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We Have All Done It.... Some Of Us Just Do Not Say It... 🤗  

Paulxx001 66H
8702 messages
1/4/2019 1h07

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We Have All Done It.... Some Of Us Just Do Not Say It... 🤗

Note: A F F website is still chopping words and numbers. Please be patient.

This past weekend, I went downtown, to an art exhibit. The artist, was displaying his works, of abstract expressionism . more of a... neo cubist kinda guy. I stood there, looking one of his larger pieces. It hung, brightly lit, against the backdrop, of a white wall. I thought, perhaps... if I moved, further back... and squinted - I might understand it. From the shadows (of the gallery), walked a stylishly attired woman and her handsomely dressed young son. They posed beside me, in silence and focused their eyes, on mural. After a minute or so, the young , turned to his mom and remarked.

"Wow. 's really, fucked !"

His mother looked down the little , nodded her head and agreed. "Yes it is."

Then... they moved on. I was stunned. Not the was wrong. piece of art, was... truly fucked . I was surprised, this mom, had allowed her son, to express his point of view, with such profane language. I thought, the word 'fuck' - was reserved, for adults only. Did I miss a memo?

There are roughly... o.ne hundred seventy o.ne, thousand (1.000), words in the Oxford Dictionary. Most people, only have a vocabulary, of 20,000 words. Yet... there is this one word, everyone knows; some people abuse and some people... never use. word is - "Fuck".

Is it the most, vulgar word in the English language? "Fuck" is the only English word, can be used as a; noun, pronoun, adjective, verb, adverb and preposition. "Fuck", can be used, in almost every, informal situation, to express, any emotion. Change the tone of your voice, surround "it" with other words - and you can use " word" , anywhere. I found, least 27, different ways, to adapt it. I've listed those examples, in my comments. Did I miss any?

I never used " word" , when I was raising my daughters; yet... they know it. times, they've sprinkled it about, all around me. How the fuck, did happen? I never utter " word" , in business. Except of course, to describe the sales deal, just completely... fucked . With close friends, I might blurt "it" out, from time to time; to punctuate a point. Especially, when my point, is fucking right! Here, on my blog.... I'll try to avoid it, completely. And yet sometimes... well, I don't give a fuck.

It's a small... but powerful and versatile word.

As I left art exhibition, I passed stylish lady and her y.oung son. I smiled politely, nodded and said hello. I half-expected , to turn around and say...

"What the fuck do you want?"


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So...
Are you offended, when you hear, or see the word "fuck", written; or do you also use "it", when you speak and write?
Did your patents swear; or did you ever swear, in front of your kids ? 😱😁


Note: A F F is still really fucked ... chopping and editing words. Please be patient. . .
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Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 1h07

27 ways to use "that" word...
1. What the fuck?
2. Fuck!
3. Fuck it.
4. Holy fuck.
5. Fuck (you,him,her,that)
6. Go fuck yourself.
7. Did you fuck him?
8. Were they a good fuck?
9. Fuck... yeah /no
10. Fuck me.
11. Don't fuck me over.
12. Are you fucking with me?
13. Stop fucking around.
14. He's fucked.
15. He's fucked up.
16. That's fucking stupid.
17. What a stupid fuck.
18. I don't give a fuck.
19. Fuck off.
20. Where the fuck are we?
21. I don't fucking know.
22. Shut the fuck up.
23. Fuck up.
24. Who the fuck are you?
25. Abso - fucking - lutely!
26. Mother fucker.
27. Fuck - face.

Did I miss any? 🤔


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 1h08

Well.... you already know what I do. I never use that word in front of kids. Nor with people, I've never met. If I hear them swearing... I may sprinkle in... a few examples of my own. I sort of want to, blend in. Is that the right thing to do?
When I write.... I'll hold back, on using it. I think "it", has greater effect, if "it" is used less. 🤔


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 1h09

I was really careful, when I was raising my daughters. I tried not to swear or use "that word", in front of them, at all. They're adults now. Yet... I remind them... and they remind me - to watch the language. When we're in public... I don't tolerate swearing from them, and they know it! 😊


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 messages
1/4/2019 4h45

I tried not to swear in front of my daughter, but in anger sometimes it slips out. You know when you hit your finger with the hammer it just sneaks out and you instantly feel better. My daughter knows the word along with others but she has been taught there is a time and a place.

Perhaps the boy was not her son. Hopefully whomever his parents are will teach them some boundaries...


pocogato12 71F  
37235 messages
1/4/2019 5h40

The famous F bomb. I get surprised sometimes when others let it slip out like my 81 y.o neighbor when I took her grocery shopping. She was talking about her husband of 65 years in the process of dying " that fucker is going to leave me after all these years"
I try to be really careful not to use it in public but among my friends if I have heard them utter it then I know if it sneaks out there will be no reprisal. The worst word my mother ever used was damn so I know we never heard it at home

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mc_justmc 63H

1/4/2019 6h33

I use it, my parents never did. I grew up with a friend who was from Wales. He used to tell his Mom to fuck off regularly. She would respond, "Simon, I'm sure Agent Rawlings ( she always called us little spies up to no good ) doesn't want to hear that language", which usually got another round of "fuck off, Mom".


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
1/4/2019 7h13

Growing up, my Dad NEVER swore in front of me and certainly never used Fuck. Perhaps it was different for my brothers as they played sports. The worst my Mom would say is Tish instead of Shit.
I worked for a Female Manager who swore like a sailor. I also worked with a woman who seemed to use Fuck in every sentence. I think she had become totally immune to the word. While not a prude, I felt in both instances, it was inappropriate for the workplace.
Using public transit, there probably isn't a word I haven't heard. I do my best to tune it out and think to myself, What the fuck is wrong with everyone


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 messages
1/4/2019 7h19

Overuse of profanity diminishes the effect so I rarely cuss. Everyone in my family knows that if I say it I really mean it!

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


SolarPowered0 117H
8346 messages
1/4/2019 10h18



Paul...

I gotta go with the Lurking One here. That being pointed out, I just gotta say... that painting you stuck in there, is REALLY fucked up! My personal take on "art" is... if it ain't realism, it ain't art. It's just a bunch of paint splattered onto canvas ( or velvet, in some cases--FUCK! )

Ya know... when I was a kid, I used to actually read the dictionary. A vast array of words just didn't stick with me--over time. I discovered that when I used "real" officially sanctioned words, most people became very confused whenever I tried to communicate with them. After all--how many people "read" the dictionary?? Eventually, I concluded that I just had to sink to their level... in an effort to prevent any unnecessary "misunderstandings".

It's just like "democracy"--in order to have any meeting of the minds, ya gotta find the lowest common denominator. Otherwise, you're gonna be bangin' your head against a brick wall. And we all know how that ends.

I don't much care what my kids say... 'long as they ain't sayin' it to me; especially now that I'm old and they're just hangin' out waitin' for me to croak so thy can swoop in and grab my goods! FUCK 'em! That's what I say.

As for being offended-- the only time I feel offended is when some babe laughs at my dick. I mean... 4-1/4" is the standard size--Right?

I'll close with this: Ask me no questions, and I'll tell you no lies: unless I have to--

Solar...



Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 messages
1/4/2019 10h32

    Citer SolarPowered0:


    Paul...

    I gotta go with the Lurking One here. That being pointed out, I just gotta say... that painting you stuck in there, is REALLY fucked up! My personal take on "art" is... if it ain't realism, it ain't art. It's just a bunch of paint splattered onto canvas ( or velvet, in some cases--FUCK! )

    Ya know... when I was a kid, I used to actually read the dictionary. A vast array of words just didn't stick with me--over time. I discovered that when I used "real" officially sanctioned words, most people became very confused whenever I tried to communicate with them. After all--how many people "read" the dictionary?? Eventually, I concluded that I just had to sink to their level... in an effort to prevent any unnecessary "misunderstandings".

    It's just like "democracy"--in order to have any meeting of the minds, ya gotta find the lowest common denominator. Otherwise, you're gonna be bangin' your head against a brick wall. And we all know how that ends.

    I don't much care what my kids say... 'long as they ain't sayin' it to me; especially now that I'm old and they're just hangin' out waitin' for me to croak so thy can swoop in and grab my goods! FUCK 'em! That's what I say.

    As for being offended-- the only time I feel offended is when some babe laughs at my dick. I mean... 4-1/4" is the standard size--Right?

    I'll close with this: Ask me no questions, and I'll tell you no lies: unless I have to--

    Solar...



I am thinking you should leave all your money to starving musicians that would really fuck your kids...

ooops when I was a kid and swore I got my mouth washed out with soap...


SolarPowered0 117H
8346 messages
1/4/2019 10h51



My exquisitely Naughty Baby...

First off: I said "my goods". I ain't got no money.

Second: Fuck those starvin' musicians! If I did have any money, I'd spend it all... on you! Talk about fucking with my kids--and makin' me as happy as a dog gnarlin' on a marrow-bone!!!

Third: If I could get you to open your mouth, it wouldn't be a bar of soap I'd be puttin' in it.

Lastly: You can swear up a freakin' storm with me, Baby!

your loyal DJ--

Solar...



Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 messages
1/4/2019 11h08

Happy Monday and wow a boy used it in at an Art Showing and the mother said nothing, that's just wrong. I believe that children should be on their best behavior in public. My parents used it often, hell I even used it but tried not so much in front of my kids, they say it to though. I hope you have a great week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 12h08

I might have sworn in front of my kids as well. Sometimes you just can't help it, right?
I find using that word in the text is unavoidable. Otherwise the story just misses something, no? 🤔
Oh... I can see you getting angry and throwing a few choice words in someone's direction. Do you think you scare them? I might be.... 😱😘


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 12h23

I'm sure, past a certain age, kids are immune to it. Although... I listen to the songs kids listen to these days, and those tunes are littered with f bombs. How would a youngster avoid it? Anyone can download a song, right? 🎵📻
My parents might have used that language with me, but I was a young adult by then.
Your father had a lot of self control in not using that language around you. Can you imagine his war experiences and how they salted up every conversation? I'm only basing my opinion on movies I've seen. I'm sure the language they used was rough, right? 😱👍
Thanks for dropping by . My father never made it to the war. You must have many stories, of his terrible adventure to share. 🤔 Although I also know that many people who've been in a war, just don't want to talk about it....


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 12h27

    Citer Naughtypursuit:
    I tried not to swear in front of my daughter, but in anger sometimes it slips out. You know when you hit your finger with the hammer it just sneaks out and you instantly feel better. My daughter knows the word along with others but she has been taught there is a time and a place.

    Perhaps the boy was not her son. Hopefully whomever his parents are will teach them some boundaries...
With me, it was when I'd stub my toe on the bed post.... Oooops... 😱 But it just comes out, right? omg... 😂
It looked like it was his mom. Modem family..? I don't know what a kid was doing in an art gallery. Some parents try to be progressive, but I don't know if that works. Does it? 🤔


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 12h31

If I'm around people who use it, then I use it as well. I kinda adapt... Does that make sense? lol... 😱
Funny story about your mom! 😁
Well... I'm in sales. We're really polite and cultured on stage, but when the curtain closes... well... Have you ever met a salesman who didn't swear? 😱😁
Have a good one! 👍


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 12h41

    Citer pocogato12:
    The famous F bomb. I get surprised sometimes when others let it slip out like my 81 y.o neighbor when I took her grocery shopping. She was talking about her husband of 65 years in the process of dying " that fucker is going to leave me after all these years"
    I try to be really careful not to use it in public but among my friends if I have heard them utter it then I know if it sneaks out there will be no reprisal. The worst word my mother ever used was damn so I know we never heard it at home
Yep... When older people use it, it's a shocker.. lol. Then again... I'm becoming one of those... and I use it. Do you? lol 😱😁
Ya know... I was going to include the history of the word. It came out in Germany (so they say), in the 12 th century... There's a trivia question for you... no? ❓🤔 lol... You use it? hmmm.. ❓😨😁


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 12h45

    Citer mc_justmc:
    I use it, my parents never did. I grew up with a friend who was from Wales. He used to tell his Mom to fuck off regularly. She would respond, "Simon, I'm sure Agent Rawlings ( she always called us little spies up to no good ) doesn't want to hear that language", which usually got another round of "fuck off, Mom".
Funny story. Although I get the impression that some people from the other side of ocean, are cut from a different cloth aren't they? lol
Yep... as a guy in a band... my gosh. Have you ever heard a musician who didn't swear? 😱
Yeah maybe Cat Stevens..... 🙀😶


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 12h55

Love your soap story. I'll bet if they had ignored you saying that word, you might have forgotten it, no?
True... when I hear that word too often, in a movie, it's annoying, right? 😕
My daughters are adults as well... and every once in a while they'll punctuate a sentance with that eurd. I might do a double take... lol 😱
Hey... no rules or stuffy attitude over here. Feel free to express yourself, any way you'd like. 😊👍
Thanks for sharing your story... 😁😘


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 13h01

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    Growing up, my Dad NEVER swore in front of me and certainly never used Fuck. Perhaps it was different for my brothers as they played sports. The worst my Mom would say is Tish instead of Shit.
    I worked for a Female Manager who swore like a sailor. I also worked with a woman who seemed to use Fuck in every sentence. I think she had become totally immune to the word. While not a prude, I felt in both instances, it was inappropriate for the workplace.
    Using public transit, there probably isn't a word I haven't heard. I do my best to tune it out and think to myself, What the fuck is wrong with everyone
Sounds like some of the people you've hung around with, have no filter... hmmm.. I'll try to be more careful.
Of course... that was a funny punctuation you just used! You planned that one, right? lol 😁😱


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 13h09

    Citer superbjversion2:
    Overuse of profanity diminishes the effect so I rarely cuss. Everyone in my family knows that if I say it I really mean it!
Overuse deffinitely diminishes the effectiveness of anything. 🤔
I can speak from personal experience, when I say that after the third or fifth time... it kinda peter's out. Although... when I was younger, 7 or oven more uses in one session... would still be satisfying. 🤔
What were you talking about? Oh yeah... less is more. Except when it's not. 😱😁😘


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 13h13

Yep.. you're right about that one... omg 😱
But you know what? It's not about what you or I think is offensive... it's about the person who we're talking with thinks. I once was speaking with a person of oriental decent and I parted the head of her child. It was the most offensive thing I could ever have done. You're not supposed to touch the head of children. I learned that lesson the hard way.
Ever say something benign, and the person you're speaking with, takes offense? omg... 😱
Thanks for dropping by. 👍


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 messages
1/4/2019 13h19

"I can speak from personal experience, when I say that after the third or fifth time...."

Holy Fuck! I need to get to Montreal.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 13h22

    Citer SolarPowered0:


    My exquisitely Naughty Baby...

    First off: I said "my goods". I ain't got no money.

    Second: Fuck those starvin' musicians! If I did have any money, I'd spend it all... on you! Talk about fucking with my kids--and makin' me as happy as a dog gnarlin' on a marrow-bone!!!

    Third: If I could get you to open your mouth, it wouldn't be a bar of soap I'd be puttin' in it.

    Lastly: You can swear up a freakin' storm with me, Baby!

    your loyal DJ--

    Solar...



Hey... I fucked up and accidentally deleted your first comment. I'm on my damm phone. Sorry about that. Yeah... good thing you're quoted here and I can still read it...
Hey yeah.... Nothing offends me.. Except for the fact that I just can't avoid these damm potholes here. Oh and people who don't signal before turning. Yeah I'm sure there's other stuff.
I'll be more careful next time. Sorry about that. 👍


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 13h25

    Citer Naughtypursuit:
    I am thinking you should leave all your money to starving musicians that would really fuck your kids...

    ooops when I was a kid and swore I got my mouth washed out with soap...
Good suggestions... All of them.
Based on Solar's reply to you... I think he likes you. 🤔😱❤️
Good suggestions though! 👍


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 13h27

    Citer Tmptrzz:
    Happy Monday and wow a boy used it in at an Art Showing and the mother said nothing, that's just wrong. I believe that children should be on their best behavior in public. My parents used it often, hell I even used it but tried not so much in front of my kids, they say it to though. I hope you have a great week..
Some parents used it and some didn't. It didn't affect you. You turned out ok, no?
Yeah... I don't know what to say about that mom and her son. It's not the way that I would do it. You? 🤔


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 13h33

Swear jar...? That sounds like a classic. 😁
You're funny... Perfect use of that word! You're good at it. Do you practice? lol 👍
But have you listened to some of the songs kids listen to these days? Those songs are filled with f bombs. How does a kid avoid that? 🤔


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 13h37

    Citer superbjversion2:
    "I can speak from personal experience, when I say that after the third or fifth time...."

    Holy Fuck! I need to get to Montreal.
I didn't mention the length of time of those sessions... ⌚
But hey.... I'll give it a crack and who cares about the time. Do like marathons? 😱😁 .
We'd take a bathroom and food break in between.. of course... right? 🚽🍔🍟😘


pollly_anna 60F  
697 messages
1/4/2019 13h37

I never ever use that word. my parents never did. ,my kids never have in my presents.(I'm sure they do amongst their friends.) and everybody who knows me knows I detest that WORD...and never use it around me.


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 13h41

    Citer pollly_anna:
    I never ever use that word. my parents never did. ,my kids never have in my presents.(I'm sure they do amongst their friends.) and everybody who knows me knows I detest that WORD...and never use it around me.
Ok... 🆗 ... i won't. What if you read it in one of my stories? Do you get angry and leave, or do you stay and read till the end? 📖🤔
What if you cut your finger cutting a carrot? What do you say? 🙄


SolarPowered0 117H
8346 messages
1/4/2019 14h16



Paul...

The Naughty One's first comment was her quoting me. So... my first one is still there--

As they say... Shit happens -- or is it fuck happens?

( And fuck yeah, Paul... I do like her -- a lot!! In fact... I'm thinkin' I might just give up football, become a hockey dude, kick out that Gretzky guy... and move north. )

Solar...


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
1/4/2019 14h26

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Sounds like some of the people you've hung around with, have no filter... hmmm.. I'll try to be more careful.
    Of course... that was a funny punctuation you just used! You planned that one, right? lol 😁😱
Those people couldn't be avoided and yep, they had absolutely no filter.
And no, the funny punctuation wasn't intentional. My frigging laptop keyboard had a glitch and I couldn't use apostrophes, question marks etc. Rather then wait, I wanted to post my comments. Seems to have corrected itself so I will do better now .


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 messages
1/4/2019 14h29

    Citer SolarPowered0:


    Paul...

    The Naughty One's first comment was her quoting me. So... my first one is still there--

    As they say... Shit happens -- or is it fuck happens?

    ( And fuck yeah, Paul... I do like her -- a lot!! In fact... I'm thinkin' I might just give up football, become a hockey dude, kick out that Gretzky guy... and move north. )

    Solar...
That Gretzky guy is American now....so we got room.


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 15h02

    Citer SolarPowered0:


    Paul...

    The Naughty One's first comment was her quoting me. So... my first one is still there--

    As they say... Shit happens -- or is it fuck happens?

    ( And fuck yeah, Paul... I do like her -- a lot!! In fact... I'm thinkin' I might just give up football, become a hockey dude, kick out that Gretzky guy... and move north. )

    Solar...
Hey it's all good. I can't always predict what this phone of mine will do. 👍📱


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 15h04

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    Those people couldn't be avoided and yep, they had absolutely no filter.
    And no, the funny punctuation wasn't intentional. My frigging laptop keyboard had a glitch and I couldn't use apostrophes, question marks etc. Rather then wait, I wanted to post my comments. Seems to have corrected itself so I will do better now .
Oooo... Glad it's fixed. I'd be fucking pissed if that happened to me. You're very calm.. aren't you? hmmm... 👍.


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 15h06

    Citer Naughtypursuit:
    That Gretzky guy is American now....so we got room.
Really? He's got his US citizenship? Hmmm... ok 🆗


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
1/4/2019 16h16

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Oooo... Glad it's fixed. I'd be fucking pissed if that happened to me. You're very calm.. aren't you? hmmm... 👍.
It’s about putting things into perspective. Why get pissed off at the ‘little’ things 🤔?


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 18h18

They talk about sex? How do you know? 🤔
My daughters never shared that part of their lives with me. 🙄😂


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 18h25

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    It’s about putting things into perspective. Why get pissed off at the ‘little’ things 🤔?
... unless of course... they had promised something more.... And then.. what are you going to do with that? Fun to play with.... but enough fun to use... for anything other than a door stop. 😶
Am I too harsh?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
1/4/2019 20h03

    Citer Paulxx001:
    ... unless of course... they had promised something more.... And then.. what are you going to do with that? Fun to play with.... but enough fun to use... for anything other than a door stop. 😶
    Am I too harsh?
You...too harsh? Is that possible?
It’s more annoying when they over-promise and under deliver. And I can tell that’s not what you do. Right?


SolarPowered0 117H
8346 messages
1/4/2019 20h15



Naughty, my Sweets...

"That Gretzky guy is American now....so we got room."

I gotta ask-- just WHO is this WE you speak of??? I hope it doesn't refer to the Canadian peeps, at large... and is more an expanded view of your own personal space, if ya know what I mean. It's like the politicos are always sayin', "We are gonna do the right thing.", when what they really mean is, "I'm gonna do the right thing".

Now, don't get me wrong--whereas the politicos NEVER do the right thing... I have faith in you, Schweethardt.

Solar...



SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 messages
1/4/2019 21h29

My parents rarely swore, an occasional "damn" or "shit" with an apology for the swearing. When I was about 17 I heard my dad say the f-word. I think that was the only time I've ever heard him use it.

I rarely swore in front of my kids, until they were in their teens, then the "shit" slipped out a little more. My ex used the f-word like a comma. Not so much when my daughter was young, but once the youngest was about school age, then he stopped censoring himself.

I do use it, as an exclamation, I use it less than I used to, and never around the little ones.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 21h52

    Citer SeaGirlFL:
    My parents rarely swore, an occasional "damn" or "shit" with an apology for the swearing. When I was about 17 I heard my dad say the f-word. I think that was the only time I've ever heard him use it.

    I rarely swore in front of my kids, until they were in their teens, then the "shit" slipped out a little more. My ex used the f-word like a comma. Not so much when my daughter was young, but once the youngest was about school age, then he stopped censoring himself.

    I do use it, as an exclamation, I use it less than I used to, and never around the little ones.
17 ? And you remember how old you were? Wow.. That must have had an affect on you.
I have to say that as kids get older that get more immune, no? 🤔 Did you get annoyed with him?
You... saying shit? lol... I'd love to hear that! lol 😘


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
1/4/2019 21h56

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    You...too harsh? Is that possible?
    It’s more annoying when they over-promise and under deliver. And I can tell that’s not what you do. Right?
Oooo.. ok then. I promise nothing. Come on over and let's see if I can deliver more than zero.... Is that cheating lol.... 0⃣😁😘


pollly_anna 60F  
697 messages
1/4/2019 22h24

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Ok... 🆗 ... i won't. What if you read it in one of my stories? Do you get angry and leave, or do you stay and read till the end? 📖🤔
    What if you cut your finger cutting a carrot? What do you say? 🙄
I don't read it ,I have my setting fixed to not see the complete word..just the F ***.....if i cut my finger what else would I say but "OUCH"!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
2/4/2019 3h50

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Oooo.. ok then. I promise nothing. Come on over and let's see if I can deliver more than zero.... Is that cheating lol.... 0⃣😁😘
Promise me nothing and I will expect nothing. Actions speak louder than words and I know, zero is not in your vocabulary nor mine. Heading over so we can prove it. OK?


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
2/4/2019 4h08

    Citer pollly_anna:
    I don't read it ,I have my setting fixed to not see the complete word..just the F ***.....if i cut my finger what else would I say but "OUCH"!
Really? I didn't know that you could put your settings like that. Hmmm... Have a great day. 👍


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
2/4/2019 4h13

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    Promise me nothing and I will expect nothing. Actions speak louder than words and I know, zero is not in your vocabulary nor mine. Heading over so we can prove it. OK?
Sure.... Come on over. But don't come with any challenges or things to prove. Just come because we'd have fun. Then... let's take things from there... 😊


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
2/4/2019 5h12

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Sure.... Come on over. But don't come with any challenges or things to prove. Just come because we'd have fun. Then... let's take things from there... 😊
You are right. No challenges or expectations. Just open minded and relaxed.


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
2/4/2019 10h29

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    You are right. No challenges or expectations. Just open minded and relaxed.
... and meatloaf... 😶


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
2/4/2019 11h17

Ok. And I will bring the cake 🎂


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 messages
2/4/2019 11h33

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Really? He's got his US citizenship? Hmmm... ok 🆗
Dual.....


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
2/4/2019 12h48

Ah yes... the cake. Mustn't forget the cake today. 🎂


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
2/4/2019 12h51

Makes sense. His wife is American. 🇺🇸


tulsaliza 65F
2390 messages
3/4/2019 3h17

I am guilty of using the word fuck in a profane, abusive way. It seems to fit somewhat appropriately when and where I use it. More abusive than I really want to admit but it is what it is.

I do have to be mindful of my profanity around my grandkids.

I once called me mother a bitch to her face when I was a sophomore in high school and found myself picking myself up off of the floor and never called her a bad name to her face again. She got my attention and my respect on that one.

The most offensive word to me is "cunt." I feel that that is the most abusive word a female can be called. There's just no exception or going around it in my book, cunt is the filthiest, wrong word to ever use unless one is trying to be abusive.

Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure...
- Lord Byron, Don Juan


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
3/4/2019 3h42

    Citer tulsaliza:
    I am guilty of using the word fuck in a profane, abusive way. It seems to fit somewhat appropriately when and where I use it. More abusive than I really want to admit but it is what it is.

    I do have to be mindful of my profanity around my grandkids.

    I once called me mother a bitch to her face when I was a sophomore in high school and found myself picking myself up off of the floor and never called her a bad name to her face again. She got my attention and my respect on that one.

    The most offensive word to me is "cunt." I feel that that is the most abusive word a female can be called. There's just no exception or going around it in my book, cunt is the filthiest, wrong word to ever use unless one is trying to be abusive.
Wow... your mother sounded like a trooper...
I find your pov about the most offensive word, interesting. I'm not disagreeing. Somehow men... don't get offended as much, if they're called : pricks, dicks or cocks or assholes... Well we might, but... you know what I mean.
Is it a gender thing? Where women are offended more deeply by that word? Or is it the implied meaning? I view that word as description of a- really, really really nasty bitch.
For a man, I would call him a real dick. But I'd add the word "asshole". So it would take two words to accomplish the same goal with that one word, used to describe a woman.
Do you see it the same way?
It's a weird conversation... but it's interesting that you brought it up. It's not the first time I've heard this pov. You're not alone.


Livin_my_Life14 53F

3/4/2019 14h44

Fuck yea!!! My kids are grown so it doesn’t matter what we say or how we talk.


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
3/4/2019 15h00

    Citer Livin_my_Life14:
    Fuck yea!!! My kids are grown so it doesn’t matter what we say or how we talk.
Good for you. You go girl. I wouldn't expect less!. 😂😘


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 messages
4/4/2019 21h17

    Citer Paulxx001:
    17 ? And you remember how old you were? Wow.. That must have had an affect on you.
    I have to say that as kids get older that get more immune, no? 🤔 Did you get annoyed with him?
    You... saying shit? lol... I'd love to hear that! lol 😘
Oh, yes I remember. My dad was driving me to school on a snowy day, and someone did something stupid and he had to try to stop (people in Seattle really don't know how to drive in the snow), and he said "fuck" very vehemently, and apologized for it.

No, I wasn't annoyed...I was so shocked, lol.

Ha...next time I'm at the mothership, I'll have to prove to you I can swear, lol.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
4/4/2019 21h45

    Citer SeaGirlFL:
    Oh, yes I remember. My dad was driving me to school on a snowy day, and someone did something stupid and he had to try to stop (people in Seattle really don't know how to drive in the snow), and he said "fuck" very vehemently, and apologized for it.

    No, I wasn't annoyed...I was so shocked, lol.

    Ha...next time I'm at the mothership, I'll have to prove to you I can swear, lol.
Wow.. You're memory is good. Your Dad was good if that's the only time you can remember.
I guess I was a bad father... It would slip out of the my mouth, often... omg 😱
I thought that the mothership was no more? Or did I miss something?


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 messages
5/4/2019 16h36

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Wow.. You're memory is good. Your Dad was good if that's the only time you can remember.
    I guess I was a bad father... It would slip out of the my mouth, often... omg 😱
    I thought that the mothership was no more? Or did I miss something?
The mothership still is...no changes there.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
5/4/2019 16h54

    Citer SeaGirlFL:
    The mothership still is...no changes there.
Kool.... Oki doki...
I can hardly wait... lol 😁🤔😘


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
10/4/2019 22h23

I just posted a new blog post yesterday. It's about a couple in an elevator... Check it out.
Sexy and Salacious In Elevator Number Six


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
10/4/2019 22h28

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    Growing up, my Dad NEVER swore in front of me and certainly never used Fuck. Perhaps it was different for my brothers as they played sports. The worst my Mom would say is Tish instead of Shit.
    I worked for a Female Manager who swore like a sailor. I also worked with a woman who seemed to use Fuck in every sentence. I think she had become totally immune to the word. While not a prude, I felt in both instances, it was inappropriate for the workplace.
    Using public transit, there probably isn't a word I haven't heard. I do my best to tune it out and think to myself, What the fuck is wrong with everyone
'What the fuck is wrong with everyone?', is a good question. Looking around this place... makes me ask that same question.. over and over again.
What do you think the issue is? Lack of interest? Too few naked pics? Perhaps I should change it up and just post naked pics? Or... include the word' fuck', in every sentance? You're an expert, no? I heard that you do editing, on the side?
Yep... 🤔


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
11/4/2019 3h22

    Citer Paulxx001:
    'What the fuck is wrong with everyone?', is a good question. Looking around this place... makes me ask that same question.. over and over again.
    What do you think the issue is? Lack of interest? Too few naked pics? Perhaps I should change it up and just post naked pics? Or... include the word' fuck', in every sentance? You're an expert, no? I heard that you do editing, on the side?
    Yep... 🤔
Definitely not an expert but definitely have an opinion and have some observations.
No! Don't change who you are or what you post on your blog.
There is absolutely no rhyme or reason as to what catches people's interest. Some of the most innocuous posts garner huge responses while other great writings get virtually nothing.
And you are correct....I do provide editing services....rates are flexible and negotiable.


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 5h23

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    Definitely not an expert but definitely have an opinion and have some observations.
    No! Don't change who you are or what you post on your blog.
    There is absolutely no rhyme or reason as to what catches people's interest. Some of the most innocuous posts garner huge responses while other great writings get virtually nothing.
    And you are correct....I do provide editing services....rates are flexible and negotiable.
Yeah... maybe what I need, is help choosing a topic or theme. Stuff that I think will fly sinks. And stuff that I think will do well.... falls flat. Like you mentioned.
Your blogs seem to do well.... what's your tip?
I don't have the time to grow a vagina. 😱😘


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 5h26

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    Definitely not an expert but definitely have an opinion and have some observations.
    No! Don't change who you are or what you post on your blog.
    There is absolutely no rhyme or reason as to what catches people's interest. Some of the most innocuous posts garner huge responses while other great writings get virtually nothing.
    And you are correct....I do provide editing services....rates are flexible and negotiable.
Or... there is another way to look at this... And that is to say - fuck it! I'm over thinking this shit. It's a fricken blog on a sex site. I'll just keep posting stuff that makes me laugh and amuses me. The reaction? Screw it! Whatever it is, it'll be! 😁


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
11/4/2019 18h25

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Yeah... maybe what I need, is help choosing a topic or theme. Stuff that I think will fly sinks. And stuff that I think will do well.... falls flat. Like you mentioned.
    Your blogs seem to do well.... what's your tip?
    I don't have the time to grow a vagina. 😱😘
I go through the same frustration Scratching my head as to why some posts get a great response and others seem to flop. So no -it's not gender specific. You don't have to grow a vagina but you did say before you wanted to try switching minds and bodies for a day. Let's do it!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
11/4/2019 18h30

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Or... there is another way to look at this... And that is to say - fuck it! I'm over thinking this shit. It's a fricken blog on a sex site. I'll just keep posting stuff that makes me laugh and amuses me. The reaction? Screw it! Whatever it is, it'll be! 😁
Yep. Do what you want with your space and to heck with anything / anyone else. Obviously you are doing something right since you have risen to the #1 male blogger and sitting #7 overall. That doesn't happen without others paying attention and enjoying what they are reading.


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
15/4/2019 21h37

Happy Tuesday... I posted aimingthing yesterday that you might enjoy.... Have a great day!
FrankeeZee and The Brazilian Wax Challenge


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
26/4/2019 8h23

I posted an amusing post the other day. Check it out. You might laugh... or not... 🌵😶
Paul is Gone and Has Left Me In Charge Here39s My BDSM Adventure


scott0250 56H
511 messages
30/4/2019 18h54

Hey Paul. Here is one that you missed that I recently got fired for saying. Oh my fucking god.


Paulxx001 66H
22642 messages
30/4/2019 19h54

    Citer scott0250:
    Hey Paul. Here is one that you missed that I recently got fired for saying. Oh my fucking god.
Oooo yeah.. That's a good one.
Use the word for "fornication" and "God" and that'll get you all the time.
No way to fight that one through "HR" ?
Hope it spring boards into a better opportunity for you.
Yep.. that "God" one.. go figure... huh?
Drop by any time... 👍


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