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Two Things You Can Do... To Make Her Hum... 🔥❤️  

Paulxx001 67H
8732 messages
3/3/2020 9h56

Dernière Consultation:
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Two Things You Can Do... To Make Her Hum... 🔥❤️

You can find a tiny bit of wisdom and a smidgen of irony, in strange places ; you just have keep your eyes and ears open and sometimes, they fall right onto your lap. Take yesterday for instance.

As usual, I was driving home and trapped - once again - in snarled traffic. My radio was blaring when I heard these words spoken.

"When you fall in love, you fall in love with that person - in spite of their imperfections."

You might think it was a remark from ; a 'love doctor' or an inspirational 'thought for the day'. In fact, it was part of an advertisement for - of all things - a store selling appliances, that are slightly dinged or scratched. What a captivating by-line to push a product. The announcer also promised ; more than fifty percent off, with a guaranteed 'great deal'.

Ironically - back in the day - my spouse and I went to THAT store and bought a huge side by side fridge. When we first examined that stainless steel behemoth and all its (supposed) imperfections we accepted it, fell in love with it and brought it home. It had a few scratches and a small dent, but that ice box was a beast. She still IS a beast. I own it to this very day!

It's a sombre paradox that my wife and I could live contently, with an imperfect gadget, but we couldn't - live with each other's nicks and dents. Our union... eventually dissolved.

My old fridge? She can still fricken flash freeze burning magnesium - in five seconds! Sure... every once in a while the motor buzzes a bit. I nudge her on the side or jiggle her a touch and - she continues to hum.

If it were only that easy, right ? I didn't think about it back then, but perhaps a nudge here and a jiggle there... might have saved a marriage.

Nah... I don't think so.

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Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 9h59

Is 'love', all about accepting your partner with all their imperfections or is that just a myth? 🤔


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 9h59

If life were as easy as giving things a kick, to stop the irritation. 😊
I know... I know... Husbands and wives should never kick each other. But I look at that damn fridge... and it doesn't seem to have minded a boot - from a pair of cushioned slippers once in a while. lol 😂 OMG 😮❤️🌹


lv2play2469 67H
34 messages
3/3/2020 10h26

Interesting way to look at relationships... And it makes a lot of sense!!!


lust4life59 65F  
2552 messages
3/3/2020 10h56

We all have imperfections, and acceptance of another's imperfections, well to me, sometimes their imperfections are the endearing qualities about them IF they later turn to annoyances, perhaps rather than a kick or two, a gentle nudge might work.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 messages
3/3/2020 11h25

Hmm kicked to the curb only to fall face first into a snowcock

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scoupe42 60H

3/3/2020 11h55

I guess no one going to find the perfect mate. So there things you going to accept and things you won't!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 messages
3/3/2020 12h27

What a great read, so glad you still own your fridge, and you know paying attention to the little things in a relationship is what keeps it strong and will definitely keep her humming too..Communication is also the key to a long lasting marriage as well. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


tsn4fun2 48H/46F  
257 messages
3/3/2020 12h30

Yes and yes. Maybe not a full fledged real kick but a nudge in right direction. If there is love there the other will willingly accept and understand why it was given. Constructive criticism is a good thing for a marriage. Communication is key. Some people actually need the occasional nudge whether it’s just a case of temporary self absorption or just plain ignorance of what they are doing. Humans have a way to justify their wrongs to themselves without thinking of the consequences. A little nudge puts them back in perspective and opens door for whatever is needed to rectify. True love can withstand a whole lot more than you think. I am a sucker for scratch and dent deals. My refrigerator needs a little nudge every once in awhile too. 🙃


flannel_light 61F
4586 messages
3/3/2020 12h45

You have me thinking about some things now

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


LadyLuck2 67F  
9091 messages
3/3/2020 14h11

Interesting. Many people recognize the imperfections in their partner and marry them in an attempt to change them and then all hell breaks loose when the person can't or won't change. The imperfections we once thought were cute quirks become annoying irritations and then unacceptable behaviors and traits as couples separate and divorce.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 messages
3/3/2020 14h30

I use to nudge my husband, with my foot, to get him to roll over in bed and stop snoring. Kinda the same thing.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Heathen_G 65H
7974 messages
3/3/2020 15h15

Is 'love', all about accepting your partner with all their imperfections or is that just a myth? .... That's a huge romanticized fairytale myth.

First of all, people don't fall in love, they become infatuated. And after the infatuation wears off, the flaws become obvious. A persons friends or family members may have tried to open their eyes to the flaws, nicks, scrapes, but he/she wouldn't hear of it, couldn't see it.

You are familiar with that stupid song, "When a man loves a woman"? Yeah ... well , the song is really about being infatuated.

Being infatuated is like being drugged, being totally irrational, out of it.

- If life were as easy as giving things a kick, to stop the irritation. .... And that would absolutely stop the annoyance? Then , yes, people would be doing that a lot.


Heathen_G 65H
7974 messages
3/3/2020 15h29

Those imperfections , thought of as endearing?

At the moment they annoy the shit out of your friends and family,, and later, they sometimes begin to annoy the shit out of you , too.... when you come out of your mind-fog.

This desire to find one and only mate , is really irrational when you consider the population of the planet, ease of travel, how many people you might run into any day of the week just by going to the store...and how close we all have become technologically.


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 16h14

    Citer lv2play2469:
    Interesting way to look at relationships... And it makes a lot of sense!!!
It struck me as I listened to that add. Hey... pop in any time! 👍 😊


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 16h17

    Citer lust4life59:
    We all have imperfections, and acceptance of another's imperfections, well to me, sometimes their imperfections are the endearing qualities about them IF they later turn to annoyances, perhaps rather than a kick or two, a gentle nudge might work.
... and isn't THAT, the kicker- when they become an annoyance. How do you change a cute habit or personality trait... that you've grown tired of? 🤔
Add up all those little annoyances and well...
Some people recover and others? 😶


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 16h18

    Citer pocogato12:
    Hmm kicked to the curb only to fall face first into a snowcock
lol 😂... True.
But he seems to be happy. Can you make out his smile? 🤔


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 16h20

    Citer scoupe42:
    I guess no one going to find the perfect mate. So there things you going to accept and things you won't!
That's true and... everyone has their own limits of what they ll accept. And then... BOOM... those borders are crossed. Then what? 🤔


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 16h22

    Citer Tmptrzz:
    What a great read, so glad you still own your fridge, and you know paying attention to the little things in a relationship is what keeps it strong and will definitely keep her humming too..Communication is also the key to a long lasting marriage as well. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..
And you (and your relationship) are a perfect example of what succeeds. At least, what succeeds for you.
What's your secret? 🤔 🍷🍷😎


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 16h27

    Citer tsn4fun2:
    Yes and yes. Maybe not a full fledged real kick but a nudge in right direction. If there is love there the other will willingly accept and understand why it was given. Constructive criticism is a good thing for a marriage. Communication is key. Some people actually need the occasional nudge whether it’s just a case of temporary self absorption or just plain ignorance of what they are doing. Humans have a way to justify their wrongs to themselves without thinking of the consequences. A little nudge puts them back in perspective and opens door for whatever is needed to rectify. True love can withstand a whole lot more than you think. I am a sucker for scratch and dent deals. My refrigerator needs a little nudge every once in awhile too. 🙃
Wise words. Are you a therapist? lol 😂
True, about communication. Well... you're a couple... I heard the words 'true love'... is that your ace?
Gotta love a dent... that takes 50% off, something brand new.
Hey... drop by any time. 👍


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 16h29

... lol 😂 Believe me... that stupid add... made me think.
I hope you resolve your thoughts and report back. 😶 👍🍷🍷😎


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 16h37

    Citer LadyLuck2:
    Interesting. Many people recognize the imperfections in their partner and marry them in an attempt to change them and then all hell breaks loose when the person can't or won't change. The imperfections we once thought were cute quirks become annoying irritations and then unacceptable behaviors and traits as couples separate and divorce.
You hit the nail on the head.
But... in spite of annoying traits, what ticked me... was the way their thoughts and vision didn't match mine.
I really didn't mind all the small stuff...
Good points. You sound balanced... lol 😂
Are you? 🤔 😎🍷🍷


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 17h08

    Citer superbjversion2:
    I use to nudge my husband, with my foot, to get him to roll over in bed and stop snoring. Kinda the same thing.
Oh... so THAT'S, what she was trying to tell me. 😶
You were lucky... snoring was his only foible. Do you harbour other tips? 🤔 🍷🍷


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 17h31

    Citer Heathen_G:
    Is 'love', all about accepting your partner with all their imperfections or is that just a myth? .... That's a huge romanticized fairytale myth.

    First of all, people don't fall in love, they become infatuated. And after the infatuation wears off, the flaws become obvious. A persons friends or family members may have tried to open their eyes to the flaws, nicks, scrapes, but he/she wouldn't hear of it, couldn't see it.

    You are familiar with that stupid song, "When a man loves a woman"? Yeah ... well , the song is really about being infatuated.

    Being infatuated is like being drugged, being totally irrational, out of it.

    - If life were as easy as giving things a kick, to stop the irritation. .... And that would absolutely stop the annoyance? Then , yes, people would be doing that a lot.
Infatuation, is a strong word and worthy.
But I'm sure... fairy tales exist? 🤔
Notwithstanding the lyrics... it's not a bad... song.
Have you ever been infatuated?


secret_lade 49F
9227 messages
3/3/2020 17h35

When I have a hard time accepting my own imperfections.... How can I believe anyone else would either?


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
3/3/2020 17h41

    Citer Heathen_G:
    Those imperfections , thought of as endearing?

    At the moment they annoy the shit out of your friends and family,, and later, they sometimes begin to annoy the shit out of you , too.... when you come out of your mind-fog.

    This desire to find one and only mate , is really irrational when you consider the population of the planet, ease of travel, how many people you might run into any day of the week just by going to the store...and how close we all have become technologically.
Yeah but... let's take those annoying things everyone does.
I don't know about you, but I could live with that. What I can't live with, is someone who doesn't think like me.
Not agree... with me.
But THINK... like me.
Intelligence and empathy can go a long way.


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