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Blogs > Letsmeetandfindo > My thoughts and observations

Married and having an affair
 

Letsmeetandfindo 65H
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16/1/2019 20h01
Married and having an affair
In your opinion, if you are married is it safer to be seeing another married person or someone that is single (unattached)? Please comment as to why you voted one way or the other .
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Letsmeetandfindo 65H

16/1/2019 20h04

 My thinking is that it might be safer to see another married person due to each party having something at stake.


jajo696 113F
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16/1/2019 20h18

 absolutely....you both are in the same position with much to lose and much to risk.


Heathen_G 65H
7974 messages
16/1/2019 20h22

 You're right, from the married persons perspective, having an affair with another married person is less risky than having the affair with a single person.

But.... from the single persons perspective, having an affair with the married individual is also less risky, than having the affair with another single person.


jDn3628 34H

16/1/2019 20h28

 Wish I knew the answer to this.


Txmedic79423 51H
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16/1/2019 20h34

 Good points


DaytimeFWB66 46H  
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16/1/2019 20h42

 I agree. Always have an affair with married person.


IVFalternative 53H
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16/1/2019 20h44

 Depends on the danger you are trying to avoid.

If you're trying to avoid your wife finding out, a married woman is best.

If you're trying to avoid being shot by a jealous husband then single women would be best.

If you're trying to avoid a committed relationship developing, a married woman with a rich husband is best.
Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


funsnellvillecpl 66H/54F  
3901 messages
16/1/2019 20h53

 I chose married because less chance of catching something


terex6957 66H
144 messages
16/1/2019 20h53

 Single or married doesn't seem to matter it just depends on who they feel can keep a secret and not spread gossip


jim617772 73H

16/1/2019 21h04

 Married less likely to talk to other people


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

16/1/2019 21h38
    Citer jajo696:
    absolutely....you both are in the same position with much to lose and much to risk.
My type of thinking on the risk factor.


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

16/1/2019 21h40
    Citer Heathen_G:
    You're right, from the married persons perspective, having an affair with another married person is less risky than having the affair with a single person.

    But.... from the single persons perspective, having an affair with the married individual is also less risky, than having the affair with another single person.
Makes sense. Lots of variables to consider.


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

16/1/2019 21h42
    Citer jDn3628:
    Wish I knew the answer to this.
We do never know. To borrow a quote from an Indiana Jones movie “ it’s a leap of faith”.


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

16/1/2019 21h45
    Citer terex6957:
    Single or married doesn't seem to matter it just depends on who they feel can keep a secret and not spread gossip
Valid point. Your partner in crime needs to be on the same page as you .


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

16/1/2019 21h47
    Citer funsnellvillecpl:
    I chose married because less chance of catching something
This should be true. But you never know the character behind the character you are seeing. At least until you get to know them.


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

16/1/2019 21h49
    Citer IVFalternative:
    Depends on the danger you are trying to avoid.

    If you're trying to avoid your wife finding out, a married woman is best.

    If you're trying to avoid being shot by a jealous husband then single women would be best.

    If you're trying to avoid a committed relationship developing, a married woman with a rich husband is best.
Seems like logical thought.


Hornywithtaste 48H
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17/1/2019 12h36

 I didn't vote because I think the risk is 50/50. Not all single women are looking for love or marriage. If they're career professionals discretion is important to them too.

With a married woman, not feeling satisfied with what she has now, is as likely to develop feelings or dish with one of her girlfriends. The risk of getting caught increases if the spouses don't know, because now 2 people are making excuses, covering up, increasing potential to be caught.


lyavu 50F
1538 messages
17/1/2019 2h33

 Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site .


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

17/1/2019 3h35

 That’s a very good point. No risk if a married person just avoids having the affair all together.


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

17/1/2019 3h41
    Citer lyavu:
    Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site .
Your observation about the number of married people on the site is a good one. It also brings up the question: How many married people check off the married box on here? Full disclosure.

But there are some very good marriages out there. Thanks.


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

17/1/2019 3h44
    Citer Hornywithtaste:
    I didn't vote because I think the risk is 50/50. Not all single women are looking for love or marriage. If they're career professionals discretion is important to them too.

    With a married woman, not feeling satisfied with what she has now, is as likely to develop feelings or dish with one of her girlfriends. The risk of getting caught increases if the spouses don't know, because now 2 people are making excuses, covering up, increasing potential to be caught.
Seems to be another good observation. So it sounds that if you see a married person, the best situation might be is if they are in an open marriage.


bitchkitty2017 71F

17/1/2019 6h29
    Citer lyavu:
    Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site .
The first sensible comment and the only sensible comment on this blog ..people waste so much time with their lives in getting married and a lot do it knowing they will often cheat..People that cheat with another cheaters , Whats to say the cheaters aren't screwing a lot of people? There is no guarantee you wont end up with stds its no safer than singles screwing whatever comes their way...


Letsmeetandfindo 65H

17/1/2019 7h40
    Citer bitchkitty2017:
    The first sensible comment and the only sensible comment on this blog ..people waste so much time with their lives in getting married and a lot do it knowing they will often cheat..People that cheat with another cheaters , Whats to say the cheaters aren't screwing a lot of people? There is no guarantee you wont end up with stds its no safer than singles screwing whatever comes their way...
It’s about the character or lack of character of the person. So agreed.


Rwefuckin 50H

17/1/2019 11h26

 It would make the most sense to deal with someone who has just as much to lose as you do. If you decide to deal with another married person, hopefully the person is as discreet as they say they are.


allnitelong2063 60H
233 messages
17/1/2019 13h02

 I prefer married


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