So Once Again.......  

GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1737 messages
21/6/2018 18h41
So Once Again.......

So once again I am contacted (emailed) by an idiot man who feels he needs to comment about my profile. This happened out of the blue. I've never contacted him, never viewed his profile (until this), never interacted with him at all.

Instead of just reading my profile (his choice), deciding it, or me more specifiy, isn't for him, and just moving along....he decides to get mean and email me.

What makes some men do this? Just your basic being an asshole would be my guess.

Any else wanna give me some thoughts on this?

I've read many a man's profile and thought to myself....what a douche bag or some other negative thought, but not once have I ever sent a mean - unsolicited email to them! Now I HAVE sent emails commenting in a positive way if a man's profile is thoughtful and "speaks" to me.

So below you will find our exchange, it remains to be seen if he replies any further...

Oh....btw - my comment to him about being able to get laid anytime I want was not inspired by conceit.....only the knowledge that 99.9% of women on this site can most likely say the same thing......lol

He says he's a DOM....so perhaps a strong woman, who won't take any shit...knows what she wants (and doesn't), and verbalizes that....scares him or some other little boy BS. Or perhaps I'm just a head case? Nah.....I'm sane...I promise....

I can be a smart ass however....lol

His profile says he's attached....so seems to me he's a cheating liar!

Good luck buddy..... play safe (IF you find a woman on here)...and don't get dirty!!.....lol



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GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
21/6/2018 18h44

Here's your diploma my friend....you've earned it!!

Yep I can be a smart ass....I can live with it....lol


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cinnamon0133 54F  
17904 messages
21/6/2018 19h10

Wow! What a dick! I have no idea wtf his problem would be. Wtf???

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papis_baby_girl 41F
5085 messages
21/6/2018 19h29

the internet is full of people with much bravura...

you know... anonymity and all...

lord knows I behave badly sometimes when I'm here... but mostly calling out bullshit...nothing personally... well not much personally

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ZorroResbaloso 47H  
19 messages
21/6/2018 19h50

This place is so full of shitheads and idiots who don't understand what the site is really about. Of course there will always be 10x as many dudes as women on things like this, but I'm learning that huge numbers of these idiots also believe any girl will fuck anyone. They don't think of the women as real women or something like that I'd guess. Just fucking idiots.

The other thing I've noticed is dudes kind of trying anything to get laid. Looking like fools. Who volunteers themselves as available to random man/woman couples they don't know?? Who creates a group with 3 other guys and try to find women to gang bang. Who joins a swinger group as a single guy not knowing anyone thinking they'll likely get lucky? It's pathetic. Get some naked women & there will be a shit load of dudes hanging around that aren't willing to be a part of real fun, or have no idea what real fun should be.
And I'm not claiming anything - to be a connection pro or anything. But I'm also not a complete clueless idiot who thinks like a woman is a whore, they'll get laid w/out doing anything. So many douchebags.


CarriedBack 57H  
95 messages
21/6/2018 23h04

You're a woman with a brain. He's a man with a penis. That's basically the only explanation you need or that makes sense.

And, BTW, I'm a man with a penis. (And maybe a tiny bit of functioning gray matter, too.)

Godspeed.


author51 56F  
77080 messages
22/6/2018 12h12

I have not had one in a while my friend but have had my share of bashing when I say No thanks but I have someone..As soon as they reply back with a negative comment I block them immediately..This world and this site is full of douchebags unfortunately....sorry it happened to you...

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Story435 71H
2697 messages
22/6/2018 4h17

Some people are dumn asses. If you can't say something good don't say anything at all!
Butch


pocogato12 67F  
27402 messages
22/6/2018 7h06

Blocking is a fairly fair measure when this happens. And there are lots of them on here. Just walk on by- the effort to re-train them is futile Happy Friday

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Kalbi54 64H  
1163 messages
22/6/2018 7h11

That's different. I've heard of guys getting mean when being rejected or being a no show but out of the blue for no reason? I guess that's his *hook*.


let_me_see1 60H  
652 messages
22/6/2018 13h05

I hope he has a "plan b" because his first plan will not get him much action. Then again, maybe be a total tool is the only action he can ever get on here! I hope you are doing well!

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GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
23/6/2018 18h44

    Citer cinnamon0133:
    Wow! What a dick! I have no idea wtf his problem would be. Wtf???
Hmmmm....that would be a good ,descriptive word for him....lol

I have no idea what his problem is/was with me. I guess he didn't like my long profile.

He can go pound sand......lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
23/6/2018 18h47

    Citer papis_baby_girl:
    the internet is full of people with much bravura...

    you know... anonymity and all...

    lord knows I behave badly sometimes when I'm here... but mostly calling out bullshit...nothing personally... well not much personally
That is so true....hide behind a keyboard and attack.

I call out bullshit sometimes as well...hence this blog and a few others. I'm not adverse to getting personal, if someone wants to go that route first.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
23/6/2018 18h50

    Citer ZorroResbaloso:
    This place is so full of shitheads and idiots who don't understand what the site is really about. Of course there will always be 10x as many dudes as women on things like this, but I'm learning that huge numbers of these idiots also believe any girl will fuck anyone. They don't think of the women as real women or something like that I'd guess. Just fucking idiots.

    The other thing I've noticed is dudes kind of trying anything to get laid. Looking like fools. Who volunteers themselves as available to random man/woman couples they don't know?? Who creates a group with 3 other guys and try to find women to gang bang. Who joins a swinger group as a single guy not knowing anyone thinking they'll likely get lucky? It's pathetic. Get some naked women & there will be a shit load of dudes hanging around that aren't willing to be a part of real fun, or have no idea what real fun should be.
    And I'm not claiming anything - to be a connection pro or anything. But I'm also not a complete clueless idiot who thinks like a woman is a whore, they'll get laid w/out doing anything. So many douchebags.
There are all kinds on here, and plenty of douche bags to go around. I guess it takes all kinds to make up a site like this.

To be fair there are some nice gents on here too....those are the ones worth talking to...

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GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
23/6/2018 18h54

    Citer CarriedBack:
    You're a woman with a brain. He's a man with a penis. That's basically the only explanation you need or that makes sense.

    And, BTW, I'm a man with a penis. (And maybe a tiny bit of functioning gray matter, too.)

    Godspeed.
Yes, you are correct. I have a brain - although we don't know the idiot that contacted me has a penis.....lol

Perhaps it is a very short one...and that's his problem...who knows? He doesn't seem to have too much gray matter, that's for sure!

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GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
23/6/2018 18h59

    Citer author51:
    I have not had one in a while my friend but have had my share of bashing when I say No thanks but I have someone..As soon as they reply back with a negative comment I block them immediately..This world and this site is full of douchebags unfortunately....sorry it happened to you...
Yes....I'm sure many women on here have experienced their share of clueless douchebags who feel the need to verbally beat up on a woman. Well this one was called to task for it....lol

He will be blocked for sure - the list seems to grow longer..

Thanks for the sympathy....

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GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
23/6/2018 19h01

    Citer Story435:
    Some people are dumn asses. If you can't say something good don't say anything at all!
    Butch
Yes they are Butch...and I agree.I try to be nice to everyone, but I'm not adverse to give something back if necessary.

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GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
23/6/2018 19h04

    Citer pocogato12:
    Blocking is a fairly fair measure when this happens. And there are lots of them on here. Just walk on by- the effort to re-train them is futile Happy Friday
Blocking is my usual procedure when this crap happens. I don't need the BS.

I'm sure this one is un-trainable for sure....lol

He most likely is in for a long, hot, lonely summer!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
23/6/2018 19h08

    Citer Kalbi54:
    That's different. I've heard of guys getting mean when being rejected or being a no show but out of the blue for no reason? I guess that's his *hook*.
Yes, I've had them get pissy and resort to boorish behavior when I've nicely rejected them. This was definitely out of the blue and I have no idea why.

Perhaps he didn't like my long profile or what I had to say...and that was enough for him....and I'm the one that is a head case? Hmmmmm.....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
23/6/2018 19h12

    Citer let_me_see1:
    I hope he has a "plan b" because his first plan will not get him much action. Then again, maybe be a total tool is the only action he can ever get on here! I hope you are doing well!
I doubt any of his plans will get him much success, and he is certainly a tool. To attack a woman for no apparent reason seems to indicate he may have the problem.....

I'm doing pretty good. Working the nights and sleeping during the day is the norm for me....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


lookn4yu2day 67H  
80 messages
24/6/2018 21h43

My thought..... this person read your profile and he feels jealous of you. He likes what he sees and reads about you from your profile.... but he will not admit that as he feels you would assuredly feel and know he is not right for you.

He realizes you are "out of his league" and he might be striking out on account of that. Since he can't get your desired attention, he will attempt to make you feel bad.


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
25/6/2018 6h18

    Citer lookn4yu2day:
    My thought..... this person read your profile and he feels jealous of you. He likes what he sees and reads about you from your profile.... but he will not admit that as he feels you would assuredly feel and know he is not right for you.

    He realizes you are "out of his league" and he might be striking out on account of that. Since he can't get your desired attention, he will attempt to make you feel bad.
Hmmm....that's an interesting thought.

He certainly would not be for me because he judged me without even knowing me. I do believe that he tried to make me feel bad, but the only thing he did was piss me off!

I've thought about this, and I realized I had an ex lover that worked in the city/town that his profile says he's from. Some of the info doesn't match up, but with all the fake profiles out there...who knows.

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andreBBC4u 43H  
98 messages
25/6/2018 13h09

Isn’t passion fun? Yes I’m sure it a challenge for the women on here with having to deal with idiots like that. makes it harder for the real men on here who would enjoy meeting a fine woman like yourself


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
27/6/2018 18h59

It can be a challenge for women on here for sure! I'm a nice woman (unless mistreated), have an honest (albeit long) profile and don't bother anyone. It is a shame that a few bad apples make it harder for decent guys to get a chance.

Thank you for your lovely compliment...

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Paulxx001 62H
9406 messages
30/8/2018 9h30

Wow . . .eeeeee I'll be sure to review my profile for typos and contractions . . . Obviously I don't get hammered here, in the same way women do. Without knowing much more - I'd say he was 1. Drunk 2. Pissed that he wasn't getting laid 3. Just wanted to piss someone else off so he could make himself feel better. 4. He was drunk . I used spell check and had a friend verify my sentence structure - blame them ! lol Take care . . .

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GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1786 messages
4/9/2018 15h33

LOL.....I only correct the spelling or contraction usage of ass wipes!

I'm not sure why he decided to contact me and be rather mean, but I can tell you this...he deactivated his profile. I guess he wasn't having much luck.

Hmmmmm....I wonder why?

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nosos68 68H  
22 messages
17/5/2019 13h04

Next time you get one of these dorks that cannot converse with a woman without putting her down tell him : "Jesus loves you--the rest of the world thinks you are an asshole."


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