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Why? Yes, I asked you why
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Why? Yes, I asked you why We all have sex, (some more than others) and we all have our reasons. People have sex for a variety of reasons. Recent studies have allowed us to try and understand why it is we have sex, feel the need to have sex - feel compelled to have sex with someone, it goes well beyond simply; love, pleasure, and making babies. Here are a few of said reasons: Physical reasons: Pleasure, stress relief, exercise, sexual curiosity, or attraction to a person. Insecurity reasons: To boost self-esteem, keep a partner from seeking sex elsewhere, or feeling a sense of duty or pressure (for example, a partner insists on having sex) Goal-based reasons: To make a baby, improve social status (for example, to become popular), or seek revenge The Difference Between the Sexes Generally speaking, men seek sex because they like how it feels. Women, although they very well may also derive pleasure from the act, are generally more interested in the relationship enhancement that sex offers. Researchers describe these differences as body-centered versus person-centered sex. Body-centered sex is when you have sex because you like the way it makes your body feel. You aren't concerned with the emotions of your partner. Person-centered sex is when you have sex to connect with the other person. You care about the emotions involved and the relationship. Boil it all down and this is what you get ... the most popular reason people say they engage in sexual activity: - Boosting mood and relieving depression - Duty - Enhancement of power - Enhancement of self-concept - Experiencing the power of one’s partner - Feeling loved by your partner - Fostering jealousy - Improving reputation or social status - Making money - Making babies - Need for affection - Nurturance - Partner novelty - Peer pressure or pressure from partner - Pleasure - Reducing sex drive - Revenge - Sexual curiosity - Showing love to your partner - Spiritual transcendence .  WARNING: I am always void where prohibited by law. Theme song: Nina Simone - Sinnerman |
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