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dominance or arrogance ?
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dominance or arrogance ? there seems to be many men now that think arrogance and rudeness now makes them a dom ( largely thanks to the crappy 50 shades i think) now this guys is incorrect so is the assumption that every single woman is a sub .... i for take this as an insult that some would assume that i am so please please please can we go back to before you all thought you were christian grey and drop the attitudes then some of you actually might get to drop you trousers instead |
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You are so correct 50 shades has a lot to answer for. I have been told that it is so badly writen and that it was the hype on sex that allowed it to sell so many copies. I think Lady Chatterley's Lover was a far better book. I read that one. “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site  Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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Its neither Arrogance nor rudeness.....its their REJECTION at the site which is making them showoff as DOM..Lol and that's the Real Truth
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20/6/2018 10h23 |
Very well said. Rudeness is just a person's inability of maintaining conversation worth sharing with others. Time to consider becoming "gentlemen" once again. I don't put women on pedestals but it does pay to show respect when it is appropriate. My Momma taught me that. Jimmy B. My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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Yeah! That's right.  Actually, this misconception is also fostered by some of the newbies responding positively to the psuedo/media dom behavior. Newbies often have the 50 misconceptions as well, but do catch on eventually. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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3/7/2018 8h45 |
I think it’s easy to fall in to the trap of thinking that a user with a provocative profile expects an aggressive greeting. But I can’t see your profile, so I can’t comment in that. A lot of guys assume that they’ve done something to earn a fuck. They really assume that all women are prostitutes, rather than subs. If you go to a back-street “spa” (I wrote up my experience of Rios on my blog,) you get men stamping around as if their entrance fee entitled them to leer at every woman there. Looking at the posts and messages a lot of guys send it’s obvious that some think that now they’ve done the paperwork of joining passion the women will just be queuing up.
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5/7/2018 8h01 |
I can at least admit that I’ve missed the fucking point here, sorry. So your profile makes it clear that you are a domme? That Implies that the guys who are using rude attempts to be Dom’s as their first messages are not reading profiles, and by extension, that they treat all women as subs. Sadly, aggressive and objectifying comments and behaviour do work on some women, disproportionately serial abuse victims. (There’s a lot of very grim reading in psychology to back this up.  ).I would agree that “Fifty Shades” and it’s inspiration, the twilight series, are guilty of legitimising crappy attitudes towards power, respect and manipulation. May I go further and suggest that those same works also provide a framework In which the vulnerable can consider their issues about self esteem and autonomy to be normal and healthy? In effect those books are instruction manuals on how to find an abusive piece of shit and then kid yourself that you’re being empowered. As such while those tossers didn’t strike gold with you, their pulling technique is probably more effective than we would like to admit, particularly as they work best on the most vulnerable.
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So true!
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