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People and Their Stupid Assumptions
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People and Their Stupid Assumptions I’ve been dressing for a while, and I have to admit that I’ve had fun really just dressing up, walking around my house, fine tuning my makeup skills, and taking snapshots. When I’m done, I take it all off and return to my preferred normal life. I have zero issues dating women. I’m nice, kind, well-educated, I have common sense, and feel that this part of my life needs to stay in the closet. It’s not the real me, and it’s not someth8ng I want to make a permanent th8ngs. I was born a male, and I’m staying. Male until I die. Dressing up on the side is fine, though. What I find to be disturbing are the n8mber of jerkweeds out there who hit me up thinking I’m just lounging around dressed to a tee as a woman. This is a hobby. Mother CDs have given me their bad attitudes towards this, but this is what I do, not you. If you have mental issues (which is not a bad thing) that say you need to dress as a woman, then that’s your business. I don’t have something in my head say8ng I have to do this. I actually started doing this as a challenge from my ex (whom I was with for 17 years). She said I’d be an ugly girl. Well, I took the challenge, and dressed up when she was out of town for two weeks. What you see in my profile pics is pretty much how I looked the first time I tried being a temporary girl although the pics you see are pretty recent, not 10 years old. So, what’s the deal with people who assume too much? The problem I have are all the folks who get pissed off when I say I can’t just meet as a girl. As I also said before, I don’t lounge around the house dressed up as a female. I reserve this stuff for late nights. I wouldn’t be caught dead crossdressing during the day. What people seem to not understand is that no matter how passable you might look, there’s a mental aspect of th8s that they don’t take into account. I get scared shitless going outside of the house in heels and a skirt with full makeup. I’ve walk3d th3 dog, driven once into Montrose as a girl, stayed 8n the car the whole trip, and I’ve even driven to pump gas. I’m not comfortable meeting at a place of business. I’m not going out to eat, I’m not going to see a movie, and I’m not going to go to a club. There’s not much love for men who dress as women, and the people who hit me up have no clue about an6 of this. I’m risking my safety and security by getting out of the house as a woman. What’s it to some of you if someone beats me up, or a cop pulls me over which has actually happened twice. It’s not cool. It’s awkward. Super uncomfortable. If you don’t dress up, then you have no idea what it’s like. Then again, I get hit up by these “straight” guys who are actually lonely, divorced men questioning their own sexuality. They had a relationship that fell apart, and now they’re trying to quench their thirst for sex. They’ll look anywhere and everywhere in hopes of finding someone whether it be man, woman, of a guy like me who dresses as a girl. Anything to fuck, I guess. This ain’t the same as fucking a genetic woman. Guys here fail to understand that. It helps if you’re bisexual, or if you’re like me (not bisexual) with bi experience. That doesn’t mean I’m bisexual. I like kink, and sometimes, there’s just a few things a woman can’t do for me. I have no attraction to men. Sex is sometimes just sex. Guys hit me up just expecting me to throw on a wig and panties. That’s really showing how stupid you are.. You have the internet based on the fact you’re looking at my profile. How about researching crossdressing before you talk to me like a total moron? A lot of crossdressers aren’t even bisexual. Some people have gott3n pissed and argued with me about this, but I’ve met a lot of CDs here and in real life that have no bisexual feelings as men, and even as “girls”. Sometimes, the urge to engage in sex with men happens when I dress, but I usually play a fame of Call of Duty and then go jack off instead. I’d have to really be in a heteroflexible mood to go get a guy. Sexuality and desires are very complex. It’s not something that I just do for the hell of it. I get my sexual rise out of dressing as girl. If I were to hook up with someone else, then the experience would be great. Even as a guy, if the mood is totally right, then I’d go for a guy. Unfortunately, a lot of men here from the past ten years are nasty as fuck. They’re fat as fuck, hairy as fuck, and engage in the filthiest c9nversations I’ve ever had. I usually end up blocking them as a result. Men feel they can talk to me as though I’m not a real person. I am a real person! I have hobbies, friendships, an excellent career, and I’m not lonely as some of you have made clear. I’m not your five minute fuck, I’m not your curiosity, etc. It takes time to dress up. If I meet someone, I have to make a determination as to whether you’re worth investing the supplies and time for meeting. That goes for meeting couples, women, and other gender benders, too. The men are the worst, because they hit me up expecting me to be waiting for them. After looking at their pics, I sometimes have to catch the vomit in my mouth. For the men in particular, look at me then look at you. I dress up and take pride in being presentable. You have pics of hairy beer bellies, no hair on your heads, fat as fuck, and look years beyond my age. I look at my male self at my current age, and then see men younger than me who look like hammered shit.n why would I want to hang out with you? Then there’s the CDs who flat out look like men. I understand the medical definition of a crossdresser, but I do not classify men in panties and painted toes to be crossdressers. A CD is someone who tries their best to look as close to a real woman as possible. When you remove your body hair from had to toe, wear makeup, female clothes, and look like a woman (hot or not), then you’re a crossdresser. I get handed excuses from people say8ng they don’t shave because they don’t want people thinking they’re gay. Well, you really have no room to be on a site li’e this if you’re that closed minded. That doesn’t mean you’re gay. Are you stupid, or what? They make fucking razors from Gillette that say “Body Hair Razors for Men” on the package. It’s a pack of 2 green and gray plastic razors in a plastic package. Ever been to a gym or paid the fuck attention to ads in media? Men are always smooth all around. It’s not gay, it’s you small mind thinking that. I have never liked body hair on me. It has nothing to do with crossdressing. Anyway, I enjoy dressing up. I won’t drive 30 and 80 miles to meet people, so I just stay h9me and do it. If you’re cool and don’t treat me like a piece of shit, then I’m open to meeting. Until then, whatever. Lol. 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well said its a huge spectrum from the occasional panty wearer to the full TS....there is also a huge spectrum on confidence What there doesn't seam to be much of a spectrum on is peoples attitudes to the "CD / T Community" & the common thread is - that you are just here for sex and that you are desperate and will do anyone that contacts you then and there. Basically a free sex worker That is furthers from the truth 1...CD / T - is almost a 3rd sex 2...Sexual Preference will change from person to person 3...Sex is not the prime motivator for dressing for the overwhelming majority 4...There is time to get ready (in my case I live 24/7 most weeks) but its still the same time as a cis girl or slightly longer 5...There is a time to get ready for sex & that is much longer unless guys want quite messy residual....!!!!
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What a lot of "normal" guys do not realize is CD covers a wide range. Not just sex. I may be up for sex with a guy, but I also want to be treated like a "real" woman. As you said i don't want to spend two hours getting ready only to have you to expect me to take 10 minutes to give you a BJ and watch you leave. also I am not at the stage yet where I am comfortable at being in public, so if I am in your area and want to meet at my hotel room that does not mean I want to hope in bed. It means I'm not comfortable in public, but want to get to know you. If you make me feel comfortable maybe I will be wiling to go for coffee as Janet.When I say I want to be treated like a real woman i mean the get to know each other. Maybe at some point in bed. I agree about the picture thing. Look at my pictures, I have worked hard to reach this point and feel I still have a long way to go. The least you can do is try to look good yourself. o you don't need to dress in a shirt and tie, a tee and jeans is ok but please make it look like you took a shower in the last century. Sorry to rant but your blog brought up a lot that we all have on our mind. Thanks for saying what we all think.
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