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Go write on a REAL website... With a REAL blog... Fucker! 😳😮  

Paulxx001 67H
8732 messages
10/10/2019 12h12

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17/11/2019 13h28

Go write on a REAL website... With a REAL blog... Fucker! 😳😮

It was two in the morning. He was still up, watching sports highlights and charging the phone. The e. mail emoji chimed. He tapped his cell open... and raised his eyebrows... as he read, what she wrote.

"You are so full of shit ! You think you're so smart and glib! You think you're so witty and funny! Well you're not! You're just an asshole, who plays with words and manipulates people's feelings!

You think you can write? You think you're better than everyone?
You can't write worth shit! You're just a conceited dick, with an ego the size of your head! Get a grip and look around. Do you have a life, outside the fantasy you've created, on THAT site? You're a sociopath. Get some mental help!

You want to write? Go write on a REAL website, with a REAL blog, fucker! See how far you get! And stop harassing me! "


He looked at her words and blinked. He was confused... to say the least. "Hey... stuff happens, right?" he mumbled to himself. What had he done, to deserve THAT e.m.ail, from her? It's not like they were an exclusive couple or anything. He thought they were getting along... really well.

He was still in shock and slowly... very slowly, began composing his response ; when his phone... chimed again.

"So sorry! SO, SO SORRY! My bad! That e.m.ail, wasn't for YOU. It was for somebody else. I messed up! Disregard and DELETE. Please!
Hugs...
❤️💕💋"

"Somebody else? Who... was her intended recipient?" he sat befuddled. He did as she suggested and deleted the e.m.ail. Then... pausing... he quicky recovered 'it' from the 'Trash' and saved 'it' - just in case. He wondered if she really had , made a mistake ; or was her note, a drunken - 'truth serum' - misstep. Perhaps... that's how she really felt about him?

He wasn't sure.

Her suggestion that he look into alternative blog sites - was a good one. Her other suggestion - get some mental help? Well... he Googled ; 'Am I a narcissist or a sociopath?'.

He wasn't sure about that either. .

.........................................
So...
Ever pressed 'Enter' ... and then regretted it?
🤔
.........................................
. ..


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 12h12

Sure... I've made those mistakes and I've regretted... some of them. OMG! Now, I double and tripple check, all emails and texts - even blog comments. Especially late at night.
Every once in a while... something, slips through the cracks.
The next day, I'm like - "Really... did I say that?"
Ugh... ya think I'd mature up? 🤔 I'm working on it.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 12h13

Many times I'd like to say something to someone - here or in the 'real world' and I hold back. What's the point, right?
If you have nothing positive to say... don't say anything. Good advice that I try to follow... mostly.
Once in a while I get burned, by my own temper!
Ughhh... 😶


HermanG67 56H
8464 messages
10/10/2019 12h25

I received a selfie once from a work colleague that I was VERY glad was not intended for me!!!! it did make our next meeting kind of awkward... but we got past it like two adult men... no a word said about it


1seeking1 58F
3767 messages
10/10/2019 12h34

Very easy to make mistakes, especially here where site eat words. 8 try my best and still things get changed by my auto correct which I swear has a mi d of it's own. 8 am sure you will get to the bottom of it.


Justmovinalong19 61H

10/10/2019 13h01

I try to always double check what I have written before sending. Isn’t auto correct great! NOT!


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 messages
10/10/2019 13h29

I dont know that I have sent to the wrong person however I have had reacted quickly and emailed snarky comments. I have since learned to wait. A 24 hour cooling off period seems to work best. I also dont deal with issues of emails, blogs etc. Nothing beats a good old fashioned conversation.

I tend to hold my tongue quite a bit more then I would when I was younger, there comes a point when you realize 1. its not really that big a deal in the grand scheme of things in life and 2. Most people are set in their ways and you arent going to enlighten them with an email/blog/text.


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 messages
10/10/2019 13h32

In addition if I had received a text like that, regardless if it was sent in error or not to me that person would be moving down the totem pole as that type of reaction/outburst is not the type of person I would want to associate with regularly.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 14h40

    Citer HermanG67:
    I received a selfie once from a work colleague that I was VERY glad was not intended for me!!!! it did make our next meeting kind of awkward... but we got past it like two adult men... no a word said about it
Ok... That would be uncomfortable. lol 😂 😮
You're such a pro. If I had known that guy, I woulda been ranging on him forever ; with double entendres... all over the place. Sounds like a classic.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 messages
10/10/2019 14h41

No its not you it's her she should have never done that. People need to make sure they are sending things to the right person. I hope you have a great evening..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 14h44

    Citer 1seeking1:
    Very easy to make mistakes, especially here where site eat words. 8 try my best and still things get changed by my auto correct which I swear has a mi d of it's own. 8 am sure you will get to the bottom of it.
Auto Correct.... don't get me started. Omg... The crap that feature has produced, is epic. Silly me. I just continue typing - be because I trust it.
Then I read it after it's on its way. 😂 😮
Yep... you must have some doozies as well


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 14h45

It certainly does.
Happy trails. Say hello to everyone in Boston for me! 👍


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 14h46

    Citer Justmovinalong19:
    I try to always double check what I have written before sending. Isn’t auto correct great! NOT!
I'm so trusting... I believe it... over.... and over... and over again. Not good!
Yeah...! 👍
Thanks for popping in and drop in any time.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 14h49

    Citer Naughtypursuit:
    I dont know that I have sent to the wrong person however I have had reacted quickly and emailed snarky comments. I have since learned to wait. A 24 hour cooling off period seems to work best. I also dont deal with issues of emails, blogs etc. Nothing beats a good old fashioned conversation.

    I tend to hold my tongue quite a bit more then I would when I was younger, there comes a point when you realize 1. its not really that big a deal in the grand scheme of things in life and 2. Most people are set in their ways and you arent going to enlighten them with an email/blog/text.
True... isn't it? The more experience you have in life, the less troubled you are about the small stuff.
I'm still reading the memo.
YOU hold your tongue? Or HE does? 🤔


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 14h52

    Citer Naughtypursuit:
    In addition if I had received a text like that, regardless if it was sent in error or not to me that person would be moving down the totem pole as that type of reaction/outburst is not the type of person I would want to associate with regularly.
Well... at the very least, you'll have figured out what they really thought of you.
Honesty is fine if you want something to work... no? 🤔
If you really care... THAT type of honesty and build and strengthen a relationship.
I demand honesty from people, especially those close to me.
Don't you?


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 14h55

    Citer Tmptrzz:
    No its not you it's her she should have never done that. People need to make sure they are sending things to the right person. I hope you have a great evening..
I just said hello to you over THERE and now you're over HERE. Wow... you're fast!
I don't know. What if... what a person says hits a nerve and makes you think. Let's say that you care about that person. I'd prefer an honest friend, than one filling me with stuff. You?


tkoreo13 37H
10 messages
10/10/2019 15h49

lol...


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 15h50

Laughs are good. 👍


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 messages
10/10/2019 16h28

In this electronic world, it's so easy for people to resort to texting or emailing, rather than picking up the phone and having a real conversation. Of course, nothing beats face-to-face so you can see body language and all the other nuances.
I don't recall ever sending a text to the 'wrong' person, but have received a few. Am guilty of having sent a few messages 'in the heat of the moment' so I do my best to try to avoid it.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 16h38

Well... I guess everyone is entitled to their opinion. But she didn't mention THIS site. Must be other sites out there with blogs, no?
Did you ever send an email or text my mistake? 🤔


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 16h40

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    In this electronic world, it's so easy for people to resort to texting or emailing, rather than picking up the phone and having a real conversation. Of course, nothing beats face-to-face so you can see body language and all the other nuances.
    I don't recall ever sending a text to the 'wrong' person, but have received a few. Am guilty of having sent a few messages 'in the heat of the moment' so I do my best to try to avoid it.
You? In the heat 🔥 of the moment? Reeeelee? hmmm...
What did you do? 🤔


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 messages
10/10/2019 16h55

Interesting thought, going to a different site to blog. I can think of a few people here, over the years, who became very popular and thought they could become even more popular putting their blog on a mainstream site. Guess what? Hardly anyone followed them there. You know, when you have to actually navigate to a different site...as opposed to having their new posts conveniently pop up in yellow, here....interest tends to wane pretty fast.

So that's why I stay here, even though my blog isn't usually about sex and I'm not trying to meet people on the site any more. It's my own cozy corner where I can count on at least 10-15 people to read and comment.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
10/10/2019 17h30

    Citer smartasswoman:
    Interesting thought, going to a different site to blog. I can think of a few people here, over the years, who became very popular and thought they could become even more popular putting their blog on a mainstream site. Guess what? Hardly anyone followed them there. You know, when you have to actually navigate to a different site...as opposed to having their new posts conveniently pop up in yellow, here....interest tends to wane pretty fast.

    So that's why I stay here, even though my blog isn't usually about sex and I'm not trying to meet people on the site any more. It's my own cozy corner where I can count on at least 10-15 people to read and comment.
That's.. a pretty well thought out comment with some interesting perspectives.
Cozy is good! I like cozy. 😊
Blogs are either diary based, thought or pov based or theme based. It's a tough market to crack, unless you have a well thought out niche.
Ten to fifteen is a nice party, isn't it? 👍🎃


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 messages
10/10/2019 17h40

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Well... at the very least, you'll have figured out what they really thought of you.
    Honesty is fine if you want something to work... no? 🤔
    If you really care... THAT type of honesty and build and strengthen a relationship.
    I demand honesty from people, especially those close to me.
    Don't you?
Honesty is fantastic. Brutal, rude honesty is not requirement. It's a blog what do I care what or how you write that I feel the need to call you a conceited dick, a sociopath, asshole etc. If I felt the need to intercede in your fantasy blog writing I am sure I could come with a more hospitable way to tell you, although I cant think of any reason why I would worry about what you were writing.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 messages
10/10/2019 18h14

I have never regretted any email that I've sent....even the not-so-nice ones.
I have mixed up conversations on instant messengers. I try not to multichat any more.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 messages
10/10/2019 18h43

Well, sure. Emotions get the better of everyone once in awhile.

And, I've been the recipient of a text message sent to the wrong person. From my ex while we were still married. On Christmas Eve, to his girlfriend, telling her how much he wished he was spending the holiday with her. And, I know it was to her, because her first name was in it. At one point, he was messaging multiple women (apparently, he didn't think I was reviewing the cell phone bill), and he always put the first name of the woman he was texting.

Ha. I just thought of something. Wouldn't it be funny if he was your neighbor, lmao. (He lives in Montreal...)

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


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