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Women Have Dildos and Vibrators... They Don't Need Men... Or Do They?... 🤔  

Paulxx001 67H
8732 messages
11/4/2019 2h00

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Women Have Dildos and Vibrators... They Don't Need Men... Or Do They?... 🤔

Note : A F F is deleting words in the t.ext. Please be patient.

Part of my, 'Self Help Series', on sexuality... 😁

Women have been using artificial penises (for self pleasuring), since they first discovered, they each had a clitoris and a vagina. However, the oldest 'hard' evidence, was uncovered in 2005. German scientists got wet, when they unearthed a twenty-eight thousand (28,000) year old, eight inch (20 cm) phallus, of polished siltstone.

The stone dildo was discovered, in Hohle Fels Cave near Ulm, Swabia
, by an Early Prehistory team from the University of Tübingen.
Scientists were impressed with how smooth it was, remarking; "... it must have taken hours and hours to polish it, to such a fine level." I guess... if it's going in there , it would have to be smooth - right?

With the invention of the battery, came the creation of the vibrator and the ultimate evolution - of the the dildo. How prevalent is the use, o.f this toy today? In 2009, in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, Debra Herbenick (and her g.roup), published the findings of a survey from 2,056 women, between the ages of 18 to 60. Here are some of the results, of their study.

(1) 52.5% of the women admitted, to having used a vibrator either ; masturbating, during intercourse, and with a partner, as part of foreplay.

(2) Vibrators were used more frequently, for clitoral stimulation: 83.8% of users.

(3) Only 64% of women, also inserted them.

(4) Over 98% of women never experienced any negative side effects. Numbness, pain, irritation, inflammation, tears or cuts were rarely reported. Therefore, vibrators are very safe!

Here's my question to this whole thing. Do Vibrators improve sexual enjoyment and functioning for women? Or.... do women who already have, better sexual functioning, incorporate those vibrating toys, into their sexual repertoire; as a means of experimenting, and enhancing their experience?

I used to get a c.all, from a woman: she only phoned, when her batteries were dead. 😱 She just wanted, to use my penis... and fuck me! I was fine with that... I guess. 😶


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So
Would you be able to 'do without', your favorite vibrator, dildo or toy?
Have you ever enjoyed using a vibrator or dildo with your partner?
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Instructions on how to use a dildo are included in the diagram, below. ..
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Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 2h01

Yep... I've used dildos and vibrators with my lover and it's hot! 🔥🔥🔥
What a thrill to push that little thing in there and watch it disappear. Then watch as her eyes close and she shivers for me.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 2h02

I've also had those Vibrators used (externally), on me. And I must admit, that it does enhance the quality of the sex. If I don't have a vibrator... well... I wouldn't miss it. But it's nice! 😊


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
11/4/2019 3h14

Vibrators are by far the most popular sex toy. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, 25 percent of women have difficulty having orgasms, or can't have them. Many perfectly normal women cannot have orgasms without the intense stimulation vibrators provide. They need direct clitoral stimulation from fingers, a tongue, a vibrator, or anything else.
My 'little pink friend' (a Shibaro Halo) is fun to share with a partner....showing how I like to use it, turning over the control of it to him or using it on him.


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 messages
11/4/2019 3h26

Men have their hands and can also use a fleshlight, so they don't need a woman.
Or do they?

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 3h52

    Citer pagancountrygirl:
    Men have their hands and can also use a fleshlight, so they don't need a woman.
    Or do they?
Interesting point you bring up. Hmmm... 🤔
Well... I've never used a 'flesh light' so I don't know what it feels like. Do you have any friends who have experienced it? I'd like to know their opinion. Not that I would try it. But I've been curious... lol 😱😁
Yeah... hands are ok. I guess if I use my left.... it'll feel like someone else is there. lol 😊 But it's still not the same. 😢
Bottom line is that men are disadvantaged when it comes to emulating sex with a woman - in my opinion. Plus.... we're really, really, really shallow and needy. So.. no! We need women! ❤️😘
I may be wrong about my thoughts about Vibrators and toys and how they make a woman feel. You're a lady ... what do you think? Is the pleasure you get, similar to, or better than... sex with a man? Or at the very least... is it as much fun? 🤗
Thanks for sharing your pov. 😊👍
The idea you brought up, can be a topic I explore on another blog. Thank you for the idea! 😁😃


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 4h05

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    Vibrators are by far the most popular sex toy. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, 25 percent of women have difficulty having orgasms, or can't have them. Many perfectly normal women cannot have orgasms without the intense stimulation vibrators provide. They need direct clitoral stimulation from fingers, a tongue, a vibrator, or anything else.
    My 'little pink friend' (a Shibaro Halo) is fun to share with a partner....showing how I like to use it, turning over the control of it to him or using it on him.
25% ? Wow... That's high. I didn't realize that number would be so elevated. No wonder you ladies like them so much. 😱
You've fricken named your little toy _"pinky "? Omg... you are sooooo funny. 😁 Yep... I inferred... lol
I am not familiar with the toy you use. You'd have to show me what to do. R u patient with beginners?
Thanks for sharing your pov. Interesting stats! 🤔
25% is a lot! 😱


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 messages
11/4/2019 4h30

I could not do without my toys. I have a collection just to be sure I never am without. Yes toys are involved in partner play all the time. In fact I keep packages of vibrating rings in my stockpile.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 4h41

    Citer Naughtypursuit:
    I could not do without my toys. I have a collection just to be sure I never am without. Yes toys are involved in partner play all the time. In fact I keep packages of vibrating rings in my stockpile.
Really? Wow! Kool.... 🔥👍
Have you named any of them? You women are soooo funny... I swear... and you laugh at us men.. lol 😱😁
Ya know... if you were ever to do a blog post, with a picture of all your little toys on display.. I would read it with great interest. Especially if you included a description of the 'effect' of each unique play item! 👍🔥😘
Yep... Have you ever thought about that, or is it just too personal? 😶
Vibrating rings? I'm an amateur here. Educate me. I'm too lazy to google it... lol


whoisagentj 54H
6060 messages
11/4/2019 6h14

I sometimes wonder if women do need men now.

As for using vibrators and dildos on women, I've done that and it's awesome to do. However, I'd rather be the one doing the actual fucking.

And yeah, I myself have used a fleshlight. They're ok, but it's just not the same as the warmth of a woman, not even close.

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


mc_justmc 63H

11/4/2019 6h37

I bet that stone was "polished" by years of "erosion".


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 6h43

    Citer whoisagentj:
    I sometimes wonder if women do need men now.

    As for using vibrators and dildos on women, I've done that and it's awesome to do. However, I'd rather be the one doing the actual fucking.

    And yeah, I myself have used a fleshlight. They're ok, but it's just not the same as the warmth of a woman, not even close.
Hey... Mr. Agent! Welcome... 😊
Yep... I agree with you on those points. It is hot to help a woman with those devices and toys. But you're right... nothing beats the real thing, right? lol I might have to give that flesh light thing a try. Going into those sex shops is a lot of fun!
So... shall I serve you a pineapple vodka slushie or ya wanna start slow, with a coffee? ☕🍍
Stay as long as you want. Some of my other stuff here, is funnier! Have a great day. Drop by, any time. 👍


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 6h52

Oooooo.... You sound like a seasoned pro... lol 😁😱
Ya have some favorites? You know me. I'm always willing to learn about new stuff. Especially stuff that I know almost nothing about. 😘 Yep... I've seen you at work.... Hot 🔥and entertaining.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 7h04

    Citer mc_justmc:
    I bet that stone was "polished" by years of "erosion".
Well... supposedly... the scientists claim, that the smoothness was created through 'man made', means. Although... 28,000 years ago, who knows what the inside of a 'woman bit' resembled. Perhaps, it's composition was courser, (than its present day, velvety version), thus leading to the erosion, you refer to.
Good point! Yep... 👍🤔 hmmm scary point.... 😱
Or through exsessive use... I'd love to have been there, when that first man (who polished it) ... gave it to that first woman. What a vision. lol


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 7h08

Omg.. That is so funny. Did all of us young men buy those for their girlfriends? 😘 I thought that I was the only guy, who came up with THAT idea. That's funny. 😂
I trust that you were instructed on how to use it?
Q? Do you still have it? 😊


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 8h52

Wow. That's a classic story. England... and all. Very romantic... ❤️
I was in my twenties.. maybe 22 and I was with my new girlfriend at our first Motel rendezvous. I had the pizza and coke in hand. Then I pulled out the gift wrapped package. 🎁 I had never used or seen one (live), before. And she had never had one either. It was quite the experience, to explore that device. Quite the thrill, indeed.
I wish it were possible to relive those first, moments, from time to time. The "First time", for anything, was always a thrill.
That Air Force experience in London... does sound intriguing. Or am I just a hopeless romantic? 😍
Thanks for sharing that story! 👍


positively4you 74F  
4605 messages
11/4/2019 10h36

My first was given to me by a man. He arrived with a vibrator, handcuffs and tequila. I said well, honey, most men bring flowers, but I do like your style. I used that vibrator until it died many yrs later. He is one of my good memories.🦋


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 messages
11/4/2019 10h36

You know I do have a vibrator, but to be honest I prefer REAL..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 10h44

    Citer positively4you:
    My first was given to me by a man. He arrived with a vibrator, handcuffs and tequila. I said well, honey, most men bring flowers, but I do like your style. I used that vibrator until it died many yrs later. He is one of my good memories.🦋
... and I'm sure there is a great and interesting story that is attached to that night! 🤔🔥Wow! lol...
Ever thought of blogging and sharing some of your tales? Thanks for popping by and sharing. Sounds like it was fun! 😘


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 10h47

    Citer Tmptrzz:
    You know I do have a vibrator, but to be honest I prefer REAL..
Of course real is always better. And in your case... you just have to nudge him... right?... lol 😘
Always nice to see you. 😊


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 messages
11/4/2019 11h15

Great topic.

If I want to have an orgasm, external application to my clit is really all that I need. However, because of reading about the 'use it or lose it' principle of keeping the vagina tissues healthy and flexible, I do insert my vibrator as well.

I do think that using a vibrator too much sort of desensitizes your clit. Just speaking for myself, I'd probably have trouble making it happen with just my hand, at this point. It is what it is though. I'm not gonna give up my vibrator.

It's similar to what Dan Savage calls the 'death grip' syndrome with male masturbation where guys get so acclimated to the tight pressure of their own hands, that they have trouble coming to orgasm during PIV intercourse.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 messages
11/4/2019 11h17

Oh and do I still need a man? Of course. A vibrator will never replace skin to skin intimacy. But, given how picky I am about who gets to experience that with me, it's a good thing I have my vibrator as a back-up....


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 11h43

    Citer smartasswoman:
    Oh and do I still need a man? Of course. A vibrator will never replace skin to skin intimacy. But, given how picky I am about who gets to experience that with me, it's a good thing I have my vibrator as a back-up....
Picky is good. It means you have standards and standards are good! 😊
btw.... Disregard my 'tone', on your blog. The day has twisted, slightly left of center and my tongue, was accidentally sharpened... by some personal events.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 12h00

    Citer smartasswoman:
    Great topic.

    If I want to have an orgasm, external application to my clit is really all that I need. However, because of reading about the 'use it or lose it' principle of keeping the vagina tissues healthy and flexible, I do insert my vibrator as well.

    I do think that using a vibrator too much sort of desensitizes your clit. Just speaking for myself, I'd probably have trouble making it happen with just my hand, at this point. It is what it is though. I'm not gonna give up my vibrator.

    It's similar to what Dan Savage calls the 'death grip' syndrome with male masturbation where guys get so acclimated to the tight pressure of their own hands, that they have trouble coming to orgasm during PIV intercourse.
Ever since you mentioned to me your menopause issues, I've been reading about it and learning how complex that whole thing can be. (ok now... here comes a flippant comment)... Is it possible that it's just God's way of evening things out between men and women... for all those multiple orgasms you've supposedly had, for the last 4 decades ? 😱😘
Perhaps I shouldn't have joked? Sorry... 😔 That stuff just slips out...
I can understand where all that vibrating would numb you.
Hmm.. yep... and I've read all about that death grip. Although ... uncut men, do not (typically), have that problem. The foreskin provides a natural lubricant for the penis and one can achieve the big 'O' with almost no preasure at all. It's all a question of fluid mechanics and friction quotients. A lot less is needed to achieve the thrill. I guess, you'd have to be there. 🤔

Hmm... Interesting stuff. Thanks for popping in and sharing your thoughts. 😘👍


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 messages
11/4/2019 12h16

Sorry that your day went sideways! Hope things improve. No worries about blog comments, I like people to be real about what they’re thinking at any given moment.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
11/4/2019 12h24

Wow... That's a really nice story... You've never thought of writing it in your blog? Sounds romantic. You could even make it a series?... Ok... Just a thought... lol 😁


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