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You took her where on the first date?
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You took her where on the first date? I've been swamped lately, with family stuff and work, so I haven't posted in a few days. I had typed this out Monday and was gonna post it, but had to run up to the hospital. So I thought I'd post it today. You always hear that fact is at times stranger than fiction. Lot's of times, it can also be funnier. I was reading the news this morning and there was an article on bad first dates. Well, it said it was an article, it was really just a little tidbit of one lady and her bad first date. Still, it was worth mentioning, and got me thinking about some of my meets from here, vanilla sites and the ever fun setups from my friends. The story went like this. Seems she met this guy on a dating site. For their first date the guy tells her to wear something black. It's gonna be a surprise. Which she thought sounded sorta romantic.  Things were going well after he picked her up, good conversation. He seemed nice. Well until they pull up to a crematorium. Seems he needed a date to bring to his grandmothers funeral. She say's he told her, "Thought if I told you , you wouldn't come" LOL, ya think? As she put it, she didn't want to be a total bitch, so she stayed for the service. That right there is a trooper ladies and gents. I'm not sure I would have been so accommodating. While I think I've had some not so great first dates, I'm completely outclassed by this one. I've had a couple of crazy ones. I did a blog about a first date with a setup, from a friends wife. Spent the entire dinner listening to her bitch about every race, religion, or person not like her. Not much fun, but still not as bad as this poor lady. I've had one that showed up not looking anything like her picture. I mean, not even close. At least 15 years older, way heavier, and hell even shorter. Why would a woman lie about her height? LOL Then she screamed at me the whole way as I was heading back to my car. I told her, it wasn't the age, wasn't the difference in body, or even the fact she was at least 7 inches shorter than she said. It was the fact she chose to lie to me about everything. I actually put something in my old profile about her. Read something like , if one of us needs to wear a giant yellow sombrero so we can find each other in the restaurant, there's a problem. Over all though, I would say the vast majority of first dates I've had went off pretty well. We've known each other a bit, through messaging and at least texts, if not phone calls. Have you ever had the first date from hell? I'm assuming no one else has ever been to a funeral on a first date, but these days, I try not to be too surprised by anything. LOL " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx |
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I'm sure my bad first dates are pretty tame, but wondering if anyone can top being taken to a surprise funeral on a first date.  " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Ok....I'd rate that one worse than being taken to a funeral. Good for you, on your reaction. I always say, ladies should be real careful with who they meet online. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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And damn..I'm gone a few days and I miss everything. Just kick me if I start repeating stuff. LOL " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I don't think I've had enough first dates to have an awful one yet, lol. Actually, all have been pretty good. Although...this might count...sooo...in college I was seeing a guy (read that as we were fuck buddies), and he agreed to go out with my friends and me to celebrate my 21st birthday. We'd never been out together, so I guess you could call it our first date, haha. Anyways, we were bar hopping so I could collect my free drinks, and ended up at a place with dancing...he didn't want to dance, then vanished while I was dancing with a friend. When we were ready to leave, we found him in a car with another girl. They weren't doing anything at that moment, but still. Totally tacky dude. We parted ways, needless to say.  "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black
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That's the part that I always wonder about. Anyone can seem charming and nice...but then, is it just an act to get what you want. That's some real BS there. Yeah, more and more, mine are sounding pretty tame. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I don't think I've had enough first dates to have an awful one yet, lol. Actually, all have been pretty good. Although...this might count...sooo...in college I was seeing a guy (read that as we were fuck buddies), and he agreed to go out with my friends and me to celebrate my 21st birthday. We'd never been out together, so I guess you could call it our first date, haha. Anyways, we were bar hopping so I could collect my free drinks, and ended up at a place with dancing...he didn't want to dance, then vanished while I was dancing with a friend. When we were ready to leave, we found him in a car with another girl. They weren't doing anything at that moment, but still. Totally tacky dude. We parted ways, needless to say. That would count as a bad first date ..I think. I dated a lady on match a long while back. She told me a story of her date taking her to the river to swim. Then turns out he invited another lady too, and was making out with her. LOL And guys wonder why we get a bad rep.  " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I had one bad one that almost put me off dating for good..he was nothing like his pic the pic was at least 10-12 years old , 180 pounds more than what I seen in his profile and he smoked weed legally after he told me that he had a steel plate in his head from a bike accident years ago..Dirty and raggety and the guy was like an octopus hands everywhere..20 minutes I left but not till he handed me a bunch of roses and a joint the size of a mascara tube...nice gesture but no way was I impressed.. gave the joint to my friend who had back issues and the roses to my Mom ..couldn't bring the roses home to enjoy the cats would eat them like they did my other plants in the house lol
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My 2nd meet from here was on an approach to HIA (Hell International Airport) but I didn't crash. First, her car had crapped out so I pick her up at her place. She didn't look like the picture because it was over 10 years old - but she didn't look terrible either. I should have left then, but noooo. Next, her friends came by so we all went out together - they got stoned (I don't smoke). I should have left then, but noooo. We went to cowboy type places - I'm not the cowboy type. Wooo hooo. When we got back she wanted to "mess around" flopped on to the couch and . . . passed out. I threw a blanket over her and finally . . . left.  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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August 2, 1991 - while it wasn't exactly hell, it was not a good introduction ..... I was set up on a blind date by a couple of coworkers. I wasn't worried about safety so I agreed he could pick me up. The plan was dinner and a movie. He was 30 minutes late. Before dinner was over, I had heard his entire life story. He talked so long that we had missed the movie start time and had to catch the next show. He fell asleep in the theater. He snored. He did walk me to my door but was back at the curb, after a hasty cheek kiss, before I could even turn around and say good night. I ended up marrying the guy! Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Dinner at Waffle House, texting under the table the whole time. Yep, be still my heart.
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6/12/2018 15h13 |
That's a bad choice
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I had one bad one that almost put me off dating for good..he was nothing like his pic the pic was at least 10-12 years old , 180 pounds more than what I seen in his profile and he smoked weed legally after he told me that he had a steel plate in his head from a bike accident years ago..Dirty and raggety and the guy was like an octopus hands everywhere..20 minutes I left but not till he handed me a bunch of roses and a joint the size of a mascara tube...nice gesture but no way was I impressed.. gave the joint to my friend who had back issues and the roses to my Mom ..couldn't bring the roses home to enjoy the cats would eat them like they did my other plants in the house lol " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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My 2nd meet from here was on an approach to HIA (Hell International Airport) but I didn't crash. First, her car had crapped out so I pick her up at her place. She didn't look like the picture because it was over 10 years old - but she didn't look terrible either. I should have left then, but noooo. Next, her friends came by so we all went out together - they got stoned (I don't smoke). I should have left then, but noooo. We went to cowboy type places - I'm not the cowboy type. Wooo hooo. When we got back she wanted to "mess around" flopped on to the couch and . . . passed out. I threw a blanket over her and finally . . . left. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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August 2, 1991 - while it wasn't exactly hell, it was not a good introduction ..... I was set up on a blind date by a couple of coworkers. I wasn't worried about safety so I agreed he could pick me up. The plan was dinner and a movie. He was 30 minutes late. Before dinner was over, I had heard his entire life story. He talked so long that we had missed the movie start time and had to catch the next show. He fell asleep in the theater. He snored. He did walk me to my door but was back at the curb, after a hasty cheek kiss, before I could even turn around and say good night. I ended up marrying the guy! " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Dinner at Waffle House, texting under the table the whole time. Yep, be still my heart. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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That's a bad choice " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Those are some crazy first dates for sure, and can't say I have ever had a first date like those ever. As I am so very selective, and well I prefer quality over quanity just saying..I hope you have a great evening.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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So surprised any woman agrees to be picked up for a first date. I thought everyone knew to meet somewhere in a public setting. Same for a man. If he drives, he’s stuck with her until he takes her home. Lots of first dates for me. Never really creepy, quite a few times...really boring. I hate it when I have to keep the conversation going on my own. Of course, some didn’t look quite like their pictures, even if I asked for a recent one before meeting. Guess you need to be specific when you say “recent”. Funny, when you walk into the agreed upon place and you don’t recognize anyone. Once a man asked if I was disappointed that he wasn’t the other guy sitting nearby. I reluctantly lied and said I wasn’t. Lol For a time, many were leading to second and even more dates. Been a while. Not sure if I’m getting more picky or the selection isn’t what it used to be.
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I don't recall bad first dates. If it was bad, - I'd get the vibe... way before that first outing. I'm not saying all dates were great, just that the explosive, epic fails were rarely the first ones. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Boring doesn't sound like much fun either. and that link was just some shit. That kind of stuff makes my blood boil. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Those are some crazy first dates for sure, and can't say I have ever had a first date like those ever. As I am so very selective, and well I prefer quality over quanity just saying..I hope you have a great evening.. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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So surprised any woman agrees to be picked up for a first date. I thought everyone knew to meet somewhere in a public setting. Same for a man. If he drives, he’s stuck with her until he takes her home. Lots of first dates for me. Never really creepy, quite a few times...really boring. I hate it when I have to keep the conversation going on my own. Of course, some didn’t look quite like their pictures, even if I asked for a recent one before meeting. Guess you need to be specific when you say “recent”. Funny, when you walk into the agreed upon place and you don’t recognize anyone. Once a man asked if I was disappointed that he wasn’t the other guy sitting nearby. I reluctantly lied and said I wasn’t. Lol For a time, many were leading to second and even more dates. Been a while. Not sure if I’m getting more picky or the selection isn’t what it used to be. Besides that one I described, I've never been on a date where we didn't recognize each other from our pics. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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You're a smart lady. Yeah, it's a shame how dangerous it can be these days. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I don't recall bad first dates. If it was bad, - I'd get the vibe... way before that first outing. I'm not saying all dates were great, just that the explosive, epic fails were rarely the first ones. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Since I was previously active on a "phone chat system" before joining this site, I've had my share of Bad First Dates, courtesy of both methods - but all of mine, added up, don't come close to accompanying someone to a funeral. Thank you for this story. The ONLY thing that could have made it better was if YOU were the person being asked out on the date. Just a minute, I wouldn't want to wish that on a friend. Just consider that previous paragraph Deleted. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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