How does this sound to you if you been deceived as this guy was? What did you do or not do? I was deceived big time by a guy and it only took me 20 minutes from meet to feet so I know what my outcome would be!

bitchkitty2017 71F

18/3/2019 7h16

Lol ...from meet to feet " do your duty " ..let me outta here!


qvillebiman 66H  
373 messages
18/3/2019 7h41

I am not looking for a relationship[ only NSA fun here. I have been catfished by old fake or stolen pics. Even in that NSA setting I walked after saying I simply can't trust anything about you now.


bitchkitty2017 71F

18/3/2019 7h58

    Citer qvillebiman:
    I am not looking for a relationship[ only NSA fun here. I have been catfished by old fake or stolen pics. Even in that NSA setting I walked after saying I simply can't trust anything about you now.
Ok I get that not everyone is on a site to start what they don't want but even a hook up or nsa fun do they lie about being clean and insist on no protection..its the principle of the message they send..If you believe they are who they say then see them knowing they are but not as they made themselves out to be...what else are they lying about..?


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 messages
18/3/2019 8h09

My first meeting here on this site was a total lie. He used someone else's photo all together. When he arrived and I obviously immediately saw it I got angry and in less than 2 minutes I was gone. When he looked at me and said point blank, "Okay, so what, get over it and let's get on with this" it ticked me off even more. I may not be the hottest in the world, but this guy was so horrible looking in every way possible including his clothes he only wishes he had a woman like me, so of course HE wanted to go forward. I would have never met a man like this in the first place and I am guessing that is why he lies about his looks. There are those that expect someone to just 'go with it' after they meet because they are there, but I will never EVER be so hard up for sex I do that.

I am sure you will ask if he had been better looking would I have stayed? Probably, but to me if you lie about this what else will you lie about? Would you lie about having an STD or something of that sort? So I would have stayed for the meeting, but NOT gone back for more had he not so blatantly not only looked bad, but acted bad too.


bitchkitty2017 71F

18/3/2019 8h48

    Citer rdy2try4:
    My first meeting here on this site was a total lie. He used someone else's photo all together. When he arrived and I obviously immediately saw it I got angry and in less than 2 minutes I was gone. When he looked at me and said point blank, "Okay, so what, get over it and let's get on with this" it ticked me off even more. I may not be the hottest in the world, but this guy was so horrible looking in every way possible including his clothes he only wishes he had a woman like me, so of course HE wanted to go forward. I would have never met a man like this in the first place and I am guessing that is why he lies about his looks. There are those that expect someone to just 'go with it' after they meet because they are there, but I will never EVER be so hard up for sex I do that.

    I am sure you will ask if he had been better looking would I have stayed? Probably, but to me if you lie about this what else will you lie about? Would you lie about having an STD or something of that sort? So I would have stayed for the meeting, but NOT gone back for more had he not so blatantly not only looked bad, but acted bad too.
I know exactly what you went through only the guy I met was very friendly and courteous but he had a bad accident and had a steel plate on his skull and had a lot of ..issues with paranoia it was bad and he kept trying to hide behind me ..it was horrible...and lol no I would never ask that kind of question the post is more like I feel if someone wants to tell their side of any horrible meet that was terribly wrong who am I to ask any questions...not at all like me...


lovetogiveaz 38H

18/3/2019 9h51

So sexy


Kissmenow6891 38H

18/3/2019 11h59

A good read


bitchkitty2017 71F

18/3/2019 15h27

thank you handsome ..


bitchkitty2017 71F

18/3/2019 15h28

thank you hope you got a little giggle out of it..lol


bitchkitty2017 71F

18/3/2019 15h30

oh I had one and boy he was nothing like his pic ..he did bring me a dozen roses and a hugh joint,,from his own garden..but he was paranoid because he had a steel plate in his skull from a bad motor cycle accident and seen conspiracy everywhere...lol I was there all of 20 minutes...


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 messages
18/3/2019 15h42

    Citer bitchkitty2017:
    I know exactly what you went through only the guy I met was very friendly and courteous but he had a bad accident and had a steel plate on his skull and had a lot of ..issues with paranoia it was bad and he kept trying to hide behind me ..it was horrible...and lol no I would never ask that kind of question the post is more like I feel if someone wants to tell their side of any horrible meet that was terribly wrong who am I to ask any questions...not at all like me...
lol I don't think you are like that at all, but I do know my post makes it sound like all I cared about was looks. No, I don't just care about looks, but he had an overbite that was more buck teeth and he had no hair at all. His weight was over too. Now add to that the personality and attitude of we are here so let's just do it anyway??? NOT happening!! I know looks are not everything, trust me on that, but if they are such a turn off I can't even look at you it is not happening. I know and admit openly I am NOT the prettiest woman and I am sure there are many men that find me ugly. I also wouldn't use a photo though of someone else in order to get someone to meet me. I just find starting out with a lie that is THAT big I can't imagine what else he would and was lying about.


bitchkitty2017 71F

18/3/2019 17h07

    Citer rdy2try4:
    lol I don't think you are like that at all, but I do know my post makes it sound like all I cared about was looks. No, I don't just care about looks, but he had an overbite that was more buck teeth and he had no hair at all. His weight was over too. Now add to that the personality and attitude of we are here so let's just do it anyway??? NOT happening!! I know looks are not everything, trust me on that, but if they are such a turn off I can't even look at you it is not happening. I know and admit openly I am NOT the prettiest woman and I am sure there are many men that find me ugly. I also wouldn't use a photo though of someone else in order to get someone to meet me. I just find starting out with a lie that is THAT big I can't imagine what else he would and was lying about.
I know one thing about you though after reading your comments on other posts ..you are one level headed lady..and the right guy will be very lucky to meet you and see that..i thrive on intelligence and maturity and I don't believe in judging but sometimes I question myself but always give anyone a chance ..its hard but human to want to be so that we can see through others flaws and true inner desirable traits...thanks for your input ..a pleasure..


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 messages
18/3/2019 23h48

    Citer bitchkitty2017:
    I know one thing about you though after reading your comments on other posts ..you are one level headed lady..and the right guy will be very lucky to meet you and see that..i thrive on intelligence and maturity and I don't believe in judging but sometimes I question myself but always give anyone a chance ..its hard but human to want to be so that we can see through others flaws and true inner desirable traits...thanks for your input ..a pleasure..
Gosh, thank you. I always try to be fair and nonjudgmental in my answers. I try to see every side possible when I post and not to offend anyone as best as I can. I met the man I am with right here on this site 15 years ago and we are still together today. I stick around because I love to help the new members with how the site actually works and definitely because, although there is an abundance of the idiots on here that are narrow minded in the purpose of this site, there are many who are not and add a true flavor to the place. There are many reasons to be here and when I read profiles with "we are all here for the same reason" or I get emails of "this is a sex site if you are not meeting anyone leave" I just shake my head and feel sorry for them that they can't see that there are most definitely people here that want to talk freely and openly without being under scrutiny for the content and they may or may NOT be here for finding sex. Sometimes it is difficult to not want to scream at a few of them here. lol Thank you again and always a pleasure to read your posts as well.


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