Boundaries and respect
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Publié :19/11/2014 16h25
Dernière mise à jour :7/12/2014 14h33 2020 vues
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We've set some boundaries for our first experience. And while we realize we have to find the couple or woman first, it is an important part of making the experience comfortable for each other. I have to be respectful of his and he needs to be respectful of mine.
A new friend also suggested it is important NOT to change the rules mid-game. I think this is an excellent idea, it ensures no one feels pressured in the heat of the moment to make a decision that, perhaps, they might not be comfortable making on the fly.
It would also be important for the other players to be informed of the rules in advance, to ensure everyone is playing with the same expectations. If the other players can't or won't, then the play is over. And both of us need to be willing to walk away if this happens.
Not every experience is going to be perfect, and not every meet is going to lead to anything else. But if we go in with our boundaries and expectations made clear we can, at least, avoid any bad experiences. I want to play, but i expect my boundaries to be respected, please. This doesn't mean I'm not open to making changes for the next experience, but i don't want to walk away regretting a decision that could affect the most important relationship in my life.
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Showoff for Him
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Publié :18/11/2014 13h09
Dernière mise à jour :16/7/2016 23h53 2234 vues
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Things have changed dramatically in our lives over the last year and a bit. We've gone from communicating poorly, to being frustrated with each other, to learning how to really talk to each other - and surprising each other with our limits.
He loves showing me off. And loves me showing off for him.
We are looking to find the right couple or woman to play with. I want to experience how it would be to have a woman touch me, caress me, arouse me to orgasm. And i want him to watch, getting hard from the view. After she and i are done, i want him to fuck me, hard.
If she's part of a couple, i want them to do the same. Knowing that the sight of she and i together made our men want us. I also want to be able to see the pleasure she gets from being fucked by her man.
If she's a single, i want to keep playing with her as he fucks me. Make her cum as i make him cum.
But....i realize that cultivating some friendships and learning how to meet like minded people is a key piece of the whole plan. So here we are, trying to meet people and maybe make a special friend or two or four or....
xoxoxo
Showoff for Him
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