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hot air ballon ride............helcopter ride.
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12/2/2019 21h34 |
at the beach side talking
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^^nudist beach
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12/2/2019 23h59 |
Good lookin picture!
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If you're meeting someone, you're there to see if there is any chance of you two having sex.... so hooking up is actually a date. If you're not dating, and you are with her, you're "Hanging out" together . A day of paintball. (our choice) ... Not a "Date".. This would considered , "Hanging out".... like 14 year old's do. Throwing Axes. Yes this is real. ... Absolutely it's real... but it's not a "Date" you're on.... This too is, "Hanging out". Bowling. Plenty of time for talking and joking.... Nope.. that's not a "Date" either... that's "Hanging out'... That's what "Friendzoned" guys do with girls. Knock over some pins...take her home, and she calls up the other guy she wants, .. and goes on a date to get her ankles pinned behind her ears. An Escape Room..... ha.. no... not a date. Again..hanging out.... stuff a woman does with her gay friends and straight friendzoned guys. This assumes your not just meeting for a hookup.... What other reason is there to meet, if you have a healthy libido. No straight healthy male goes out to meet a woman because he wants friend to hang out with. If a guys says, "No, I do meet women to be friends", he's either gay, or low self esteemed, or woefully shy, but eventually he will try to make a pass at her. Where do you go for a first meet /date? .... First meet could be a park, mall, pub, beach walk....city walk.... ....but, a first date? ... To a bed, or in the car, ...places you can have sex and have a good time. I have been communicating with this woman for what seems like months..... She's wasting your time. She doesn't want to have sex with you. We had become good friends. ... I'm sorry dude... better luck next time. The sex side of things flew out the window early on. .... No kidding. We are still wanting to do a first date. Valentines Day is right here..... NO!!!!! You contact her and tell her, "I have a change of plans, we're not going out on Valentines Day,... talk to you later"........ Do that, and she'll have more respect for you. Don't tell her what you're going to do.... you may do nothing ....she doesn't need to know what you're doing or not doing ,............Now contact her and ditch her for Valentines Day. It feels very strange when you are new to dating each other.... Dude.. you're not having sex.. so you're not dating.... You're in her friendzone, you're not getting any tail in there , from her.
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Yes, some people are looking for a one-time hookup. ..That's right. And that one time hookup is a "Date". I want to know if I should hop in bed with someone..... Yes... hop in bed with them. This is why you [and them] are on a sex site, ... to have a date [to hookup aka... to have sex]. I don't want a relationship ... So say that in your profile..... also when you meet with them... tell them you don't want a relationship. But if you say you want to be able to trust them... then you're not making any sense. Because to establish trust, before having sex, that's called "Hanging out together" ...and you run the risk of being "Friendzoned"..[aka; no sex ever]. You don't want to be a woman's token gay male friend. ... This is why you hop in bed and have sex...and see where this goes from there. [Also if she stops having sex with you, after that, then walk away]. but I want to know if I can trust them .... No... You cannot trust anyone, whom you do not know. And even people who do know each other, sometimes they find out they the trust they had was false. ..... "Trust" takes time to cultivate. It's not instant, like sexual attraction. and they should know if they can trust me. .... No.... they cannot just trust anyone they meet for the first time either. For both of you, that meeting is a risk. Think about it from this perspective: Have you ever been out , and randomly hooked up with someone, went to you car [or theirs] and had exciting sex? ...... There was no trust there, for either of you.... .but you still had sex. [Trust] only makes for better sex. ... No it doesn't. The thing about "Trust" , is that after awhile predictability sets in... then boredom....... and ultimately, someone , or both, go out and cheat. Why? Because they are looking for that new rush of mystery , the unfamiliar sex. So when you say, "I don't want a relationship", ....but then say , "Trust only makes for better sex",... you're conveying that you DO want a relationship.... perhaps a booty call commitment type of relationship . ..or whatever sexual relationship... The point is , once you try to bring "Trust" into the mix.... you're establishing a relationship, not a one or two time date [hookup for sex]. Hookup or not, there are many reasons I am here. ... Okay , but nobody cares why you're here. Hopefully I'll find someone looking for a similar experience. .... Then you ARE looking for a kind of relationship. Everyone has their own reasons for being here .... Yes , they sure do. But whatever those reason, this is predominantly a sex site. ...... So if you find someone just looking for friend or a canasta partner....know that they are on the wrong site. and I wish them all well..... I wouldn't... but go ahead.
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