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Methods of Attraction..or Fluffing the Feathers.
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Methods of Attraction..or Fluffing the Feathers. very comfortable being me. It's not a game I have to . It's not a persona I have to try and uphold. just me. really no different on here, than I in person. And to me, that's just what works, both on this site and out in the public. Are you the same here, as you are in public. Do you act differently to get noticed on the site? No judgements here, just thoughts about whether you pursue the opposite sex or partner the same in public as you do on here. As we do most Friday nights, I take my daughter out to eat. At one of our favorite places, where we went tonight, they hired a new manager a month or so ago. A good looking Korean lady, who we both talk to and have gotten to know one another a little. And yeah, me being me, sure I've been flirting.  Tonight, when my daughter went to the restroom, she came over and started talking about how bored she was these days...didn't really do much on her days off but sit around the house. I simply say, well that's no fun, when's your next night off? Lets go do something fun. She says that would be great, gives me her cell number and we have a date for next Thursday. Point being, it's really no different than when I approach someone on this site, that interested in. We introduce ourselves, we talk a bit, flirt a bit. We move on to the next stage, or decide it's just not a match. But just like in public, the same guy the whole journey. It makes it easy and simple for me. No drama, no complications. Reading some of the posts, I have to assume not all guys talk or act, in public, like they do on here. hahaha. Who knows maybe wrong. sure that could be said for some of the ladies as well. But do you feel you approach someone you're interested in differently on here, than you do in public? Do you "embellish a little, or hell, a lot? (just a footnote, if you didn't know this already, women can sense bullshit a mile away. )Have you ever showed up on a first date and thought, wow, this isn't even close to who I thought they were. Good or Bad. Do you ever think or plan about how you're going to attract some one? This is probably more directed at guys on the site, partly because there's such a lopsided ratio of men to women. But ladies sure you can relate to this from both sides. It just seems men seem to act a lot differently on here, than I would imagine they act in public. Note: for any and all, gay, bi, bi curious, trans..just substitute partner for him/her where I input my preferences. Not trying to exclude your input  " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx |
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My advice, when asked..is always the same. Life, love , and yes sex, is so much easier if you can just be yourself. You don't have to remember what you said, you don't have to worry about slipping up. It just simplifies everything. Although as a caveat, in regards to some of the responses I've heard women getting. If that's just you being you, then ignore my advice and try to change who you are. Just my opinion. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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You can tell a lot by how a person responds on here. Not just one post, but read through the lot of them. Your posts all come from the same angle, have the same type of humor. Outspoken, not shy, but not egotistical. Just natural..just you being you. I've never met you, but I'd be willing to bet, you're not far off in person as to how you are on the site. I could be wrong though. LOL.. Yeah, I think you're right on the flirting. I think a lot of men flirt to try to discern whether there is any interest, before the stick it out there, with the risk of getting shot down. Me , sure I flirt a lot, but it's more of a fun thing with me mostly. Though I'm big enough to admit, I also use it when I'm interested in someone and want to see what my chances are she feels the same. hahaha. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Do you really think making an appointment to meet with the manager of one of your favorite restaurants , outside of her job, was a good idea? What if something goes wrong, or you do get some action, but it wasn't good...then what? Korean women, while very sexual, can also be very possessive. Dude you're so lost in lala land it's not even funny. I described you as a misogamist. While now I'm sure that's correct, let me add racist, and ignorant. Of course it was a good idea. While I'm pretty sure people spit in your food at restaurants, I really don't have that worry. And Korean women are sexual, but possessive. Is that north or south koreans? Is it truly all of them, and do you know cause you've met all of them? Women are like leaves, there are no two alike. Associating an entire race with the same trait, is a best just plain stupid. At worst is a small minded, ignorant and racist viewpoint. don't go away mad, sad or any other emotion you care to portray... Just go away. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Dating tips from Heathen. Lucky you. I am not a good flirt. Even when I was younger and thinner, I assumed no man would be attracted, even though, I never lacked some male attention. So, I have always been me with no agenda. I see an appealing man but would never try to entice. I love her subtle way to reel you in. I need lessons. Enjoy the date.
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Dating tips from Heathen. Lucky you. I am not a good flirt. Even when I was younger and thinner, I assumed no man would be attracted, even though, I never lacked some male attention. So, I have always been me with no agenda. I see an appealing man but would never try to entice. I love her subtle way to reel you in. I need lessons. Enjoy the date. Well I think it's a good thing, obviously to just be yourself. But I think like a lot of people, you're selling yourself short. I'm sure you have lots to add to a relationship. It's hard to overcome being shy though. Maybe you could ask heathen for advice on that. Though I'm sure he'd just say it was something about you being female or your race. LOL. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Congratulations of your Heathen assessment  I am just myself. Honor code: tell the truth, be yourself- if not, it always catches you up ( yep that's backwards on purpose) Enjoy your date with the restaurant lady!! (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Congratulations of your Heathen assessment I am just myself. Honor code: tell the truth, be yourself- if not, it always catches you up ( yep that's backwards on purpose) Enjoy your date with the restaurant lady!! You are, without a doubt, one of those people. We're certainly on the same page as far as honesty goes. I've always liked the Twain quote, “When in doubt tell the truth. It will confound your enemies and astound your friends.” Have a great day. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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He would say I am too old and fat and the only one to want me would be drunk or really desperate. I don’t have to ask. Lucky us , all that knowledge
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Great questions and I am here who I am in real life, as I believe that's the way it should be. And as for dating god it's been years I wonder if I even still know how to do it..lol.. I hope your date goes well with her.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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He would say I am too old and fat and the only one to want me would be drunk or really desperate. I don’t have to ask. Lucky us , all that knowledge Hope you're having a great day. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I am probably a little more reserved in person. Since I am not sure of my attractiveness due to my size I rarely flirt. Although I am still inquisitive and will ask questions. One of my jokes is I don't get out much so I don't really have the chance to flirt. Since I am into sports I do have that angle to chat about. The weather is another good topic eh? When I was younger I was an overt flirt. I had a friend who had an amazing ability to flirt. She would smile and flip her hair. She would softly touch the person's arm. She was a nurse who was simply a kind and affectionate person. She lives in that Connecticut town that became infamous for it's school shooting. Her affability and affection most assuredly was a big asset in comforting people. I'm sorry to go off on a tangent. But this friend always comes to mind when I think of skillful flirting. ☺️ Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely
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I am probably a little more reserved in person. Since I am not sure of my attractiveness due to my size I rarely flirt. Although I am still inquisitive and will ask questions. One of my jokes is I don't get out much so I don't really have the chance to flirt. Since I am into sports I do have that angle to chat about. The weather is another good topic eh? When I was younger I was an overt flirt. I had a friend who had an amazing ability to flirt. She would smile and flip her hair. She would softly touch the person's arm. She was a nurse who was simply a kind and affectionate person. She lives in that Connecticut town that became infamous for it's school shooting. Her affability and affection most assuredly was a big asset in comforting people. I'm sorry to go off on a tangent. But this friend always comes to mind when I think of skillful flirting. ☺️ " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I could see that being the case. You seem honest and open, but it never hurts to be a little reserved when meeting new people. While I really don't have a shy bone in my body, I'm sure I do it to some extent as well. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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See you have gotten all upset about the periphery stuff...calling me names, guessing who I might be, my experience with Korean women... that you totally missed the Head Line..... "One of our favorite places"...What if something goes wrong , while going out with her? Keep going to the same restaurant? Or avoid the restaurant? Come on, be a man here, for a moment. LOL...dude you're under the impression that I care enough to get upset with anything on here...much less with you. Let me use your line...be a man here, for a moment. If anyone seems upset, it would appear to be you. You seem intelligent, but you can't see how your comment is racist? Really? Because you've had a experience with Korean women, you can say what they're like? All of them? Come on man, now who's missing the headline. Here's the deal. I read and comprehend very well. Either you just express your idea's horribly, or you have racist thoughts. It's not that hard. Either you are just misunderstood, or half the people on the blogs have blocked you for no apparent reason. Which one sounds more likely to be closer to the truth? I'm not angry in the least, and I've tried this once, but will try again. You and I are of two totally different mindsets. Surely you can see that. So avoid me, and I'll avoid you. If not, I'll just do what the rest did and block you. Again, be a man here and just agree to disagree. It's not that hard. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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