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The matter of honesty ...  

starstorm1959 65F
23 messages
8/2/2019 15h02
The matter of honesty ...


Three times. THREE. That's how many times in one month I've found out that an passion friend is either A) married, when he said he was divorced or B ) supposedly in an open marriage when his wife is actually oblivious to his playing around. I had been sleeping with one of these guys for quite a while. I felt pretty betrayed because he was a friend – I thought. But, what REALLY makes me feel bad are the women – I can't imagine being lied to like that.

Here's what I want to tell these guys: I GET that there are a lot of horrible wives and I GET that things can be far from OK in a marriage, but for God's sake, man up and DO something: Get her to agree to an open marriage ... as best friends or ships that pass in the night, whatever fits; or, TELL her what your feeling and TRY to work it out; or, LEAVE. Seriously. The kids'll probably be relieved because guess what? They already KNOW you can't stand each other! Just don't lie to everyone involved!

Psychopathy. It is a biological brain defect that results in the complete absence of a conscience and complete inability to feel compassion, shame, love, or even hate. There ARE no emotions; just a need to self-satisfy. What's unnerving is that quite a few of these guys are psychopaths. Caution, girlfriends, CAUTION!

To my friends who ARE honest and authentic men, THANK you! I appreciate you so much and enjoy every moment with you! You are the salt of my world and the sugar on my lips ... Muwah!


starstorm1959 65F

8/2/2019 15h07

And, if anyone can tell me how to show this in forums, I'd love to hear!


92camaro66 57H
1753 messages
8/2/2019 15h23

wait till you show up for a meet and they look NOTHING like in their pics.....OMG i had to walk away one time and felt horrible.....but you deceived me. women do it too.
maybe create a forum post copy and save this and then try to post it....you may have to type it all gain but it is a damn worthy statement and post


sweetyman3434 57H

8/2/2019 15h25

xxxxxxxxxxxx


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/2/2019 15h41

I agree with this comment and if married couples would practice more in the communication dept there would be more understanding between the two about knowing when its time to get a line of communication going, sadly most couples stop talking ...


starstorm1959 65F

8/2/2019 15h49

    Citer 92camaro66:
    wait till you show up for a meet and they look NOTHING like in their pics.....OMG i had to walk away one time and felt horrible.....but you deceived me. women do it too.
    maybe create a forum post copy and save this and then try to post it....you may have to type it all gain but it is a damn worthy statement and post
, OMG! So far, that hasn't happened and yeah I'd feel bad, too, BUT ... alot of attraction is about looks, right? Oh, believe me, I KNOW the women do it too - I hear ALLLLL about it from my friends. Well, thanks for the vote of confidence and advice!


starstorm1959 65F

8/2/2019 15h51

Thanks, Sweety! Hugs back!!


starstorm1959 65F

8/2/2019 15h59

Granny, you're probably right. Pretty sad all the way around ...


starstorm1959 65F

8/2/2019 16h01

    Citer bitchkitty2017:
    I agree with this comment and if married couples would practice more in the communication dept there would be more understanding between the two about knowing when its time to get a line of communication going, sadly most couples stop talking ...
Kitty, true. Communication is HUGE!


Loslobo264 63H
1 message
8/2/2019 16h30

well said.


starstorm1959 65F

8/2/2019 18h31

Thank you, Loslobo!


lonlyforlove2 81H  
32704 messages
8/2/2019 20h03

Young Lady, We see it also from the other side, well said, kudos to you..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


starstorm1959 65F

8/2/2019 22h00

    Citer lonlyforlove2:
    Young Lady, We see it also from the other side, well said, kudos to you..
Lonlyforlove, I KNOW you do. Well, cheers, hon, because authentic and principled men and women DO exist!


Paulxx001 67H
22642 messages
9/2/2019 5h56

Three times.. Men.. Go figure... 🤔
Yep. I'd be ticked if that happened to me.
I imagine fear and your theory about personality disorders are popular reasons.... 😱
Good luck.... I'm sure you deserve it! 😍👌


starstorm1959 65F

9/2/2019 7h40

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Three times.. Men.. Go figure... 🤔
    Yep. I'd be ticked if that happened to me.
    I imagine fear and your theory about personality disorders are popular reasons.... 😱
    Good luck.... I'm sure you deserve it! 😍👌
Thanks, Paul!


curiousone20144 49H  
21 messages
16/2/2019 22h37

Best of luck finding a true friend!


starstorm1959 65F

17/2/2019 6h55

Thank you, Curious!


leather63 60H
816 messages
1/3/2019 9h22

Well stated your vebral accumen might not be misunderstood by the average passion member but i think you hit it right on the spot! I might add you are an incredibly beautiful woman in a most understated way, with a mind best of the best for ladies! Hope we can become friends!


starstorm1959 65F

1/3/2019 16h41

    Citer leather63:
    Well stated your vebral accumen might not be misunderstood by the average passion member but i think you hit it right on the spot! I might add you are an incredibly beautiful woman in a most understated way, with a mind best of the best for ladies! Hope we can become friends!
Well, thank you, leather63! I believe that's very possible - let's chat!


starstorm1959 65F

9/4/2019 13h59

Thank you, Buddieboy!


hungsailorman69 85H
67 messages
21/6/2019 13h17

I agree with you, there are a lot of fakes out there, women too, I always go through the meet though, just being polite. the ones that clicked turned out wonderful. Jim


starstorm1959 65F

22/6/2019 7h03

Yes, me too. Thanks, Jim!


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