I have found myself doing this. We post what we are looking for and say looks do not matter then when we see the pictures of the person replying to our post we think nope he/she is too ugly or too far or too short. Why do we do this when we say we don’t care about looks. I myself have said no too tall for me and even said she looks average. So I am guilty but lately I’ve been trying to stick to what I really mean when I say I don’t care about looks.